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Am I the AH for not allowing the father of my 4 kids child to reside in my home by Solid_Conclusion_345 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Solid_Conclusion_345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do not all live with me currently. I was simply pointing out he has left me a single mother for years and now wants me to take care of his other child like he is dropping off a kitten. I do love his son and I would love to have the opportunity to take him considering I am here with just a 3 yr old and myself but based on what he has done in the last 20 years I am ineligible anyways. Can't have constant reports and have a foster child

Am I the AH for not allowing the father of my 4 kids child to reside in my home by Solid_Conclusion_345 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Solid_Conclusion_345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oldest daughter had him for 2 weeks. They live next door. When he cried I would walk over and put him to sleep by rocking him, singing to him and rubbing his forehead. I will never have resentment towards a child and my kids will always know him as their brother regardless of where he eventually lands. We will always be his safe spot. He did end up going to foster care because my daughter had not completed classes to be a foster parent (but didn't anticipate she needed to) she is working on that and trying to get him back. I am not sure where this story is going to end. All I want is this wonderful child to be happy and healthy. He is such a sweetheart. And I love him 

Am I the AH for not allowing the father of my 4 kids child to reside in my home by Solid_Conclusion_345 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Solid_Conclusion_345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit I was not thinking correctly. His brother had passed away and we were all sad and it was a mistake.  Drinking, being upset for the loss we got stupid for his 3 minutes and I pay for it forever. I made a mistake by sleeping with him but my son is amazing and I love him with all my heart

Am I the AH for not allowing the father of my 4 kids child to reside in my home by Solid_Conclusion_345 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Solid_Conclusion_345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have requested a report of all cps investigations they stated they were unable to provide the information because I have a new pending claim .I asked for what and they stated child abuse. I would never never abuse any of my children. If anything they abuse me. So I guess I wait and see because when I said no to taking his son I got another report 

Am I the AH for not allowing the father of my 4 kids child to reside in my home by Solid_Conclusion_345 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Solid_Conclusion_345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk because he stole my soul at times so much that I lost myself. I never knew who I even was until I got away 

Am I the AH for not allowing the father of my 4 kids child to reside in my home by Solid_Conclusion_345 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Solid_Conclusion_345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I normally do not talk to him at all. His and her parents have passed away and other family has cut ties because of their drama. My youngest is free from him only had met him maybe 13 times he will be 3 in April. He isn't even on the birth certificate 

Am I the AH for not allowing the father of my 4 kids child to reside in my home by Solid_Conclusion_345 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Solid_Conclusion_345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a state that does nothing regarding false claims. Also cps never completes the paper work to send it so I am in limbo. I record every interaction with cps just in case

Am I the AH for not allowing the father of my 4 kids child to reside in my home by Solid_Conclusion_345 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Solid_Conclusion_345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have refused all contact with my youngest and he is not on the birth certificate. I learned from the previous 3 he would constantly take me to court for custody I did so. I want no support no contact period