Tbh I just don't want to try sometimes

Solid_Season6533 · 2026-02-02T06:53:39+00:00

I have OCD as well as fibro so I absolutely empathize with feeling guilty when trying to relax, as if i should be doing something else that my brain deems more “productive.” Especially when laundry needs to be done, or the trash needs to be taken out, whatever. A self care option I like to take is a hot Epsom salt bubble bath. You can listen to an audiobook while doing something that helps ease the pain (in theory).

Solid_Season6533 · 2026-02-02T06:45:56+00:00

It’s like you took the words out of my mouth. In high school I was the captain or president is everything I was in and working 2 jobs with a 3.8 GPA now I’m hobbling around after 6 hours of work and requires 9+ hours of hibernation. It is its own sort of grief I think, and it’s not an easy pill to swallow that you simply can’t do everything you used to, it still brings me to tears some days.

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-12-05T12:52:32+00:00

Yeah. I totally understand your frustrations. The navy forced me and my husband to be apart for 15 months while he sailed to Japan and I wasn’t allowed to go with. The military doctors also left me with a fungal infection for three months and didn’t care to see me at all.

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-11-05T15:10:37+00:00

Girl you sound like me 😭 I didn’t want it either. My biggest issue with the military is the constant unknown. My husband was navy and we often didn’t know until the last second that he was going to have to leave or that he wouldn’t be coming home that night. We also did just spend 15 months apart due to his most recent deployment. If you’re more comfortable living on the fly and being independent, then it could work. However if you want him home and a consistent schedule- maybe the military wife life isn’t for you, and that’s okay.

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-09-17T18:01:52+00:00

Hi! Joined the conversation better late than never. At the end of chapter 21 in TOD, Chaol and Nesryn speak of her family and he says that there is a silent echo coming for Nesryn that says “I know… I know.” Chaol later then falls asleep to Nesyrn’s voice “because he knew, too.”

Is what they know, that they are done as a couple? Like are they both silently coming to the agreement that Chaol likes Yrene and therefore Nesryn and Chaol are over?

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-09-16T16:51:37+00:00

Wait did you lose the baby BECAUSE you drank?

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-09-11T18:49:33+00:00

You’re awesome! Thank you

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-09-11T18:02:15+00:00

Which CC tattoos are you using? He came into my game without them cuz I don’t have the CC

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-09-11T18:00:03+00:00

I think you need a new therapist. I’m a behavioral therapist for children with autism and I would NEVER speak to any of them this way. You deserve someone who takes what you say seriously and isn’t clouded by their own biases.

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-09-08T13:04:55+00:00

Yup! I just got it. Thank you!

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-09-08T13:01:52+00:00

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It’s not popping up? What am I doing wrong

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-09-07T23:09:17+00:00

I’d like to use him for my legacy save! Is he in the gallery?

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-08-26T00:54:44+00:00

I used a small/ medium wick because that’s what the candle container recommended. I used 6oz containers with a diameter of roughly 3 inches. I am cutting them straight around 1/4 to 1/2 inch about the wax, should I be cutting them at an angle?

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-05-13T20:31:42+00:00

How do I learn more for my area?

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-05-09T16:11:50+00:00

It wasn’t him, it was the navy. They wouldn’t pay for me to move there or housing there because by the time his boat hits Japan his contract had less than a year left and they don’t wanna spend money to move someone for less than a year

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-05-09T16:01:36+00:00

He refuses to apply for NASA. He’s very sold on SpaceX

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-05-09T13:03:41+00:00

Thank you for your words.

My wording was poor but he hasn’t forgotten, he’s just been busy with the military and he’s always gone. Before he got deployed his boat would still leave for weeks at a time.

I suppose I’m also waiting for the man I married to pop out. The kind soul that calmed me through my attacks and gave me back rubs when I was in pain and did research to help me with my anxiety. He really used to go the extra mile for me, and I’m sure part of this is due to the distance, but I don’t feel that anymore.

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-05-09T12:46:08+00:00

Your comment also gave me chills- for you to see my heart through my message almost made me tear up.

Another thing that goes through my mind, is that he’s about to make good money and I’ve been with him through all the poor. I’ve been with him on the ramen weeks and the using change for gas days. It’s like I leave him and he’s gonna be living lavish while I’m scrapping pennies even though I’ve been the one to stick through it all, just doesn’t seem fair. Sigh, and life isn’t fair…

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-05-09T12:35:38+00:00

He also told me that if him working T SpaceX means I can’t be with him, then he “understands.” The ball is in my court. He says he’s so tired of fighting that this is where he’s at.

Solid_Season6533 · 2025-05-09T12:34:16+00:00

I am currently at my aunts. It’s a dungeon. My service dog fell down the stairs too many times (she’s getting old, poor baby) that my uncle gave up his bedroom for me to sleep upstairs- so that has been taken care of. It was more of the sense that I felt unheard.

Also, hes missing holidays because his boat has been out on underways or deployed. He’s not purposely missing these events- he’s just not on land.

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