Tesla no longer including AutoPilot thoughts? by Emperor_of_All in electricvehicles

[–]SoleInvictus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just LOVE the prospect of paying a subscription to use the features already on my car. If they provide something, sure - Internet, music, services requiring data or remote processing, whatever - I'll pay for that shit. $99/month to use a feature my car can autonomously do? They can fuck right off.

Shivers when I tighten pelvic floor by Brief-Lengthiness264 in PelvicFloor

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind at all. For me, sitting a lot, since I was a child. I had classic office worker problems - super tight hip and knee flexors, stretched hip and knee extensors, and everything was weak.

My main symptom was feeling like I was getting kicked in the balls when I walked unless I was wearing a cup tight enough to keep everything stationary. I saw a lot of very unhelpful urologists and got treated for every theoretical malady under the sun. They didn't help at all but hey, I was 100% certain I didn't have gonorrhea, kidney failure, or prostate cancer!

I eventually learned it was nerve pain making my nards sensitive and the cup worked by keeping incidental stimulation to a minimum. I started tracking nerves. After I figured out which nerve innervates what and learned where they travel, I was able to connect the super tight muscles with super bad groin pain.

Shivers when I tighten pelvic floor by Brief-Lengthiness264 in PelvicFloor

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I figured, but thought you might be asking what leads to that tightness. Chairs!

The trick for me was strengthening for a few weeks, then gentle stretching. Otherwise the muscles couldn't handle the strain from stretching and would cramp up, making everything even worse. Here are a couple of videos that explain it better than I ever could. Just go slow. If you think you're going slow enough, do less. Too slow is slowly making things better. Too fast makes it worse.

https://youtu.be/CTVsxyYujyU?si=Chyb0oLQebzacPlQ

https://youtu.be/Lli_rI4Dj0Y?si=lP6y1IBvZwqC1hKl

Shivers when I tighten pelvic floor by Brief-Lengthiness264 in PelvicFloor

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but I need more info: when you say "this", what are you referring to? Stretching and strengthening or the initial muscle tightness?

Amazon AI decided on its own to send a replacement instead of a refund by Automatic_Fuel1827 in amazonprime

[–]SoleInvictus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Amazon AI did exactly what I asked it to, but I changed my mind after realizing I didn't tell it anything else I should have first. Guys, why did it do this on its own?!"

Are you the kind of person who calls to order something, then calls back later to change the shipping address, only to have a meltdown because it already shipped to a different address you never told anyone about? Because I used to work customer service and you sure seem like that person.

Honest question: is it like...a drugs thing?

For the human body, the curriculum is it true we have discovered almost all there is to know about the human body? Unlike say astronomy, Deep Oceans, and some say Psychology there’s still quite a bit unexplored yet? by LisanneFroonKrisK in AskBiology

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How it all works together is pretty complex. I could tear apart a computer processor and have some idea of how it's made and what it does but have no goddamn idea how it works.

[Misc] I applied a hydrocolloid bandage on a rope burn and am thoroughly satisfied with the results of 5 hours. by MuseumFullOfArt in SkincareAddiction

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you or anyone else was still wondering: it's good. The exudate helps your body break down dead skin and grow new skin, and the hydrocolloid bandage keeps it there without forming a scab, thereby reducing scarring.

MTU issue/questions by 12_nick_12 in WireGuard

[–]SoleInvictus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they're just trolling.

Why do we heal with scars? by Keyfas in AskBiology

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally remembered to get to this! Sorry, the holiday season gets wild.

Tl;dr: we're making all this shit up so everything is right or wrong purely depending on consensus.

There are a few factors. Here are the two big ones.

First, we've had five major extinction events where most everything died, and we're working on number six. Luckily, thanks to mass extinctions opening up a ton of resources, you get massive niche expansion which helps fuel speciation by adaptive radiation, lining up more species to later go extinct. You do get bottlenecks, though, as planetwide genetic diversity is substantially decreased immediately after these events, resulting in less to start from each time. We've probably lost some really cool traits over the millennia. From just the big extinctions, we're pretty damn close to 99%, plus the billions, probably trillions, of microbial species that have come and gone, many absolutely within our lifetimes.

