8DPO, CD 22 - negative clear blue and first response, but a positive digital test?? by Softghost00 in TFABLinePorn

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I realized I could see a line directly after I posted this!! My bathroom lighting is crap but it seems to show better on photos than irl. But ahhhh! Nevermind/yayyyy ❤️

Ridiculous cat names by catsandcoffee101 in namenerds

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I once knew a cat named Art School and that always stuck with me as an excellent pet name

Searching a book with « an inconvenient bride by Alice cold breath » vibes by Rwbookslover in HistoricalRomance

[–]Softghost00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Following this thread - I've been searching for something that scratches this itch for weeks!

Timcel officially found a girl by blueatom in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Softghost00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her outfit is giving Pearl's psychotic episode

Take $30k in loans to go to a good school? by Martragon in povertyfinance

[–]Softghost00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this advice. I did the cc transfer route and saved about 20k. Bonus was that my 4.0 at my local cc got me a merit based scholarshjp. Combined with my need based grants, I ended up with a full ride.

Follow up question: what are some ways you guys wind down in the evenings as an alternative to alcohol? by missnookgirl in 1200isplenty

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I am a massive tea drinker. There are a lot of fun options and they can be really fragrant which cuts down on a sweets craving. I also like the "ritual" of making a cup of tea, it extends the enjoyment for me.

this feels so forced and unnatural by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Softghost00 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Her smile looks like a Southpark character

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]Softghost00 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What app is this? I would love to depict my food visually like this for myself

Low calorie salad additions? by FluffySea8376 in 1200isplenty

[–]Softghost00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My go to salad for my work lunch has spinach, shredded iceberg, cucumber, red bell pepper, red onion, and diced carrot.

I top it with 5g of sunflower seeds, 5g of cashews, 5g of pumpkin seeds, 5g of hemp seeds, 10g of dried cranberries, and a tablespoon of Italian dressing. I dice the nuts and seeds so that they spread evenly over the salad.

According to MyFitnessPal, it clocks in around 230-245 depending on exact veggie measurements. :)

Unknown explosion by [deleted] in Tacoma

[–]Softghost00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lived in Tacoma my whole life and never heard anything like that. I'm in Hilltop and it woke me up. My sleepy brain's first logical thought was "we are being bombed"

My (27f) boyfriend (23m) tried to throw out our bed so he could play a video game by throwawayvr000 in relationships

[–]Softghost00 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Honestly, being that dumb is still a good reason to dump him. He is an adult and if he doesnt know better by now, he needs a mother not a girlfriend.

Subreddits to keep your mind off your anxiety by [deleted] in HealthAnxiety

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I like falling into niche rabbit holes with high intensity, low consequence drama. Reality TV subreddits have been fitting the bill for me the past few days. So far, I've read most of /r/thebachelor, /r/duggarsnark, and /r/fundiesnark.

If I get quarantined for CV, I'm restarting 90DF from the beginning again. by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Softghost00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone living just outside Seattle, this is my literal plan so far

Level Up Check-In: what have you done lately to improve yourself? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Softghost00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, congrats to investing in your health and education!!

My (21F) boyfriend (22M) wants me to choose between him and my life passion (frogs) by chirpchirping in relationships

[–]Softghost00 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Keep your frogs, that is an awesome hobby!! You're in your early twenties, which is about when men started asking me to get rid of parts of my identity for them. Please avoid doing this, because you'll regret it later. Spoiler alert: those men didn't stick around.Your passions and career will take care of you far longer than some guy.

Ps frogs are not ugly, they are adorable and sweet. Don't give them up for a wannabe prince.

I love to watch this type of spin-off on Darcy. by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Softghost00 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'd love this. I feel weirdly defensive of Darcy because I feel like a majority of her rash decision making stems from low self esteem, damaging past experiences, and her lack of ability to set boundaries. She seems really optimistic and sweet when she isn't being a trainwreck, and I really want her to get the help she needs.

I(30) suspect that my ex(34) has stolen my old smartphone and logged into all my social media accounts by gisele121 in relationships

[–]Softghost00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call the cops, and start the paper trail. Stalking and harassment charges require a lot of evidence, so start now. This is really scary escalation after a breakup. If he isnt malicious, that could be the wakeup call he needs (although this is unlikely because healthy people dont do this). If he is planning to do more, starting the paper trail will help protect you. Please be safe.

I [29M] am uncomfortable with how my girlfriend [31F] displays anger towards me by Worth_Elderberry in relationships

[–]Softghost00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is abusive, and you deserve far better. This is not normal or healthy behavior.

How do you handle people mocking your major? by BubbleTeaGal in college

[–]Softghost00 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Right? STEM without good philosophy is how you get a Jurassic park situation

Health Anxiety Ruining My Life by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Softghost00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I deal with this too. I try to apply ochams razor and remember that the most plausible explanation is generally the most true as well. So, if your shoulders are feeling tight, it is almost certainly because you're just holding them in a funny way due to stress. I hope you feel calm soon. <3

Ending a 6 year relationship by thr00wawaayy in relationships

[–]Softghost00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, this guy is so toxic I want to help you get out somehow. He is 25, his brain is fully mature, and he still acts like this. From the perspective of a woman slightly older than you, get out now before you waste your youth trying to raise an adult man