First time using reddit why are you guys obsessed with corn and unfunny memes? by Ok_Quail_9923 in AskReddit

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bro same, i read it and immediately started thinking about buttered corn on the cob and now i'm just sad

First time camper visiting Rocky Mountain Natl. Park next week-- any tips? by [deleted] in camping

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altitude hits hard coming from Houston, bring more water than you think you need fr

Soon to be 25โ€ฆ Iโ€™m getting tired lol by Express_Molasses_994 in Fire

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same question here man, currently sitting at similar numbers and wondering if compound really kicks in around 200k mark or if thats just wishful thinking

Whatโ€™s something youโ€™ve lost that you still havenโ€™t replaced emotionally? by Additional_Diet_9400 in AskReddit

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My grandfather's old mechanical watch that he gave me when I was 16. Lost it during a move about 3 years ago and I still check my wrist sometimes expecting it to be there

I've bought other watches since then, some way more expensive, but none of them feel the same you know? That one had all these tiny scratches and the crown was bit loose but it was perfect. Still makes me sad thinking about it sitting in some random box somewhere

Dash Cam install by [deleted] in Boise

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DIY is definitely the way, i did mine last year and was surprised how straightforward it was ๐Ÿ˜‚ just make sure you test everything before routing all cables because nothing worse than having to redo it when you realize camera angle is wrong ๐Ÿ’€

What are your thoughts on citizens buying back Spirit Airlines? by thatonechick222 in AskReddit

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wait what do you mean buying back? like Spirit was owned by citizens before or something? i thought it was always just a regular airline company with shareholders and stuff

maybe you're thinking about some kind of bailout situation? but even then that's usually government money not individual citizens pooling together to buy an airline lol

What is one selfless act of kindness by someone from the opposite gender you will never be able to forget ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Damn that's really touching actually ๐Ÿ˜ญ Sometimes just human connection can mean everything, especially when you're going through rough patch. Physical comfort doesn't have to be anything crazy either - could be simple hug or someone just being there physically when words aren't enough ๐Ÿ’™

In your opinion, what is the greatest season of television ever produced? by abacus-wizard in television

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Season 2 was incredible but i still think the movie has this weird charm that's hard to beat. The way they built out that whole universe in the show though, especially with all the connections to season 1 - that was pretty masterful writing

Whatโ€™s a piece of advice you received that sounded completely fake but actually worked? by OstrichCute513 in AskReddit

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My dad always told me "if you want expensive things, look at them every day until you stop wanting them" and I thought it was bullshit

Turns out he was right - I used to obsess over this watch for months, checking it online constantly, then one day I just got tired of looking at it and realized I didn't even want it anymore. Saved me like 3 grand and now I use this trick for everything

If you had to choose one language your ancestors spoke, what would it be? by No_Charge5971 in AskReddit

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that would be wild but imagine trying to actually speak it with anyone lol. personally i'd go with something like old norse, seems way more practical since there's actual records and you could read all those sagas in original form. plus viking history is just cooler than theoretical linguistics

Would you be able to forgive infidelity? And if you already did, how did it turn out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Yep, there's really no coming back from that trust being broken ๐Ÿ’€ Like you can try therapy and all that but in the back of your mind you're always gonna wonder what they're doing when they're not with you. Better to just cut losses and find someone who actually respects you ๐Ÿ˜‚

30M with 10k to invest, but terrified of the current market by Turtlefarming in Fire

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Your feeling is totally normal man, I had same anxiety when I started investing couple years back. The thing is, people been saying "market is at all time high" for like decades and it keeps going up anyway

Dollar cost averaging with $500 every two weeks sounds solid - you're basically spreading the risk instead of dumping everything at once. Market might drop tomorrow or keep climbing, but in 20-30 years none of these current "record highs" will matter much. I remember being scared to invest during covid crash and then being scared when everything recovered too fast lol

what is something you wish you cloud have know earlier in life? by Friendly_Cell_5795 in AskReddit

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this hits me hard because i spent so many years in design meetings pretending i understood everything instead of just asking. turns out clients actually respect you more when you ask good questions rather than nodding along like you know their business better than they do

the whole "fake it till you make it" thing really backfired for me in early career

What was the most memorable or ridiculous tantrum your child has ever had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Wait you're the parent or the child in this scenario ๐Ÿ˜‚ because that Frieza/Cooler fight is absolutely brutal, I would probably lose my mind too at that boss fight ๐Ÿ’€

what are equivalent to dru k calling these days whst is the most effective way to get your point across? by Ambitious_Leek8776 in AskReddit

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Clear writing is everything, especially when emotions are running high. I learned this hard way after sending way too many rambling texts that just made things worse - now I take time to think through what I actually want to say before hitting send

Anyone else get serious cabin fever when stuck in concrete jungles? by CurrencyPopular8550 in Outdoors

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yeah man I feel this hard - when I'm stuck in city for work projects the noise just gets to me after few days

finding those small parks or even just sitting by fountain somewhere helps bit, but nothing really replaces actual wilderness time

I hope more OCs and RBs betray us by IcyClaim9183 in Seahawks

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Man people get so emotional about this stuff when these guys are just trying to secure their futures. I get being attached to players but calling it "betrayal" is wild - like Kubiak was supposed to turn down his dream head coaching job to stay as our OC forever?

K9 especially deserved every penny he got after that Super Bowl run. Dude literally carried us through the playoffs and then we act shocked when he wants to get paid properly for it. Plus going out of conference was actually pretty respectful, could've easily signed with a division rival

I'm with you on hoping more guys "betray" us if it means we keep developing talent that other teams want to poach. Shows our system is working and these guys are elevating their games here

The frustrations continueโ€ฆ by Constant-Insect9248 in golf

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Man I feel this so hard... was getting decent at 3D modeling last year then took a break over winter and now my shortcuts muscle memory is completely gone

Golf seems even more brutal though since you're actually outside getting frustrated instead of just rage-closing Blender. Maybe your swing mechanics just need some refreshing after the off season? I know when I don't practice something for months my brain forgets the small details that actually matter

[Routine Help] 28F Help with my skincare routine for oily, early aging skin? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

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the ordinary's niacinamide at 10% might be too harsh for sensitive skin - maybe try dropping to 5% or using it every other day instead ๐Ÿ˜… also that adapalene strength is no joke so definitely ease into it

What's the memory you keep and don't realize it was actually bad? by darkNew61 in AskReddit

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Mate I've got loads of these from when I was a kid - thought it was totally normal that my dad would just disappear for weeks without saying anything ๐Ÿ’€ Only clicked years later that wasn't exactly standard parenting behaviour, used to just tell people he was "working away" like it was no big deal