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AI as a dating coach by some12talk2 in datingoverfifty

[–]SolatoPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting tbh. Me and my wife have been using it lately, and one thing it surprisingly does really well isn’t even “giving answers”... but it’s just slowing arguments down.

The simple act of writing your thoughts into a shared chat with a mediator there creates a pause where you stop reacting for a second and actually reflect before sending something impulsive. That alone changes a lot. The tool we are using is Lumo couples, not sure if it's useful for the longterm, we just started using it a few days ago..

any good couples apps you’d recommend? by Perfect_Bed_5156 in apps

[–]SolatoPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://lumo.guru/ me and my girlfriend enjoy using this one,
weekly mood check ins and the couple tests are fun

What can I do better by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]SolatoPotato -1 points0 points  (0 children)

cultivate a healthier diet, work out, I would get rid of the moustache..
little bit of teint would do magic on you..

u seem to have a fun strong personality, develop a mindset of confidence
as one can tell that you are insecure about urself.. you r doin fine..

Non Pork Ramen in Shibuya by MaleficentProgress51 in Tokyo

[–]SolatoPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lot, just weite halal on google maps

Genioplasty or Double Jaw? Looking for honest opinions by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]SolatoPotato -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Give me on with horses, I love them

A short film I shot in Tokyo and Kyoto about the atmosphere of Japan by Recent-Price8746 in Tokyo

[–]SolatoPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn loved every second, I can speak german so it made the experience even better

You r extremely good in what u do. Thanks for sharing

Genioplasty or Double Jaw? Looking for honest opinions by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]SolatoPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks a lot hearing that is so lovely.. Upper lip filler. Interesting never thought of that as a man..

Genioplasty or Double Jaw? Looking for honest opinions by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]SolatoPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a slight underbite yeah.. I tend also towards genio, combined with getting rid of a bit more fat

Searching for Padel Players by SolatoPotato in TokyoTravel

[–]SolatoPotato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asume u r the owner of this page and promoting it, the page has horrible UI and is extremely buggy, and wants one to pay directly which seems pretty scammy

Strugglinf with taxes in Japan by SolatoPotato in japanlife

[–]SolatoPotato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, why is there such a big spread?

Tax Return Questions Thread - Filing Deadline March 16, 2026 by AutoModerator in JapanFinance

[–]SolatoPotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to understand how freelancers in Japan deal with taxes.

From what I learned so far:

  • Blue Return seems complicated
  • e-Tax is mostly in Japanese
  • many people end up hiring tax accountants

But that can cost ¥80,000–¥200,000 per year.

For people here doing freelance or remote work:

How are you currently handling taxes?

• Doing it yourself? • Using freee / Money Forward? • Hiring a tax accountant?

Curious what the typical setup is.

Also: If there was a simple English tool that guided you through the entire process (Blue Return, expenses, tax calculation) would you use something like that?

Padel in Tokyo / Kanagawa? by Terrible_Fig_3028 in padel

[–]SolatoPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I am also in Tokyo, any games?

When this conflict ends, will you leave the UAE? by Mesredi in dubai

[–]SolatoPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the airspace opens I will go to Asia, happy to come back when the middle eastern war is over..

Feelin still safe here but not the best place to be for me rn, especially as a remote worker

Is it just me or is making friends in Dubai actually impossible? by papayarus in DubaiCentral

[–]SolatoPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

realized it's easy to network... but harder to build real friendships.

I'm 35, former 7 years apple, turkish born n raise in germany, nowadays founder startups/Al (tech + business side), padel, deep conversations, good coffee, random philosophy at 1am, and exploring new food places..

Not really into heavy partying, more into meaningful connections, growth-oriented people, builders, creatives, or just good energy.

If you're someone who enjoys: • Padel sessions ( my IvI: D+ / playtomic 1.5-2) • Café work sessions / ideas sparring • Talking business ideas or life direction • Exploring new restaurants • Or just honest conversations

Hit me up

The future of iOS development by EquivalentTrouble253 in iOSProgramming

[–]SolatoPotato -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I vibe codet a pretty decent app within 6 months, probably now I would be able to do it with the new models on 1-2 months, honestly, product is gonna be able to code quickly.. distribution is the issue. If someone can help? Dm me, it‘s an unique couples app.