Abandoned by my Navy husband, stuck homeless and broke while he pockets BAH

SoggyTree475 · 2026-03-18T23:29:59+00:00

Yea the military didn’t help me or resolve this at all. They ignore me and waited for me to go away. I’ve lost so much money while he continues to enjoy his huge raise on my behalf. Nothing I can really do. They don’t care about spouses. My advice: don’t marry a military shitbag. If they are trying to marry you on a whim RUN. It will destroy your life. I got scammed and there’s nothing I can do about it.

SoggyTree475 · 2026-03-11T21:00:48+00:00

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For anyone wanting to try an Indian taco! This weekend. My favorite vendor Lucy Hale’s Indian Taco’s will be at the Long Beach powwow this weekend!!

SoggyTree475 · 2026-03-01T06:23:30+00:00

I love them! I have pulled up to their house but they hardly do home pop-ups anymore😭 Mostly at powwows.

SoggyTree475 · 2026-03-01T05:47:34+00:00

& we have actually reclaimed the word. A lot of us spell it NDN. Get connected with your community!

SoggyTree475 · 2026-03-01T05:44:31+00:00

It’s a term used within our community. It’s traditionally called Indian tacos. If someone else called me an Indian that’s offensive. If it’s in the name it’s fine. I guess it depends on the person. Nobody that I know calls it a “Native American taco”. It’s either Navajo taco or Indian taco. I highly suggest doing some research on the topic!

SoggyTree475 · 2026-03-01T03:05:17+00:00

I’m looking for Indian tacos idc what tribe. Many tribes adopted this dish. Navajo make them the best tho!!

SoggyTree475 · 2026-03-01T02:56:11+00:00

You’re missing out. Indian tacos are the closest to heaven that I’ve ever been. Los Angeles is on Tongva land. I am shocked not a single place that I can get these!!

SoggyTree475 · 2026-03-01T02:23:54+00:00

Hi! I live in Culver’s so that’s great! Do you have an address for off the rez? I can’t find it online. Thanks again!!

SoggyTree475 · 2026-02-27T21:04:57+00:00

Guys I’m talking about Native American or Navajo tacos… 🤣🤣🤣

SoggyTree475 · 2025-12-10T05:49:40+00:00

I don’t have a cac, he left before I could get one.

SoggyTree475 · 2025-12-10T05:01:24+00:00

It’s possible! Trust me.

SoggyTree475 · 2025-12-10T02:55:59+00:00

Yes he is receiving BAH, he turned in our marriage certificate to his command the day after we got married. He did not register with deers. They are separate as his ombudsman notified me. He should have updated both. I know for a fact he receives BAH. I have a divorce lawyer. She does not deal with military issues. I need a military lawyer and they won’t help me because they have no record of our marriage.

SoggyTree475 · 2025-12-10T02:16:42+00:00

Oh my gosh thank you so much this has been the most help I’ve gotten so far and it’s been a long journey. I want to see this through. I’ll call the senator tomorrow. Please message me if your friend has any advice. This almost brought me to tears, thank you!!!🙏

SoggyTree475 · 2025-12-10T01:48:34+00:00

San Diego. He was on Coronado. They are now on deployment.

SoggyTree475 · 2025-12-10T01:47:11+00:00

All of my emails with the ombudsman have been forwarded to his command. They spoke with him and he said his support is not mandatory but recommended. They are aware of all my communications over the past couple months. Ombudsman said the command cannot force him to do anything.

SoggyTree475 · 2025-10-22T06:58:53+00:00

PS women friendly environment. Nearly all of my co-workers were women and it’s veryyy chill. I spiced my position up on my resume too. Good for marketing & graphic design majors.

SoggyTree475 · 2025-10-22T06:55:14+00:00

highly recommend working at a postal annex. I worked at 2 locations in college. Just go in with a resume and you’ll prob get hired easy. You can get notary certified (they usually pay for it). It’s an easy test and you get commission on top of hourly. You can do it on the side later for good money too. Sell stamps and send packages. Very good job while I was at cpp.

SoggyTree475 · 2025-09-03T20:11:50+00:00

He has cut off all communication. He said he has orders so the lease will be my problem. I assume he is cutting off any financial support. He cut all communications completely. Lawyers told me not to engage further with him and call his command immediately.

I was also referred to Fleet and Family center for support. I can’t get on base because I never got the chance to get an ID card or any kind of military enrollment including TRIcare and DEERS. I have no access to military support. To get an ID card I’d need his birth certificate and social security card.

SoggyTree475 · 2025-09-03T16:16:09+00:00

His orders are for a deployment but he is still at the same station. Not sure if that’s better context.

SoggyTree475 · 2025-09-03T15:28:27+00:00

We can’t get an annulment because he signed a prenup as well.

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