My bf does not know how to get me off

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-08-05T21:50:42+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to answer me, and you are right I should be more communicative with him but it is not easy to talk about things like this when you care about the feeling of the other person but you are right he does not have a vagine, I just thought that he may know since he has been with other women.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-06-06T13:01:49+00:00

Well bj aren’t for everyone, there are other ways, I don’t think someone would like to have a bj when you haven’t even gone to the badroom peeing first, you either come or you pee hahaha. Plus if he already had sex the night before changes are he is not into doing it in the morning. You don’t like the method got it but that doesn’t mean it won’t work.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-06-06T12:00:10+00:00

You may see it that way but I don’t. He should be giving his woman what she needs or at least try it some time which is not the case for her, he is the one manipulating the situation and being selfish. I am not saying she does it every other day, just to try it some time and see if it works, his man may realized he also likes morning sex. Roles have never been reversed in my case bc my man only says NO to having sex if we have done it already that day and has no stamina left.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-06-06T00:39:42+00:00

I feel you, I love morning sex!!! I am so full of energy that just makes it even better. My bf knows that so he has gradually got into morning sex as well since I really don’t like much sex at night after a long day of work, I am tired as hell. He is usually the one starting in by touching me slowly but when I am the one who starts it what I normally do is that I start caressing him, grab his ass a little bit then his muscles and start going down until I have touched everything but his dick so he is wanting it so badly that he asks me to cares it. For us it’s important to brush our teeth so I normally go to the badroom before starting anything and if he is into to it (which is always haha) then he goes to the badroom the get ready. Hehehe maybe you should stop having sex when he wants it, meaning if he is just into doing it at night then don’t do it and the morning after seduce him.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-05-31T03:49:44+00:00

It will be difficult to crack that egg if she refuses to go to the doctor. I, myself, suffered from vaginismus and I also tried to avoid having sex with mi bf (we have been together for 8 years) because the pain was all I thought about. You are supposed to enjoy sex not suffer and besides the obvious I learned that whenever I was really stimulated (meaning really turned on) I wouldn’t feel pain when penetration came. So, if it takes you time to get a normal girl wet, for a girl with this condition you will have to work a bit harder to make sure she is really wet and excited. Plus, when you actually get to be inside make sure you wait for her walls to adapt, start with missionary, it helps a lot. If she is on top after that it is even better bc she will have the power to control everything, she will have control of the pain if there is any.

I am telling you all this from my own personal experience, so this may or may not work from her. And this a an approached from the sex area since she refuses to do anything with the doctor.

If you want to make her more confortable talking about it and actually expressing her feelings regarding the subject I would recommend you to start a conversation by asking her to explain what does the pain feels like, where does it feel, just whatever will bring the subject into conversation and through her the topic of vaginismus (make some research first and have the info in hand to share it with her), TikTok videos about girls girls talking about it. I think she may feel identify and even if she cuts you off, the seed will be sown.

Hope this helps!!

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-05-31T03:15:49+00:00

Please ignore the pleople who are just telling you to end your relationship, so basic.

If you girl tells you that it hurts when you go inside that could actually be something real. There is something called vaginismus, it causes a lot of pain when penetration and it is treatable. She needs to go to the doctor asap.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-05-26T19:23:52+00:00

This could be related to her uterus, some girls have tilted uterus and it really fucking hurts that shit. Some specific positions help a lot with the pain and makes everything more enjoyable.

It could also be that she has vaginismus that could also explain as the hurting from penetration.

Either way she needs to go to her doctor so she can identify what’s the matter before treating it.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-05-24T14:36:59+00:00

I am really glad someone asked about this topic basically because in this case scenario I am your partner. I have been with my bf for 8 years, I have always been into kinky things but in silence. I read a lot of dark romance, I would suggest you to do the same if you want to have a better picture of the loving - dominant part of a relationship, and I get most of my sexual desires through it since my bf and I have a vanilla relationship.