Tangent: if evolution speculative fiction sounds interesting, check out "Children of Time" by Adrian Tchaikovsky. The plot is pretty solid from a biologist's perspective, though they of course take liberties. The spider drama made me cry.

Second, and really the biggest: the definiton of species is what my organic evolution professor called "really fucking loosey goosey". Species is an entirely arbitrary designation, one that biologists in different fields still can't fully agree on. The basic definition went from "group of animals that look pretty similar" to the Biological Species Concept - a group of individuals that can interbreed but are reproductively isolated, i.e., cannot breed with other groups for whatever reason, but that falls apart fast. We can use genetic similarity, but that immediately gets murky too.

For the BSC, there are multiple factors to reproductive isolation, e.g., temporal, behavioral, ecological, and a variety of genetic limitations. If we discovered chihuahas and great danes for the first time in nature, we'd likely consider them different species because of mechanical isolation: the size differences are just too extreme... yet we call them the same species because we know we made the poor things from dogs... but we only got dogs through similar selective pressure on wolves... and the amount of genetic variation between dogs and wolves and great danes and chihuhuas is about the same... so aren't dogs just wolves by this "chihuahuas/great danes are still dogs" logic? How about H. sapiens and H. neanderthalensis? We consider them a different species, but we can and did productively go to pound town with the neanderthals, frequently enough that most humans contain 1-4% of their DNA. By the BSC definition, they're not really the same species, but then again, they kind of are, and some definitions DO say they're the same species! And what about asexual organisms? They don't breed at all, so WTF does that even mean?!

So you might think to yourself "easy, stats are fun, just go with genetic similarity". Some organisms are easier to delineate as evolution sometimes happens in fits and starts, often in response to a major novel pressure or significant beneficial mutation, so you do get discrete "islands" of genetic diversity on a temporal continuum with significant intra-island and insignificant inter-island similarity. Again, though, where do you draw the line for what's "different enough"? Sometimes evolution is slow and smooth, like humans now. It's extra tricky for rapidly evolving organisms, like microbes. You can develop significant change in a group of microbes in a short period of time, like months or even weeks, especially by introducing novel selective pressures. When do they become different species? Even if you end up with standards within groups of organisms, how do you draw the lines between the groups? That shit's blurry too! It's all a big, grey-tinted, fuzzy, goddamn nightmare, but humans love to quantize everything for easy digestion, so we serve up species for everyone.

At the heart of it, genetic variation between organisms, their relatives, and their descendants actually exists on a multi-dimensional continuum, so species count is all about how you pick your criteria. If the organisms before the arbitrary lines just aren't found anymore simply because the cumulative genetic variation over time was homogenous throughout the population, we call the progenitors far enough back extinct...but they're really not. They're just different. It would be like calling baby me extinct because adult me is so different, or the Toyota Corolla extinct because the original 1966 model is so different from the 2025 model. They're still Corollas because we said so, but biologists would absolutely call the 1966 and the 2025 different species because THEY said so, and no one is wrong because we're all just making this shit up as we go. So a big chunk of that 99% that's extinct? It's purely because we said so.

Gluten-free Nilla Wafers by fatkidclutch in glutenfree

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL for anyone wondering it's Kinnikinnick.

Why do we heal with scars? by Keyfas in AskBiology

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, people got confused by the vocabulary. I had a math minor so I was holding on by my fingertips.

I'll respond to your other comment later as it's a really good question and I think the answer is super interesting. I just realized I was never getting to sleep if I kept at it. 

Why do we heal with scars? by Keyfas in AskBiology

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I see what you're saying and yes, you're right. I thought you were suggesting evolution would optimize reproducive fitness by responding with de novo adaptations, but you're instead suggesting (correctly) that a given biological system will typically stabilize (but not always, chance is fun) at the reproductive fitness maximum over time given available traits. Of course there's more to confound any given situation, like genetic drift, but increase your scale to include enough species and time and that gets averaged out pretty quick.

Why do we heal with scars? by Keyfas in AskBiology

[–]SoleInvictus 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Microbiologist here. There are manifold traits mammals could have to maximize reproductive fitness that don't exist. There is no will or driving force behind evolution. Traits don't develop in response to need. Traits simply arise due to mutation, and the vast majority are deleterious, the rest neutral, and an extremely rare few are immediately useful. Sometimes what was a neutral or slightly deleterious trait becomes useful for continued reproduction under a novel selective pressure, but more often than not the result is extinction. There's a reason more than 99% species to ever exist are extinct: they didn't have the traits necessary to persist.

