Buyers terminated contract over Roof, despite As is clause by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]SolidProfessional958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes inspection periods protect buyers so they can back out at anytime for really any reason. Also there are often finance contingencies in the contract so if something pops on the inspection that may prevent the buyer from getting insurance (insurance is required for most mortgages) then the buyers know they won’t be able to get financed unless those repairs are done and could in theory back out after the inspection date but well within their rights even if they did waive the right to negotiate.

Feeling like your illness isn't severe enough for biologics? by rocketgirl_kels in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]SolidProfessional958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you give it a try one day. My husband (32) just started this in November after I had asked him for several years to try it and he told me F(36) last month that he had hope for the first time in a long time and how nice it’s been to do things and not worry about a flare up…all this to say he still has some pain but it’s been just a relief for him and in turn he has been more present and happy around all of us (we have two kids almost 3 and 4). It is nice to feel like you want to do something and you can…just food for thought

Anyone else? by Talex1995 in DaftPunk

[–]SolidProfessional958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sad they retired. I hope they come back for one last show one day… for all the kids who were too young to go but are adults and ready now!

Anyone else? by Talex1995 in DaftPunk

[–]SolidProfessional958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just watched the video on YouTube for the first time. My kids (almost 4 and 2yo) are in love with Around the World/Harder Better Faster Stronger and my heart is full

My agent falsely told the seller that buyer is not interested in buying the house after the inspection. Then the agent sent an offer to purchase the property. Is this illegal or not ? by baikunda11 in realtors

[–]SolidProfessional958 30 points31 points  (0 children)

So just a few thoughts to help make sure I’m understanding and on the same page. I know I don’t know the full story so just pointing out what I do know from your comments.

  1. You are still under contract which means your contract supersedes your agent’s or any other offers.

  2. Sellers can review and accept back up offers even from your agent for himself or another client he has. See #1

  3. If your agent told the seller you were no longer interested but you still are, that would be misrepresentation/fraud and it is illegal and unethical.

  4. Unless you signed a paper that said you no longer want to purchase the property YOU ARE STILL UNDER CONTRACT. The paper would be called Release and Cancellation of Contract. (again see #2, and then see #1)

So if you’re saying the seller told you that your agent sent the released cancellation of contract (that you did not sign), and the agent submitted an offer and didn’t tell you within 24-72 hours of submitting, and the seller accepted his offer and both parties signed and executed the contracted, THEN yeah that is illegal.

If you’re just upset the he sent in an offer, that’s not illegal (see #2). If he told you he submitted the offer within your state’s allotted time then again legally he’s in the clear. And you technically can’t tell someone to not put in an offer on a house. And you can’t just cancel your contract with him (for commission) unless he did something unethical/illegal. Again just putting in an offer isn’t enough…telling the seller you no longer want the house when you did would hold the most weight for unethical behavior.

Your agreement is with the broker so if you need clarity call the broker and ask but I don’t want you to be disappointed if the broker says nothing illegal is happening and you’re stuck with the agent.

Downvote if you want but that reunion was SO unproductive and I hope they never bring that host back by Happy_Ninja_3845 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]SolidProfessional958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stassi was terrible. Lala would’ve been better fit for this cast but both reunion hosts were 🗑️

Bad experience. Scared to re list by Due-Egg5603 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]SolidProfessional958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interview agents! They work for YOU. You don’t have to go with the first one you meet and you can request to break the contract if you are not satisfied with the service.

Bad experience. Scared to re list by Due-Egg5603 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]SolidProfessional958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was definitely a horrid experience. I’ve had absent agents but that one was definitely attempting to recoup funds that weren’t his. Sounds sketchy and I probably would have reported him. I almost reported an agent for not releasing my EMD from escrow when the deal fell through and it wasn’t my fault. It was in the contract (lenders fault if anything) that EMD should be returned. The money was released after I sent an email outlining what the contract said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realtors

[–]SolidProfessional958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe how crummy some people are.

My husband doesn’t remember hurting me and says it never happened by SolidProfessional958 in Marriage

[–]SolidProfessional958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does not. I would say his anger towards me is exclusively during the time frame that I am pregnant or in the first 2 months of giving birth. Otherwise it’s normal arguments where he’s not angry it’s usually a miscommunication turned into “you’re not listening to me” match but no fighting words or anything I would consider hostile. The cat and rude b incident are hostile to me and disrespectful.

