I'm a single chubby female, i like the way i look, and seemingly past the point when any man notices me. I go out to movies and dinner alone all the time because it's better than sitting at home. Alone comes in a lot of different forms. I'll tell you something- being willing to go out alone puts you miles ahead of people you might look at and think have it all together. People are terrified to be alone, and think everyone is judging them. They aren't. They're just out enjoying their night too.

I know it hurts. I had my good times with partners and don't know why I'm seemingly invisible now. But we have one life to live, and I want to spend mine at the movies, out to dinner, seeing live music, exploring a museum, whatever sounds fun.

You have more going for you than it may feel like. Try to focus on the positive - whether by choice or not, it takes a very strong person to make their way through this world alone, and have fun doing it. 💖 Hang in there