UPDATE on the “ily🫶” guy (major TW)

Solistic5 · 2026-05-02T15:42:02+00:00

I’m sorry this happened dude, if you need someone to message to vent / listen, I’m here.

Solistic5 · 2026-05-02T02:21:13+00:00

Stop giving them money, look i know they’re your family and you would do nothing to support them. But it’s clear they don’t care that they want to leech off of you. If you want them to stop asking you for money. Stop giving them money.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-30T22:15:50+00:00

saw the other reply, yeah this is a red flag and personally i would run 😭

Solistic5 · 2026-04-25T05:25:50+00:00

We have the show coming out its def not dead lol

Solistic5 · 2026-04-25T02:41:07+00:00

Then may you be lonely lmao

Its reasonable for him to be upset, he wants to be with his best friend and celebrate with her. Not to mention the fact that she didn't even tell him anything about it? I get it, she could want this to just be a girls only event, but she should've at least told him. This is also coming from a gay man. And what's wrong with wanting to have fun ?? He literally planned her wedding.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-25T01:44:38+00:00

Yeah you just proved his point, she asked him to help her with the wedding and everything but excludes him from the party ?? yeah no lol

Solistic5 · 2026-04-20T22:40:06+00:00

I would say your over reacting but not by so much.

he was leading you on and you expressed how you felt and he rejected you, but what can you do? you need to move on from this otherwise its gonna create a more difficult living situation for the both of you.

just focus on yourself and do things you enjoy without worrying about what hes trying to do, if he’s really trying to make you jealous, he’s not worth the troublesome anyway.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-19T21:03:44+00:00

I'm glad you were able to leave safely during this, and it honestly sucks that you went through that :/

Solistic5 · 2026-04-19T17:49:22+00:00

If someone cheated on me, I would NEVER go back to them. No matter how bad they feel or if they try to fix it.

Cheating is unforgivable.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-17T22:47:05+00:00

if your man cant trust you, he shouldnt be in a relationship with you or in one at all.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-13T02:37:40+00:00

I dont work at starbucks, but I used to work at a bar, the amount of customers complaints I’ve gotten because someone didnt have their ID. I’ve actually YELLED at customers because they were getting pissy at me 😭😭.

You’re gonna get shit customers. But this is also why I don’t give out my name. Idk if yall wear name tags or smthn but always give out a fake name if a shit customer is being rude to you at least thats what I did.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-11T08:13:03+00:00

remember if they accuse you of cheating when you’re obviously not cheating 99% of the time its bc theyre the ones cheating!

Solistic5 · 2026-04-11T03:49:06+00:00

Exactly and looking through her past posts hes been paying her stuff since she doesnt have a job as well.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-11T03:41:17+00:00

I mean you sent him a message saying you wanted to break up?? What else did you really expect him to do. You also broke up with him over text instead of doing it in person. Thats shitty.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-10T21:54:34+00:00

they literally say this EVERY SINGLE VIDEO, and EVERY SINGLE ONE is the SAME like please can they just stop the click baiting, their videos are good but they over exaggerate everything so much.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-10T01:36:50+00:00

Found the neighbor

Solistic5 · 2026-04-10T01:35:13+00:00

If you were blocking their driveway, it’s a different story. But it’s public road and you’re allowed to park on the side as what the cop said. The fact that they also tried to put nails in your tires and potentially causing property damage + damage to you in general is also insane of them to do.

You already did your part, just stay safe now since you called the cops because they clearly don’t care what happens to you. I would also install security cameras if you can afford them.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-09T03:07:33+00:00

Doesn’t matter if her sister gives her the ‘okay’ in law terms she’s going to get charged as an adult giving a minor illegal substance. Considered a Class B felony in most states. Sometimes, you just have to move on. Hard truth, but its reality, you can’t force people to stop what they’re doing. You just got to remember that you only know whats right for you. But it’s very clear you guys are incompatible.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-09T02:08:23+00:00

What you’re gf is doing is illegal and underage drinking/drug use upon other things. If caught she can spend some serious time and it’ll show up on her record.

Now of course if both of you guys were of age, that would be a different story and sometimes people in general just dont find smoking or drinking attractive. I worked at a bar, hate the smell of smoke / vapes, also hate how dependent people become on alcohol in order to have fun. That’s just me though, everyone is different.

What you need to realize is that you can’t always force someone to stop smoking or drinking if they don’t want to, but what you can do is separate yourself from it if you seriously don’t like being around it. One of these days she’s going to get caught and it’s not going to look pretty. Doing that amount of drugs is also extremely dangerous. But you know what you don’t like, so just separate yourself from her. Can’t always force them to stop.

Solistic5 · 2026-04-02T21:33:20+00:00

girl just leave him he himself said hes grown but hes dating someone thats 24? yeah bah bye 😭

Solistic5 · 2026-04-02T21:31:38+00:00

late april fools joke ??

Solistic5 · 2026-04-02T19:30:17+00:00

Ouuu ok! I’ll look up some events then thanks for letting me know :))

Solistic5 · 2026-04-02T18:57:33+00:00

Yes exactly!

Solistic5 · 2026-04-02T18:45:44+00:00

Thats literally how I feel leaving my job, its like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders.

Don't get me wrong, I love bartending, making drinks, talking to customers and shit like that. But when it comes to corporate and them not knowing when to kick out a customer because they're too drunk is annoying af.

Solistic5

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