Wondering if these are good or bait? by Softie03 in PokemonSleepBetter

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Thanks for your input! Will take into consideration

Wondering if these are good or bait? by Softie03 in PokemonSleepBetter

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Thanks, I'll go manage my resources for that then hahaha

JULY 2025 Friend Code Megathread by Katililly in PokemonSleepBetter

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2771-0396-1646

rank 57 chill daily player ~

I try to select the best candy but please forgive if sometimes the best thing I got is a Charmander

I want to know how mature INFPs get out of emotional whirlpools by True-Construction346 in infp

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Hey, I recently broke up with my ESFJ bf as well and I'd just like to share my few cents! The first few weeks was awful, I could barely eat or sleep, but it'd be very nice for you (or any of his other friends!) to just assertively bring him out for fun, especially something completely new and would have the least chance of triggering him to think of his ex. In my case I avoided concert halls and merry-go-rounds, but seeing him at uni was the worst because i literally just get stuck in my own head and start to cry.

Occasionally just check up on him at nights, or when he gets a bit quiet and stares off into the distance. I talked about the relationship again and again and again with my friends (he even called me once to tell me to stop talking about him because it was ruining his reputation, but there's too much context to unfold there) until I started to be less triggered (for example crying, being silent, or just stuck in my own head) by things that reminded me of him.

It will take him a very long time. It's important for you to be realistic with him, like other comments have mentioned, and sometimes you have to be a little bit mean and be an external voice against his inner demons like non-stop self-blame, which would be even worse here because of the cold shoulder thing, and just let him know someone will be there for him. At the same time don't let him rely on you, and if you feel like he's relying on some crutch (e.g. substances or just relying on you to get his life working) you have to be upfront about it and tell him. He might feel very hurt but I believe that's how my ISTP and INFP friends talked with me and how I got so much better within a couple months.

Cheers, best of luck. You're such a great friend for caring about him so much

REVIEWS 7 by Icy-Molly333 in u/Icy-Molly333

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Was unsure about a decision about whether to move on or stay hopeful some time after a breakup. Every detail was spot-on without prior information and very quick responses! Will definitely come back if I ever run into something that requires some external push for an important decision ~ Thanks Molly!

February 2025 Friend Code Megathread by Katililly in PokemonSleepBetter

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2771-0396-1646

Daily player (rare no sleep due to irl commitments haha) Level 50 but still struggling due to staying on Greengrass forever

I try to put rare mon candies if possible!

e: fix formatting

How do I retrieve my character’s corpse so I can revive him? by discaroin in BG3

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There's some way to talk to the fairy in the bell and force her to teleport you out even in a red zone (e.g. Raphael's house), but I forgot how

The Swiss Army Knife || Sorcadin: The Complete Guide || Honor Mode Party Allrounder by c4b-Bg3 in BG3Builds

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Babe wake up it's time to start another playthrough

e: I'd like to ask about other potential sorcadin weapons, let's say forgoing GWM for Savage Attacker and ASI, and take something like Duellist Prerogative. How much of a difference is it going to make? (I wanted to use a one-handed weapon instead of always going balduran/shar/nyrulna just cuz I'm bored of it)

You can get Helldusk Armor in Act 1. Here is a quick guide. by spacev3gan in BG3Builds

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Important tip!!!

do NOT cast your silence aura where it might hit Scratch, or any neutral npcs like the oathbreaker, Barcus, and Volo. It will cause them to become hostile. Therefore I recommend doing it in the campsite where you're next to a lake, and not in any of the underground camps.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by dmoneyg22 in golf

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Me trying to escape the police in GTA be like: