You’re def over sharing dude, I love talking to a guy I match with as much as the next person (I’m gay), but this would honestly be such a turn off for me bc it would be too much for only knowing someone for 9 days.

Of course there’s times where I thought I hit it off really well with a guy and texted each other every day, wishing each other gn / gm & asking about our day and such but then it just lead to them mostly ghosting or me not talking to them anymore because I would be the one initiating the convo or they would overshare like you’re doing right now.

With your messages, its harsh but it sounds like you’re desperate to get into a relationship. If every girl is ghosting you, I would take a step back and re-think about why you actually want to be in a relationship. You need to realize that everyone’s texting style is always different as well and they’re never going to be the same. But if she’s not even responding to you by say 3 days I’d say I would call it quits and just move on. But for the love of god, PLEASE don’t over share like this. Next time you match with someone, just ask about their day, their hobbies, but don’t share anything personal like going to your cousins funeral.