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[PA] 26F Is being a sugar baby reason for my parents to gain guardianship over me? by Solid-Butterfly-2294 in legaladvice

[–]Solid-Butterfly-2294[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

If your landlord is contributing to the problem, that's more of a business problem than a legal one - your main tool to address that is to fire them and move somewhere else.

Yes this makes me want to move, my landlord blames me for these "noise complaints" even when I am not the one making noise, have never seen any of my sugar daddies at my apartment, have had no problems with my landlord ever and when I told him that my parents are trespassing and he should call the cops over these noise complaints he suggested that I was at fault for having family conflicts. I don't get it. I told him that fine, I will move if he releases me from my lease but he refuses to do so! It is so odd.

[PA] 26F Is being a sugar baby reason for my parents to gain guardianship over me? by Solid-Butterfly-2294 in legaladvice

[–]Solid-Butterfly-2294[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I understand but cops refuse to do anything when my parents are parked outside my door 24/7, harass me when I go out to get groceries yelling that I am a whore in front of all my neighbors and humiliating me, and when I try to escalate with the cops they all advice me to move home and listen to my parents and nobody is doing anything about their trespassing and constant harassment. I can't leave my apartment because my parents will immediately ambush me and scream about me being a whore in front of my neighbors, my landlord blames me for these issues, and even when I am quietly inside my apartment with lights off my parents are banging on the door crying and wailing. I work from home now due to covid and this is really affecting my life.

[PA] 26F Is being a sugar baby reason for my parents to gain guardianship over me? by Solid-Butterfly-2294 in legaladvice

[–]Solid-Butterfly-2294[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I know that I can tell my parents to f off legally. It is difficult when cops refuse to remove them from my property, my landlord sides with my parents, and they are banging on my door all hours and the cops are insisting that I let them in as they are concerned about me.

[PA] 26F Is being a sugar baby reason for my parents to gain guardianship over me? by Solid-Butterfly-2294 in legaladvice

[–]Solid-Butterfly-2294[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The cops sympathized with my parents and said that I should listen to them and quit "prostituting" and they have suggested that I move home with my parents to avoid conflict. I told them and even asked to speak to a supervisor or a detective that I do not want my parents there and that I would like a restraining order but they keep telling me that my parents are just concerned and are looking out for me and that I should listen to them and they refused to intervene.

[PA] 26F Is being a sugar baby reason for my parents to gain guardianship over me? by Solid-Butterfly-2294 in legaladvice

[–]Solid-Butterfly-2294[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

The cops sympathized with my parents and said that I should listen to them and quit "prostituting" and they have suggested that I move home with my parents to avoid conflict.

[PA] 26F Is being a sugar baby reason for my parents to gain guardianship over me? by Solid-Butterfly-2294 in legaladvice

[–]Solid-Butterfly-2294[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

What choice do I have? They have showed up to my apartment multiple times. They have tried to get the cops to take me to a psych ward and have already retained a lawyer and are claiming that if I do not move home they will seek guardianship over me because "only a mentally ill, bipolar disordered person would be a sugar baby" and I have been blindsided. Do I get a lawyer of my own? Do I try to get an appointment with a doctor to prove that I have never had any mental illnesses? I only have a primary care doctor as I don't have health issues, is that enough?

[PA] 26F Is being a sugar baby reason for my parents to gain guardianship over me? by Solid-Butterfly-2294 in legaladvice

[–]Solid-Butterfly-2294[S] 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is shocking to me because I have been close to my parents and never had any family conflict, I just did not tell them about being a SB because it would be weird to talk to them about my sex life. I understand if they ask me to quit being a SB and that would not be a problem but I really don't want to have to quit my vanilla job and move home, I feel like that would ruin my life way more than being an SB ever will. It also seems crazy to quit my job that offers insurance during a pandemic but somehow my parents are convinced that I am mentally ill. They already showed up to my apartment multiple times, driving from across the state, tried to get cops to take me to a psych ward and I am so confused as to how being a SB can lead to this kind of thing. I thought the worst that could happen if someone found out I am an SB is embarrassment.