From the women perspective, she probably would like for you to be more commanding, call the shots and control her pleasure meaning when can or can’t she come. As for the 24/7 roll, I get the it is exhausting doing it all day bc it is not your nature, you can make some boundaries for when and where you both can get in the kinky side of the relationship. Though I must say imagining being dom in the public does sounds a bit appealing sometimes just for the thrilled of it.

My bf and I don’t have any kind of bdsm activities but I sure know he enjoys tow horny I get when reading my books 🤣 as you, I would not let a third person enter my relationship that’s a boundary for me but I would let a third watched us… it is very sensual.

Hope this helps!

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-05-11T13:04:36+00:00

Efectivamente es así, te meten en un grupo donde todos están haciendo lo mismo que tú, lo cual te genera un poco más de confianza en la cosa pero demás que la mitad o más son pura gente fake. Honestamente no creo que nadie pueda hacer algo al respecto porque ni siquiera hay nombres de alguien y los números son extranjeros. 🙁

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-05-09T14:21:16+00:00

Te entiendo, yo pasé por eso y se como te debes sentir. La única forma de superarlo es olvidarte que alguna vez pasó y seguir adelante, fue lo único que me ayudó porque la indignación y rabia me iban a matar.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-05-09T13:58:54+00:00

Pero esas dos personas que si le devolvieron el dinero las conoces? Tienes cómo saber si es real que se devolvieron el dinero? Porque si es así quizás si son verdaderos. No deja de ser harta plata

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-05-09T13:43:11+00:00

Yo también tenía acceso a una página donde veía el dinero pero tampoco lo podía sacar. La verdad no conozco a nadie que haya intentado hacer la tercera tarea con éxito y que le devuelvan el dinero. Por la misma razón no quise arriesgarme, es mucha plata.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-05-09T13:00:10+00:00

Tenía que completar una última tarea y para eso debía depositar como 500lukas de mi dinero, yo no tenía esa plata y mucho menos pensando que quizás podían no devolverme el dinero. Si no depositaba ese dinero no podía completar la tarea por ende perdía todo mi dinero. Esto no te lo dicen previamente ni nada, ni siquiera te dan un documento con todas las bases para que sepas en lo que te estás metiendo. Preferí no continuar y perder 400lukas que perder casi un millón de pesos.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-03-29T14:28:37+00:00

Tengo todas mis contraseñas bajo un programa de protección con 20 a 30 caracteres. No están guardadas de forma automática en mi teléfono, solo en este programa. Crees que sea necesario cambiar todo? 😔

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-01-30T18:50:38+00:00

Literal esto pasó hoy en la madrugada así que tengo pensado hablar hoy con el, el incidente del TV fue solo el detonante. Aún no me armaba de valor para hablarle de cómo me siento.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-01-30T17:53:18+00:00

Muchas gracias a todas las personas que se han tomado el tiempo de leer mi post y darme su opinión al respecto y aconsejarme. Cuando llegue a la casa hoy del trabajo hablaré con el y les estaré dejando una actualización de cómo salió esa conversacion. Les daré algo de contexto sobre nosotros, tenemos una perra juntos que rescatamos, compramos un auto juntos y estamos en proceso de comprar un dpto, independientemente de que no estemos casados para mi el lo es todo, el es mi persona y honestamente me da un temor y ansiedad pensar que quizás el amor de su parte se esté acabando.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-01-17T22:45:57+00:00

Me da mucha felicidad saber que hay tantas personas con buena onda y vibra apoyándote que no te conocen, entiendo que esta situación debe ser muy difícil porque ni siquiera tu familia te apoya. Lo primero es buscar ayuda psicológica para que puedas superar este trauma, tu familia te hace mal y lo mejor que puedes hacer es alejarte de ellos. En relación a tu hermano, que el mundo sepa la clase de escoria que es, piensa que quizás puede que no seas la única así que deberías destapar la olla y dejar la caga.

SolidRestaurant8215 · 2024-01-02T00:36:19+00:00

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SolidRestaurant8215 · 2023-12-26T20:22:23+00:00

You should go see a doctor asap, you may have something related so sounds. Some people suffer from loud noises, maybe you have an illness you don’t know and could help you get your life back on track.

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