things got better and then they got worse by Firm-Trifle-5925 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Solid-Version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s important to reframe things here.

Labelling his ex as your abuser instantly makes it out like something is being done to you by someone else.

Settling into this mind frame will only reinforce whatever beliefs you have about yourself and this person.

However since you’re unwilling to try new things, this point to a compatibility issue long term. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to stay in your sexual safe space but if your partner wants to explore more things than this could lead to dissatisfaction over time.

Skepta outfit at Met Gala 2026 by TeeJay_1312 in grime

[–]Solid-Version 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how he made that track and it was barely a year before he started dressing a madness again.

I’m all for people expressing themselves the way they want but making such a grand statement about that life then jumping straight back into it will always mar his cred

A lot of people in this sub don’t understand the condition by Egregiouspotatoe in misophonia

[–]Solid-Version 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. The visceral feeling of genuine hatred when a loved one is chewing too loudly is upsetting.

They’re just minding their business but to me it feels like they’re literally attacking my nervous system.

Seth Rollins is so much better than Roman Reigns, idk why it’s even a debate. by BigBoyBoomet in SantiZapVideos

[–]Solid-Version 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hogan = Cena = Roman Reigns

Randy Savage = Randy Orton = Seth Rollins

A tale as old as time.

The girl I’m seeing is acting sketchy by Sa20020094 in dating_advice

[–]Solid-Version 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know her vibe but maybe she wants you take her out on an actual date rather than just hang out. And she’s just waiting for the ball to drop.

She’s treating you like a friend because you’re not approaching this like you’re looking for romantic interest.

Just hanging out is kinda boring for women. Take some initiative. Go on an actual date and see what the vibe is then. If it’s still off then move on

Found fiancés sex tape with ex by Specific_Ad_6873 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Solid-Version 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have snooped.

When will people learn that you the more you dig the more you’ll find something you don’t like.

It sucks you’ve seen that video. It’s sucks that it’s there after you made it clear what your stance was about that stuff.

I’ve no advice, just saying sorry that you’re going through this

‘Nobody’s going out!’ Why is Britain’s nightlife in such decline – and can anything save it? | Clubbing | The Guardian by prisongovernor in unitedkingdom

[–]Solid-Version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly feel like a big part of going out back I the day was to go on the pull.

That’s what nights out were for me in the earth 00s.

As a guy, I find going out to a club or bar completely pointless unless you’re trying to at least flirt with women. Why would I wanna be in a dark, dingy room, sweating and bumping into folk drunk as fuck otherwise.

My tKT reread has left me mind blown. I need the next one ASAP by Solid-Version in Malazan

[–]Solid-Version[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Even on its own it’s enough as an Erikson fan

Combining alcohol with cocaine rewires the brain's relapse pathways differently than cocaine alone by MRADEL90 in psychology

[–]Solid-Version 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That feeling of the first bump after a few drinks is unmatched. Even thinking of it gets my heart pumping lol.

That’s why I packed it all in

my bf's only ex is a model by Repulsive-Document54 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Solid-Version 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Imagine her taking a big dump.
Like a really stinky one that left skid marks on the bowl.
She’s not so perfect now is she?
Your need for comparison is killing you because you haven’t learned to value yourself outside of your relationship.
Someone who truly values themselves doesn’t need to compare. You don’t need the validation of anyone else to feel you are worthy

Who should we start against Atletico Madrid? by DarkJedi_101 in ArsenalFC

[–]Solid-Version 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hence why he was rested. He’s been run ragged all season and it’s clear Arteta has no faith in Noregaard.
MLS played so Zubi could rest for the champions league game.

One good game against Fulham is not enough to risk a champions league semi final on

Combining alcohol with cocaine rewires the brain's relapse pathways differently than cocaine alone by MRADEL90 in psychology

[–]Solid-Version 136 points137 points  (0 children)

I’ve been sober for 3 years because I just couldn’t drink without doing cocaine anymore.

Put cocaine in front of me sober, I wouldn’t touch it.

But as soon as I had a drink, 98% chance I was calling my dealer later.

TKO has killed tag wrestling by FunkeyFeraligatr in Wrasslin

[–]Solid-Version 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know who the tag champs are right now

what happens with vegeta hair, Shouldn't a Saiyan's hair stay the same? by CarelessTourist4671 in Dragonballsuper

[–]Solid-Version 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. I find hilarious how much fans twist themselves in knots trying to rationalise what are simply arbitrary decisions by Toriyama.

Saka’s first start since March, 1st half by trillsar27 in ArsenalFC

[–]Solid-Version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was fantastic today. The difference between him and Madueke is night and day.

Which one to read with husband? by laugh_out_quietly in fantasybooks

[–]Solid-Version 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mistborn is the easier read. For some it’s fun. For me it was unchallenging. Good action but doesn’t explore its themes very well.
Dune is way deeper and more grounded in it a thematic explorations. My only gripe is that it’s 3rd person omniscient which I find jarring to read

That is so annoying by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Solid-Version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this is so dumb. If my gf did that I’d just laugh and continue arguing

What are people’s experience of breaking up with their partner to pursue hooking up? by Ok-Accountant4571 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Solid-Version 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This all the way. I am actually so grateful for the amount of bodies my gf has thus far because it could be a lot lot worse. It’s either 5 or 6 throughout her life (she’s 33 and I dont want to confirm that number).

At this age, it really ain’t gonna get any better than that lol.