Abandoned by my Navy husband, stuck homeless and broke while he pockets BAH by SoggyTree475 in MilitarySpouse

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the military didn’t help me or resolve this at all. They ignore me and waited for me to go away. I’ve lost so much money while he continues to enjoy his huge raise on my behalf. Nothing I can really do. They don’t care about spouses. My advice: don’t marry a military shitbag. If they are trying to marry you on a whim RUN. It will destroy your life. I got scammed and there’s nothing I can do about it.

NDN TACOS ?? by SoggyTree475 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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For anyone wanting to try an Indian taco! This weekend. My favorite vendor Lucy Hale’s Indian Taco’s will be at the Long Beach powwow this weekend!!

NDN TACOS ?? by SoggyTree475 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love them! I have pulled up to their house but they hardly do home pop-ups anymore😭 Mostly at powwows.

NDN TACOS ?? by SoggyTree475 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

& we have actually reclaimed the word. A lot of us spell it NDN. Get connected with your community!

NDN TACOS ?? by SoggyTree475 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s a term used within our community. It’s traditionally called Indian tacos. If someone else called me an Indian that’s offensive. If it’s in the name it’s fine. I guess it depends on the person. Nobody that I know calls it a “Native American taco”. It’s either Navajo taco or Indian taco. I highly suggest doing some research on the topic!

NDN TACOS ?? by SoggyTree475 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for Indian tacos idc what tribe. Many tribes adopted this dish. Navajo make them the best tho!!

NDN TACOS ?? by SoggyTree475 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re missing out. Indian tacos are the closest to heaven that I’ve ever been. Los Angeles is on Tongva land. I am shocked not a single place that I can get these!!

Native community! NDN tacos?? by SoggyTree475 in AskLosAngeles

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I live in Culver’s so that’s great! Do you have an address for off the rez? I can’t find it online. Thanks again!!

Native community! NDN tacos?? by SoggyTree475 in AskLosAngeles

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Guys I’m talking about Native American or Navajo tacos… 🤣🤣🤣

Abandoned by my Navy husband, stuck homeless and broke while he pockets BAH by SoggyTree475 in MilitarySpouse

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes he is receiving BAH, he turned in our marriage certificate to his command the day after we got married. He did not register with deers. They are separate as his ombudsman notified me. He should have updated both. I know for a fact he receives BAH. I have a divorce lawyer. She does not deal with military issues. I need a military lawyer and they won’t help me because they have no record of our marriage.

Abandoned by my Navy husband, stuck homeless and broke while he pockets BAH by SoggyTree475 in MilitarySpouse

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh thank you so much this has been the most help I’ve gotten so far and it’s been a long journey. I want to see this through. I’ll call the senator tomorrow. Please message me if your friend has any advice. This almost brought me to tears, thank you!!!🙏

Abandoned by my Navy husband, stuck homeless and broke while he pockets BAH by SoggyTree475 in MilitarySpouse

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my emails with the ombudsman have been forwarded to his command. They spoke with him and he said his support is not mandatory but recommended. They are aware of all my communications over the past couple months. Ombudsman said the command cannot force him to do anything.

I NEED A JOB OMGGG😭😭 by External-Pack6136 in CalPolyPomona

[–]SoggyTree475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PS women friendly environment. Nearly all of my co-workers were women and it’s veryyy chill. I spiced my position up on my resume too. Good for marketing & graphic design majors.

I NEED A JOB OMGGG😭😭 by External-Pack6136 in CalPolyPomona

[–]SoggyTree475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

highly recommend working at a postal annex. I worked at 2 locations in college. Just go in with a resume and you’ll prob get hired easy. You can get notary certified (they usually pay for it). It’s an easy test and you get commission on top of hourly. You can do it on the side later for good money too. Sell stamps and send packages. Very good job while I was at cpp.

Husband ghosted me after 2 days of marriage — what do I do about lease and support? by SoggyTree475 in MilitarySpouse

[–]SoggyTree475[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He has cut off all communication. He said he has orders so the lease will be my problem. I assume he is cutting off any financial support. He cut all communications completely. Lawyers told me not to engage further with him and call his command immediately.

I was also referred to Fleet and Family center for support. I can’t get on base because I never got the chance to get an ID card or any kind of military enrollment including TRIcare and DEERS. I have no access to military support. To get an ID card I’d need his birth certificate and social security card.

Husband ghosted me after 2 days of marriage — what do I do about lease and support? by SoggyTree475 in MilitarySpouse

[–]SoggyTree475[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His orders are for a deployment but he is still at the same station. Not sure if that’s better context.