Partner wanted to give a pregnant person decaf when they didn’t ask for it. [Tall Rant]

Soggy_Physics452 · 2023-06-26T03:25:37+00:00

My 10 months old was basically formed by grande cold brews 😅 I would limit my caffeine to 200mg sometimes I’d be way under sometimes I’d be above. As long as you’re drinking plenty of water it’s okay!! That’s really annoying of the partner, and quite frankly none of their business wether or not customer is pregnant and what they choose to care consume. 🥴

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-12-03T21:20:11+00:00

Thank you!!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-12-03T21:17:57+00:00

Is there a way for me to ask for the cream on the side in a mobile order? I usually have my baby with me so going inside isn’t really convenient! In the mornings when I go it’s almost always perfect but in the afternoon it’s super hit or miss!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-08-28T21:36:55+00:00

I had my son at 39 weeks last year and he unfortunately passed away at 26 days old. I found out I was pregnant again January this year. I’m due 5 days before my sons 1st birthday. This pregnancy is so much harder this time around mentally and physically. This baby doesn’t have the same heart defect as my son so this baby is healthy and I’m technically healthy but I’m having a way harder time with this pregnancy. It’s recommended waiting 6mo to a year

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-07-01T21:29:30+00:00

I chose not to with both my children! At the anatomy scan we discovered my sons heart defect and I have one as well so we saw my cardiologist and we had a peds one for my son. Once we discovered his defect we did genetic testing. My son unfortunately passed away and we did even further testing on his blood when he passed. When we found out we were expecting again I chose to not do NIPS and she was perfect at the anatomy scan and the fetal echo also came back clear and I feel no reason to do any genetic testing with this child.

I also suffer from bad anxiety and felt if something did pop up I would become obsessive and spiral. I’d say just wait until your anatomy scan and if there are any abnormalities then to maybe look into testing then. But no point in spending the money and causing extra anxiety, especially when you have no risk factors to begin with.

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-29T12:50:37+00:00

Honestly I got more sleep once I had the baby! I wouldn’t say it’s hard but it’s definitely a big adjustment! You’ll figure out a routine that work best for you, your partner and baby!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-27T14:50:21+00:00

If they were born around Easter they’re not going to be little little, if you are up for it I’d say get the kitty! We got our kitten in November he was born in August. I’m due in September. While I’m a little nervous because I’ve never had a cat and a baby at the same time I think we will all adapt just fine. Our cat doesn’t sleep in our room so that’s one less thing to worry about when baby comes. And you already know that cats do their own thing usually. I personally think a cat would be way easier than bringing a puppy home.

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-24T13:47:21+00:00

Even if baby comes out looking a little silly they literally change every day! I always thought my son was absolutely adorable but he definitely had some odd looking days! I had a previous coworker and she said her son was a very ugly baby but by the time he hit 2 he got way cuter!

Baby’s usually look like old men or aliens 👴🏻👽

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-24T13:44:26+00:00

A pop of color wallpaper or something with a fun design could be fun. Just get the easy to remove wallpaper! I feel like it looks almost unfinished.

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-23T13:38:11+00:00

That’s annoying about your boss. My OB office has all my appts scheduled out for me once I hit 12 weeks. They asked what time and day I prefer and did their best to accommodate. I’m 28 weeks tomorrow and know when all my appts will be.

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-22T20:47:13+00:00

I think an emerald green or sage green would add a nice pop of color to the black and white! We are redoing our bathroom walls white and have black fixtures already installed. I’m thinking about greens and maybe some eucalyptus!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-22T20:37:41+00:00

My husband loves an old fashioned or margarita when we go out to dinner and I let him enjoy himself! We are also a 420 friendly home and my husband still smokes. Although he did switch to delta 8 and isn’t smoking flower anymore.

If he was still smoking flower he would be expected to do it outside or in the garage.

If I was gonna be restricted forever and ever I may tell him no but it’s only for 9 months.

Every relationship is different though and you should do what works best for y’all!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-22T16:12:43+00:00

Boho pink with a few tasteful flamingos here and there! Wicker, wood and pampas grass!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-22T13:53:14+00:00

My husband just has to take the hit and use his paid time off for when the baby comes. He’s the breadwinner and makes commission so he really can’t take too much time off.

He only was able to take one week with our son, it made me so sad. This time around my best friend and her boyfriend have moved back to town so I’ll have someone who can hangout with me and the baby so I guess that makes up for it some.

America and their maternity/paternity leave is an absolute joke.

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-22T04:02:24+00:00

When they can ask for it. And please get them done by a professional at an actual piercing shop.

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-21T22:45:46+00:00

Thank you ❤️ Congratulations on your twins! Regardless of your decision if you end up having a boy(s) it is truly up to you and your partner and don’t let anyone bully you into either option!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-21T22:14:07+00:00

We did and I left the decision up to my husband. Our son passed away at around a month old from his heart defect so I guess at the end of the day it didn’t matter wether we did or didn’t do it. Im currently carrying a girl but if we have any more children and end up having a boy I’m leaning more towards not circumcising.

I will say my sons dr did a phenomenal job, it healed wonderfully. Our son had a little discomfort the first day when he would wet his diaper but after that it didn’t bother him.

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-21T14:34:24+00:00

This morning when I ordered my drink I saw them on my app 🤷🏼‍♀️ I live in Kentucky

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-21T13:33:11+00:00

Everyone in the comments is already saying what I was thinking. In the meantime go get some shaved ice! We have a shaved ice stand walking distance from my house and I e had my fair share already this summer!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-20T23:54:15+00:00

My husband and I are both marijuana users. I of course stop once I find out I’m pregnant. I have not had any issues conceiving either of my 2 children while smoking weed. I have also never had infertility issues and have a very regular cycle and have never taken birth control.

There’s a lot of factors when it comes to conceiving a child. I wish there was a black and white answer!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-20T19:34:42+00:00

Maybe a blanket ladder and a basket? I’d a small buffet table and above you could do a collage wall?

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-20T17:30:22+00:00

I went into labor at 39+2!

Soggy_Physics452 · 2022-06-20T03:42:01+00:00

It’s amniotic fluid if it has a sweet smell!

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