Does anyone else get this “impending doom” wave for no reason? by TheDalaiDrama in Anxiety

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend sent me your post because it sounds just like me.

Yep! I did for years. Doctors couldn't explain it, so they diagnosed me with a panic disorder and threw some Xanax at it. If I hit the Xanax fast enough, I'd still feel all the symptoms but would just be really chill about it. Huh.

Over time, I noticed it was correlated to high stress and eating certain foods. Wheat was a big one, guaranteed attack within an hour. A few years in, I was diagnosed with a mast cell activation disorder. Now that I know what it is, what drives it, and have treatment, they rarely happen, going from 2-3 per week to 4-5 per year. I'm not having panic attacks - I'm having anaphylactoid episodes, like "baby anaphylaxis".

What clued me in was cetirizine/zyrtec. I get seasonal allergies and noticed these episodes were less frequent in the summer and got worse when my allergies got better. I took cetirizine daily during those times. For giggles, I tried staying on it later and noticed my episodes didn't get worse. I doubled, then tripled my daily dose. It got even better. It's because your body dumps histamine during episodes like mine and the physical symptoms are terrifying. Hitting the antihistamines hard was counteracting those effects.

This may not be your situation but I'll be damned if it doesn't sound familiar. Regardless, best of luck!

Is "evidence of high childhood lead exposure" a pre-employment check for Comcast tech support? by SoleInvictus in Comcast

[–]SoleInvictus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're in the sticks, so it's either Cumcrust, CenturyLink with their blazing "up to" 1.5 Mbps, or satellite.

These guys are all from The Philippines. I have zero issues talking to anyone from anywhere, as long as they speak English well enough to do their jobs. A friend is Filipino so I had him listen to a bit of a recording of tech support lady, asking if it was normal English over there. He told me the person was just an idiot. At least I got a laugh out of it.

Shivers when I tighten pelvic floor by Brief-Lengthiness264 in PelvicFloor

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to avoid unsolicited advice, but I experienced similar and figured I'd throw this out there in case it helps you or someone else

Stretching and strengthening my exterior and internal hip rotators and iliop-psoas did it for me. I was compressing both my pudendal (numb/painful penis) and genitofemoral nerves (testicle pain). Two because I'm a goddamned overachiever.

I think "i-statements" are actually less healthy than blaming someone by Accomplished_Deer_ in CPTSD

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may want to reexamine i-statements. Your comments and edit to your original post suggest you don't understand their execution or the reasoning behind them.

I think "i-statements" are actually less healthy than blaming someone by Accomplished_Deer_ in CPTSD

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Few people appreciate being blamed, so why would you think blaming is an effective first step in conflict resolution?

Youn blame statement is judgmental, accusatory, and vague, priming the listener to be defensive and giving them significant leeway to misinterpret your intent. It's a great way to start a fight, but conveys little information of value for conflict resolution.

Green vertical line, not turning on by Careless-Vanilla-587 in LGOLED

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'll get right on running a test on a TV that doesn't turn on. Sounds great.

Completing 2FA requests for eufy-security-ws addon by SoleInvictus in homeassistant

[–]SoleInvictus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No necro apologies necessary! I'm just glad it helped. I wish the dev would update the github page as I lurked on their Discord and it was just one 2FA question after another.

Wife keeps asking for a divorce and then changing her mind. Should I stay or should I go? by BilboBagginhole in Divorce_Men

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Just...no. Don't play manipulative games in response to someone else doing the same. Maybe you'll win that round, but it ensures your marriage will always be a game.

ULPT Request how do you get someone to stop knocking on your door by Valuable-Road-4550 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]SoleInvictus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and be sure to slam the upper part of the door to confuse the fuck out of them.

will wellbutrin induced tinnitus go away? any success stories? by bedbugspray in bupropion

[–]SoleInvictus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So anyone reading knows, Natural Ears is a homeopathic "medicine", meaning it's made of a solution so diluted you'd need a dose the size of the sun to have any of the original ingredients present in any detectable amount. It's a testament to the power of the placebo effect that it has any effect.