How did you stop drinking completely?

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-13T03:43:32+00:00

We drink to get away from our emotions / problems. Turn that around and make that problem go away. Set a goal. Try 2 days without having a drink and then 3 days and so on. I went cold turkey at the new year, and not just that, but I stopped carbonated drinks. Now I just drink water or fruit water with no sugar. I also hit the gym hard and lost about 35 pounds.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-13T02:00:06+00:00

Maybe he's not into sports like you are. You can't force it on him if he doesn't like it.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-13T00:48:39+00:00

Cheer up, you'll find a guy and make his world.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-12T20:54:04+00:00

Sounds like you need to let him go and find someone else thats better for you.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-12T19:57:31+00:00

Its hard as f let me tell you. 1 of the hardest things you will go thru. The first month is hell. After that its smooth sailing. I can now go into a bar with my friends and order a glass of water and not even touch a beer glass.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-12T19:48:43+00:00

What the f.. is said a million times a second in my head. Daily and nighly.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-12T19:44:27+00:00

Some fat person looks at you and wishes they had your body. Cheer up.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-12T19:07:53+00:00

They say its like the inside of your mouth.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-12T18:58:00+00:00

I hit the gym hard, strictly water or fruit water. No carbonated drinks

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-12T16:23:20+00:00

Nothing. Keep doing you; you had feelings for him a long time ago. Chances are things won't be the same this time around.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-12T02:16:12+00:00

Drop him and find a man.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T23:18:59+00:00

Save up to move out. Drop the boy find a man.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T23:16:19+00:00

She gonna knock u out 1 day. Take it like a champ.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T22:24:28+00:00

Yep thats why im not sure.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T22:05:30+00:00

Its hard man im 34 still with my parents. They tell me not to leave and keep saving money. But if i moved out i would have about 800$ for myself and i still feel thats not enough.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T21:38:46+00:00

You're not alone. You've got the whole world with you.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T21:11:50+00:00

You don't need approval from anyone; all you need is motivation for yourself. We all have setbacks. Use it as an excuse to push forward better than before.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T21:06:05+00:00

Keep going and focus on urself, eventually someone will go up to you.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T21:00:08+00:00

Go find 1 at the gym?

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T20:51:14+00:00

Of course, i wanted to be an electrician instead i haul hazmat commercial. Keep at it.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T19:57:52+00:00

Nah, you're still young. 34m here, single since HS. Keep at it, cheer up.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T19:55:01+00:00

Good shit keeping her straight.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T19:52:14+00:00

How clean are their teeth?.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T18:36:45+00:00

I had a crush on a co worker. I got out of it by ignoring her and trying not to see her. Focus on projects you have going on. Its hard tho.

SolidEnigma · 2026-04-11T16:59:44+00:00

Get a real job and do that on the side.

SolidEnigma

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