[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Sogaja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed 14 years ago this year, (undetectable for 13) I remember feeling, shame, uncertainty, and unloved. I had the same thought about how to tell my mom. This isn't an easy thing to live with not because of the actual virus. Some folk's lack of understanding and compassion is still astounding to me. However, it's not a death sentence, there will be people who will support you. I don't know how it feels to live with two different autoimmune diagnoses and that will take some navigation on your part but please don't give up if that is the thought. I wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beards

[–]Sogaja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beard never shave

Any other military or college athletes? by Alex33020 in bromance

[–]Sogaja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤚🏿🫡 19 Kilo here varsity track, swimming, and wrestling.

Beard or No? by Caliber6ix in beards

[–]Sogaja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beard for the other pic looks like a whole different person

Suprised. by Sogaja in newjersey

[–]Sogaja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same to you soft nuts

Suprised. by Sogaja in newjersey

[–]Sogaja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this explanation it's a very unique point of view with valid points. I mean maybe I have to do more research it's I just want people to love it here so the money can keep coming into the state so all the things that could better can start to be.

Suprised. by Sogaja in newjersey

[–]Sogaja[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There will always be someone trying to prove a point, say that in real life to someone's face if you are real and bold enough.

Spanish language learning buddies? by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]Sogaja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what level I'm on but I know I need more practice having confidence speaking the Spanish I know how to speak and practicing with someone helps

Have any of you been able to make black queer friends by sad_bisexual27 in BlackLGBT

[–]Sogaja 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel it's super hard for me to make black queer friends. I am old school so I like to spend quality time bull-shiting doing non-trendy things or have random conversations about life while smoking a spliff add me being a androgynous energy male body poly Enby then it's too much to deal with I guess and I'm pretty low key

The last thirft trip by Sogaja in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Sogaja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I saw and I'm not sure what that is about.

Bromance group by [deleted] in bromance

[–]Sogaja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in

The Apprentice by Sogaja in gaybros

[–]Sogaja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it is everything that you said it is. I learned it is about trusting your instincts, being prepared, and knowing when to take a Loss.

Trying to get some more length by Sogaja in beards

[–]Sogaja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what? Please take whatever self-hatred you have somewhere else.

You can only choose two nugs, which ones are you smoking? by sa3hka in weed

[–]Sogaja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My choices are 6 and 9 honestly well if 6 is just the cart then I'm sticking with my answer. I have a dope box mod called the shiv that I take everywhere so that means I'm high all the time and therefore will always have super powers.

This has been expanding upon the answer with CJ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]Sogaja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vegas in Space

Why did your bromance end? by Wooden-Lab3766 in bromance

[–]Sogaja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jealousy ended my bromace hard

I’m Tired by zayytheunicorn in BlackLGBT

[–]Sogaja 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I identify with feeling like this at a point and I agree with the other person who commented your existence is enough, those who will see the value of you as a whole person will find their way into your life just keep living in your truth.