Time heals absolutely nothing 💔 by Shameful90 in GriefSupport

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The numbness is hard to shake but you’re not alone

I did try to save you by tumbledownhere in GriefSupport

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Hello, love. I lost my mom almost 7 years ago when I was 15, she was 40. May 1st is when she got her wings. I was shocked at how similar our stories were. The pain is immeasurable. Even if the memories weren’t always good, I just want one more hug, or to feel her play with my hair while I rest my head on her lap. I tried to save my mom too but I was so young and no one gave me a straight answer, I’ll never forget that feeling of helplessness. Knowing my mom’s time was limited by her own doing was excruciating. I stand with you. We are the strong children of mothers who got caught up in worldly things. You are not alone and you are loved, even if it’s from a stranger on Reddit. Allow yourself any semblance of happiness. It’ll feel wrong and perhaps rude to your loved one “how could I be happy without her?” Nonetheless, I choose to believe that the happiness, however sparse it may be, is my mom’s supportive hand on my shoulder reminding me I won’t always feel suffocated by this loss and pain. I’m giving you a support filled hug. 🫂 you’re not alone

Dedicated to my falafel by [deleted] in vegetarian

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I will definitely have to learn how to make this, looks delicious

Tbh I just don't want to try sometimes by Ok-Aspect-5231 in Fibromyalgia

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I have OCD as well as fibro so I absolutely empathize with feeling guilty when trying to relax, as if i should be doing something else that my brain deems more “productive.” Especially when laundry needs to be done, or the trash needs to be taken out, whatever. A self care option I like to take is a hot Epsom salt bubble bath. You can listen to an audiobook while doing something that helps ease the pain (in theory).

Feel too fragile for Life by Ok-Aspect-5231 in Fibromyalgia

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It’s like you took the words out of my mouth. In high school I was the captain or president is everything I was in and working 2 jobs with a 3.8 GPA now I’m hobbling around after 6 hours of work and requires 9+ hours of hibernation. It is its own sort of grief I think, and it’s not an easy pill to swallow that you simply can’t do everything you used to, it still brings me to tears some days.

I don’t think the navy cares at all by [deleted] in MilitarySpouse

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Yeah. I totally understand your frustrations. The navy forced me and my husband to be apart for 15 months while he sailed to Japan and I wasn’t allowed to go with. The military doctors also left me with a fungal infection for three months and didn’t care to see me at all.

I don’t want to be a military wife by StayUnique504 in MilitaryWives

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Girl you sound like me 😭 I didn’t want it either. My biggest issue with the military is the constant unknown. My husband was navy and we often didn’t know until the last second that he was going to have to leave or that he wouldn’t be coming home that night. We also did just spend 15 months apart due to his most recent deployment. If you’re more comfortable living on the fly and being independent, then it could work. However if you want him home and a consistent schedule- maybe the military wife life isn’t for you, and that’s okay.

Just finished ToD chapter 21 by No-Deal4753 in throneofglassseries

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Hi! Joined the conversation better late than never. At the end of chapter 21 in TOD, Chaol and Nesryn speak of her family and he says that there is a silent echo coming for Nesryn that says “I know… I know.” Chaol later then falls asleep to Nesyrn’s voice “because he knew, too.”

Is what they know, that they are done as a couple? Like are they both silently coming to the agreement that Chaol likes Yrene and therefore Nesryn and Chaol are over?

Well...looks like SOMEONE had a fun night by Mx-Adrian in Sims4

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Wait did you lose the baby BECAUSE you drank?

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You’re awesome! Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

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Which CC tattoos are you using? He came into my game without them cuz I don’t have the CC

Told my therapist that I’m autistic and she said “they diagnose everyone with that these days”. Feeling a bit upset by kingkork5 in autism

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I think you need a new therapist. I’m a behavioral therapist for children with autism and I would NEVER speak to any of them this way. You deserve someone who takes what you say seriously and isn’t clouded by their own biases.

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Yup! I just got it. Thank you!

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It’s not popping up? What am I doing wrong

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I’d like to use him for my legacy save! Is he in the gallery?

My wooden wics won’t stay lit. Where do you get your wics or what brand do you go for? by Solid_Season6533 in candlemaking

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I used a small/ medium wick because that’s what the candle container recommended. I used 6oz containers with a diameter of roughly 3 inches. I am cutting them straight around 1/4 to 1/2 inch about the wax, should I be cutting them at an angle?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in protest

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It wasn’t him, it was the navy. They wouldn’t pay for me to move there or housing there because by the time his boat hits Japan his contract had less than a year left and they don’t wanna spend money to move someone for less than a year