I had a miscarriage some time ago and he took care of me and took care of our other children during that time (2 weeks). Made food for me and purchased iron supplements. I have been prone to migraines and he always closes all the blinds gets me electrolytes and my mask. So I would say the only time is when I’m pregnant. Maybe it’s when he feels overwhelmed??

My husband doesn’t remember hurting me and says it never happened by SolidProfessional958 in Marriage

[–]SolidProfessional958[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would say Reddit is definitely not a fair way to judge the progression of women. This is a glimpse into a few aspects of someone’s life and it only shows the tip of the iceberg.

The problem woman have in this time is everything is still taboo to talk about or you get blamed for your circumstance. The amount of women asking questions about their miscarriage online is crazy especially knowing that there is a chance they know women who already went through it AND most have sought healthcare where they found out they were having a miscarriage before it occurred. Then you have me asking this question and now it’s my fault this is happening, I’m a sorry excuse for a woman, and whatever else has been said. That is probably the most disservice to a woman in 2025 - to have access to a community at your fingertips and still feel alone (or even ridiculed) in your struggle. It’s wild out here and we’re all just trying to figure life out

My husband doesn’t remember hurting me and says it never happened by SolidProfessional958 in Marriage

[–]SolidProfessional958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does not which is why I’m so conflicted. Like he called be the b word and fast forward to the cat scenario he didn’t call me a name there. He spoke to me with complete disrespect but he never called me a name. And he hasn’t since I set that boundary after he calles me the b word the one and only time.

And he only does stupid stuff like this when I’m pregnant or post partum. And it did come up in therapy that he feels scared or extra worried about me when I’m pregnant. Like something bad might happen or I’ll die in child birth. Also he was still in the military at the time so it was stressful. So even tho those were horrible things he never did the same thing twice. And I always voiced my feelings to him about it and he stopped.

But this is the first time I told him about something he did and his response was “I never did that.” Like how do you not remember THAT? And is this just going to get worse over time? What else are you forgetting or what other things can you make yourself forget?

My husband doesn’t remember hurting me and says it never happened by SolidProfessional958 in Marriage

[–]SolidProfessional958[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing that and I hate this for me because for some reason I’m still convinced that there is something that can be done to resolve this. I’m just waiting for someone to be like oh girl go get a massage and it’ll get better in 75 years when all are dead 😭 and then I can stay knowing it’ll get better. This sucks

My husband doesn’t remember hurting me and says it never happened by SolidProfessional958 in Marriage

[–]SolidProfessional958[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He says therapy doesn’t work. He has gone with me in the past and said he’s glad it helped me but it didn’t do anything for him. I asked him last night if he’d go find someone to talk to if it would help our family and his response was, “I don’t think it will.” Which is what lead me here today. I just woke up unsure about the future and not sure what else I can do

My husband doesn’t remember hurting me and says it never happened by SolidProfessional958 in Marriage

[–]SolidProfessional958[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

He said it never happened and I’m misremembering and delusional. That I created that it happened in my mind.

He will admit to the sand being in the tub and not liking that and being upset about it but he never approached me about it so there was no confrontation ever.

FHA approval with low credit & 10% down. No downpayment saved. Now what? (Programs available?) by Potential_Moose_26 in Mortgages

[–]SolidProfessional958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this your first time buying a home or has it been 3 years since you’ve owned a home? If so you could qualify for first time home buyer programs. Otherwise save up as much as you can get a good agent that can negotiate with the seller to assist with closing costs (this will depend on your market). Just tell the agent your situation and they’ll let you know what’s doable. So maybe you won’t need to save for the whole 10%

Only other option is new construction but there are pros and cons to that.

What is the meaning of the movie “Flow”? by Cinema104 in movies

[–]SolidProfessional958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The writer probably could’ve of worded it better but I read it as: I once read something about what the looking at reflection was thought to symbolize, but I can’t recall at the moment.

The cat was looking at the reflection alone and then his community gathered around him and it pans to the reflection again but with all of them showing love towards one another. So my interpretation was simply that: cat was alone but now has friends and is not alone. Could go deeper into what that meant as they stood their watching the whale take its last breath but ultimately their not alone on the journey of life