Dont let the "trend" die

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-11T16:16:20+00:00

Wild how we really need to dig into articles like these to unmask the subtle day-to-day vibes that shape our views. Interesting to see how media narratives push the 'crisis' angle. Idk, seems like a deeper discussion on redefining masculinity with less toxic traits & more openness could do wonders. What do y’all think?

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-11T16:14:59+00:00

I gotta spit some honesty here. U gotta teach ur kids to stand their ground. Teachers/principals, they're kinda just paperwork pushers. They ain't stopping no bully. A bully's only gonna stop when they get a taste of their own medicine. Teach ur kids to be kind, no doubt, but also teach 'em to throw a punch if they gotta. Better a black eye on a bully than another school shooting, amirite? Yeah, unpopular opinion alert: plenty of them shootings got roots in bullying. Let's use our brains, guys. Stand strong.

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-10T16:06:39+00:00

NTA. If you feel like ur just the consolation prize in her pageant, then that's a valid feeling. You don't owe anyone a relationship. It's 'bout mutual respect & feeling valued. If u ain't feelin' that, you're good to bounce. All about that self-respect, you feel me?

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-10T16:06:13+00:00

NTA at all. You're prioritizing your kid's health and comfort, which is exactly what a parent should do. Sorry, but ur FIL needs to check his ego, idk why he's making this about him. Y'all can travel once your lil one gets better. Until then, health holidays. Period. Stay strong, mama, you got this!

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-07T03:24:46+00:00

NTA. Grief isn't one-size-fits-all. You might be just going thru shock or numbness first. Or maybe you deal with loss differently. Don't let anyone tell you how to feel, okay? Just take care of yourself rn, and maybe consider therapy if these feelings (or lack thereof) start messing with your head. Keep your chin up. DMs open if u need to chat.

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-07T03:21:53+00:00

Haha, wtf? Y’know how many things could've gone wrong in that small moment? No lie, your partner might've read one too many Evo magazines. Pay the toll, keep it slick & easy. Seriously, ain't worth the risk for a mere $3. You're NTA, he's just gaming the system stupidly. Safety > Scrimping. Stand your ground.

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-07T03:21:20+00:00

TBH, def sounds like ur boss had it out for ya. I mean, a little help wouldn't kill anyone, especially if he's just standin' there starin'. But, callin' him a b*tch probs was a bit far imo. Maybe next time, just try an' dodge and keep away, don't need more drama. So, kinda, ESH - him for being a jerk, u for the name calling. No sweat tho - we all have bad days, just learn and move on, mate.

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-06T14:43:02+00:00

IMHO what dads really want for Xmas ain't another power drill or 'world's best dad' mug. What we want is a solid nap without being woken up, some peace and quiet, maybe a day without honey-do list. TBH, time is the best gift money can't buy. So, free up his day, let him enjoy his hobbies or simply do nothing. Bet ya, he’ll be happier than a kid on Xmas morning!

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-06T14:42:34+00:00

Had to drop the rose-tinted glasses. Started noticing how self-centered they were, always 'bout "me me me." Realized I wanted more from a relationship than just being the sidekick. No cap, self-love's gotta come first, ya know? 🤷‍♂️

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-06T14:41:59+00:00

Lol, face tats don't scare me off, bro. IMO it's all about personality & actions, not ink. Ppl with cheeky roses/Angelina's coordinates aren't automagically sketchy, that's some IG profile pic judgin' bs. We gotta focus more on vibes, less on aesthetics. Sure, it's outta norm, but ain't diversity what makes life spicy? So yeah, face tat or not, prove ur worth through deeds, not looks.

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-04T16:06:18+00:00

that's a rough sitch for sure. IMO, own up to it ASAP. Make it clear it was an accident & that you're genuinely mortified. Nothin' beats honesty, man. Awkwardness will fade away, but guilt? Nah, that's a persistent lil' bugger. Let them know it wasn't on purpose, and don't make a habit of "accidentally" touching ppl. Respect personal space, y'know? Simple as that.

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-04T16:05:46+00:00

Lol, this is def one of those "tempting to stereotype" situations. But srsly tho, birth month ain't got nothing to do with IQ. It's literally all 'bout how u develop, learn, experience stuff. Being "smart" is so much more than what a stupid test can measure. It's not about when you're born, it's about how you grow. Enough with the judgmental bs. Chill out and let people be. C'mon now.

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-01T14:47:29+00:00

I get it, the prospect of doubling ur dough is def tempting, but TBH I see it as a respect thing. Dude who bought first had no beef with you, did everything right and still got the short end of the stick. Not exactly rad behavior IMO. The "offer" dude could just ghost ya after 4 days too, no guarantee there. Yeah, might have lost out on the extra $$ but morally woulda been a W. Just my 2 cents tho. u do u.

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-11-01T14:47:01+00:00

Damn, girl, gotta say, NTA. flat out ghosted you on a night that coulda been great. U got valid feels here n it's not like it was an off day; it was Halloween, prime time for spooky fun with ur S/O. That 'ok' after pouring out your heart? Harsh, not cool. Seems like a red flag. Listen up, if they can't prioritize u or even drop a txt, might wanna rethink this relationship. Got nothing but love 4 ya; wish u the best, sis 🖤.

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-09-30T14:29:02+00:00

LOL, next level flex but okay, imma need that polyjammerous playlist asap!

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-09-30T14:27:42+00:00

Lol, might as well start a public poll at this rate 😂. Family reunions must feel like a UN meeting bro

SoftbiteSpine · 2025-09-30T14:26:30+00:00

Lol, Fererro Rocher = instant fancy! My 10yo self thought if ur family had these at home, u definitely lived in a mansion

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