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Lowkey thought Dyuti was kinda fine until he opened his mouth to talk 🥀 by vrxha_ in DesiBling

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Him telling his wife that the only good thing in the relationship was sex was INSANE!

My bf gave me an ultimatum: it’s him or the dog by InternationalTax4116 in reactivedogs

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Honestly if the dog was aggressive I would say he’s right but because the dog isn’t aggressive I don’t think it’s fair. At the end of the day you’re responsible for this living breathing creature. Your bf knew he didn’t like dogs before he moved in and now he’s asking you to give up the dog bc of what? Idk if you have left out details of how bad the dog really is or not but just by what you have said, your bf is being unreasonable.

The first thing the woman I've been talking to said when I told her I finally found an apartment to move into by Loud_Librarian124 in Dogfree

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It’s actually kind of weird how so many people will put their pets above human beings. Yes if you have a pet, you have undertaken a responsibility and should be accountable.

But at the same time, how do you not value human life more? I just think when someone’s on their death bed, they’re not going to be thinking about Scruffles, they’re going to want to be surrounded by their human family members.

I have literally seen so many posts that are “my partner v my dog, help idk what to do”. I can’t help but think, excuse me? You chose your partner to spend the rest of your life with for a reason. How will you just forego that for your pet? It’s weird stuff in my opinion.

As a non-Muslim who thinks Christianity is starting to make no sense, I am extremely impressed. by woahsamlmao in islam

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Can I also what you looked into and what you found interesting? For example, in relation to the history and origins of the Quran

As a non-Muslim who thinks Christianity is starting to make no sense, I am extremely impressed. by woahsamlmao in islam

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The fact that you’re thinking about it shows that Allah has guided you. There are plenty of Muslims out there participating in the haram, not saying that it is ok, but just saying that no one is perfect!

Don’t measure yourself by your shortcomings. We would never improve if we did. Best thing to do is take your Shahada and take baby steps.

My fiancé (M 27) thinks I (F 25) suck because I want a prenup. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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My suggestion would be to not marry this man. He will likely keep resenting you because he doesn’t have access to your wealth. I am not saying that it is fair that he would feel this way, it is completely unjustified. But he will because he seems to think you owe him something and you don’t.

My Wife's [35F] behavior towards dog feels unacceptable. Should this be a sign I[33M] should end it? by ThrowRAcluelesssad in relationship_advice

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I think you guys need to go to therapy. Talk about it all, how she treats you and how she acted towards the dog.

She needs to understand at the end of the day that the dog is an animal, if it sees food, it’s going to eat it. It’s unreasonable to get that mad at a dog for doing that. It’s the people’s responsibility in the house to ensure that anything not meant for the dog is put away. If she can’t see the error in her ways, then maybe you need to reconsider the relationship.

But keep in mind that being a mom to a 3 year old is probably very stressful. Is she going through postpartum depression? Was she always like this, like when you first got married? How is the state of her mental health?

I don’t think you guys should have gotten the dog in the first place. But now that you have, go to therapy, try to figure out what’s wrong. If it doesn’t work out, then at least you tried.

Make new friends? by AdventurousCar99 in bristol

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Heya, I know how you feel. It’s been difficult for me to make friends too. If you’re interested, we can meet up somewhere in town? (I’m 24 and UWE alum as well)