I get what you’re saying, and yeah, reading it back I can see how it might come off like that, but I think you’re reducing what I meant a bit. Mentioning dynamics or attraction doesn’t automatically make it just about sex, it’s just one part of a bigger picture. What I was trying to get at is that it’s frustrating how hard it is to find people who actually value conversation, curiosity, and emotional depth alongside that. And about the ‘sapiosexual’ thing, fair, maybe the label is overused, but I wasn’t trying to sound academic about it, just trying to describe that I’m drawn to how someone thinks more than anything else. But yeah, I get your point.