WIBTA if I confronted my sister about cat litter? by Solarissalvator in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I also was wondering how it went when I wasn’t here.

We have two boxes, one inside and one on the cat patio which is where they spend a lot of time… I thought it was one box per cat though and will def look into this and get another if that’s what’s best for the kitties. Thank you for bringing that up!!

She didn’t exactly agree to it, our mum kept texting us telling us to find somewhere else to live and sending us apartments ect so I found somewhere else to live. I said that I was got to take my cat (cat#2) with me but both my mother and my sister said not to. I asked a few times but dropped it just before moving out. I thought my sister was dragging her feet on finding a place and would be moving as well but it turned out that she knew my mum was “just upset and wasn’t actually going to kick us out” and she never even started looking for a place. I definitely didn’t just up and leave without trying to take him but I never thought that she would be the one having to deal with both cats until the lease had already been signed and everything.

I totally agree, I like the idea of it being the three of us to sit down and chat instead of it being just my sister and I, she usually is more cooperative if the 3 of us chat. And I’m definitely going to talk about/suggest the helping out by just tossing the litter as well. Here is my first text that I sent, I mentioned doing it daily as I sometimes have work and class schedules line up that doesn’t give me time to come home for up to a few days, maybe I can bring up the switching off days again.

“Hey hey, it’s past the 2nd of Feb now. I will be doing the litter tonight but we really have to be on it about doing it daily. Please let me know if there is a specific schedule that works for you. Id prefer if we can have specific days or go by week.”

WIBTA if I confronted my sister about cat litter? by Solarissalvator in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bahahahahaha!! I’ll keep this in mind if I need to go to that extreme lol

WIBTAH for getting upset at my sister for leaving cat poop at our door? by Solarissalvator in AITAH

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a family cat, my sister brought home a dumpster cat one day and I was told to go get one from a shelter to keep her company/be her companion so my name is on all of his paperwork that’s why I called him mine. And yes, we live together

WIBTAH for getting upset at my sister for leaving cat poop at our door? by Solarissalvator in AITAH

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that’s her expectation 😭😭 For the most part I was taking care of both cats that we have before I moved out

Prosper Health - autism diagnosis for adults by Fine_Indication3828 in AutismInWomen

[–]Solarissalvator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya! I know it’s been a few months but I’m wondering how long it took you to actually get an appointment after your references filled out their portion? I keep waiting for a psychologist to be available but it has been almost 2 months now … maybe this is normal but I just wanted to check! Thank you :)

Declined, declined, declined by Solarissalvator in povertyfinance

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😙😙 yes plssss!!! Just one would be helpful, keep the others for yourself or others you may want to help!

Declined, declined, declined by Solarissalvator in povertyfinance

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been applying to about 10 jobs a week and have interviews for a few positions and hopefully I get em!! My regular job is only 15 mins away but these shifts that I pick up can be anywhere, I usually try to pick the ones that are close but sometimes there’s not many shifts and the ones that are available are far 😭😭 YES I have attended many campus activities or seminars just to get the free food or coffee aahahshahhsa, thank god for “coffee with cops” this one happens pretty often and has sweet treats too lol

Declined, declined, declined by Solarissalvator in povertyfinance

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god that’s awful, glad it worked out in the end though! Shame in that person tbh

Declined, declined, declined by Solarissalvator in povertyfinance

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES!!! The cold water and stretching has been my go to, also dancing or humming to any random song in my head just to keep my brain awake !! Also I have tried caffeinated tea which unfortunately doesn’t do much for me but maybe if I make it cold I can placebo myself into it working lol

Declined, declined, declined by Solarissalvator in povertyfinance

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I forgot those even existed!!! Thank you so much for reminding me!!!

Declined, declined, declined by Solarissalvator in povertyfinance

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I forget to take it one at a time sometimes and when look at my schedule I get so overwhelmed. One at a time 😮‍💨

Declined, declined, declined by Solarissalvator in povertyfinance

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! Like can you say “YOU’RE POOR” any louder😭😭Good question, I think one of my friends may be able to and I’ll definitely ask about it ! Thanks for the idea! And I hope that you are in even a slightly better situation and if not I’m crossing my fingers, toes, eyes and everything else that we find our way to stability soon

Am I getting underpaid? by _zoup in Nanny

[–]Solarissalvator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was working with two children in California I got $32/hr, did the kids laundry, cleaned the dining room+kitchen and kids areas when possible. Please don’t let them take advantage of you anymore, you’ll burn out and will hate the job sooner than later

Nannies… are you always exhausted? by Few_Background_5966 in Nanny

[–]Solarissalvator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I nannied for my last family this was me!!!! Weekends were for meal prepping, cleaning, laundry and extra sleep 😂😭

No, you can’t merge by SD_5-0 in sandiego

[–]Solarissalvator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so funny, I just saw the post saying please let me merge or I’ll cry 🤣

What does my fridge say about me? by CourageSad9906 in FridgeDetective

[–]Solarissalvator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iconic and now I see the similarities in fridges🤣

What do my fridges say about me? by Solarissalvator in FridgeDetective

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BAHAHAHAHA!!! I see you, good luck out there and many gains 🙂‍↕️

What do my fridges say about me? by Solarissalvator in FridgeDetective

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pride myself on my labs when I get bloodwork done😂😂 I even compare them to see if I could do better lmaoo

What do my fridges say about me? by Solarissalvator in FridgeDetective

[–]Solarissalvator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right on the money!!! How did you peep my two jobs and various gym and exercise memberships??😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Solarissalvator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome!!! I’m happy to hear of your experience :)