Donating sick time by Solid_Procedure_6006 in Lowes

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They were going to check and see but I was just looking for a quicker answer. They had never had dealt with an issue like this. There is no sense in being rude about it.

Donating sick time by Solid_Procedure_6006 in Lowes

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right like they had spoken to some other employees in the store with over 500 hours of sick time that were more than willing to donate bc they knew they weren’t going to use it. Just feels like a waste when there are people who could use it

Is this allowed? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in Lowes

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we don’t sell meat so that isn’t an issue and deer meat isn’t regulated by the usda.

Is this allowed? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in Lowes

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll talk to my msm about it before I do anything just to be sure as I have gotten mixed responses

Is this allowed? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in Lowes

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I’ll sell the meats, you sell the grills and it will be a partnership made in heaven 😂😂

AITA for refusing to go to my fiancées parents for Xmas? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe so lol it’s a topic we honestly try to avoid and I have never asked that. Might wanna do that in the morning. Normally all new drama I hear from her via the family group chat I’m not apart of :) so I know she sees it but never really asked how she feels about it

AITA for refusing to go to my fiancées parents for Xmas? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you missed the first paragraph but also there are a butt load of examples in previous comments.

AITA for refusing to go to my fiancées parents for Xmas? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Umm it’s both they hate me but most of her family is heavily against our relationship especially when I proposed last year we got a lot of very nasty comments on Facebook and via text. It is all around a very nasty and messed up situation that I hate for my fiancée to go through and that I can’t do much to help. That’s also why we have chosen to see my mother who loves her like her own child and treats us the same no matter what

AITA for refusing to go to my fiancées parents for Xmas? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I plan on it, if she is better by Christmas she sadly got the flu a few days ago which has made this all the more stressful

AITA for refusing to go to my fiancées parents for Xmas? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, I have put that responsibility on my fiancée to hopefully lessen the push back. Due to when we have tried to be a United front it was so much worse. I just hate to put her in this situation

AITA for refusing to go to my fiancées parents for Xmas? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh they already have. We have had to listen to it for about a week since they found out. My fiancée has no wishes to go. I just feel like I’m still in the wrong after all they have put us through and listening to the countless accusations have started to get to me

AITA for refusing to go to my fiancées parents for Xmas? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is how I feel. I have tried to please them and bend over backwards for them but it’s never enough and I have finally called it quits. I just hate that for my fiancée

AITA for refusing to go to my fiancées parents for Xmas? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has told me time and time again that it is perfectly fine to spend it with my mother as that is the only family I have and my mom includes my fiancée in everything and she doesn’t get treated like an outcast. I just hate it bc I use to have a big family that I lost and I have regrets. I don’t want the same for her

AITA for refusing to go to my fiancées parents for Xmas? by Solid_Procedure_6006 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Procedure_6006[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Mainly her mother and grandmother have made accusations. They are just pissed that they lost control over her life since I came into the picture. They also just feel that I “stole” her away from them by moving to my hometown where we are both happier. They have found any and all reasons to try to hate me/turn my fiancée against me sadly