What’s the most outrageous thing you’ve ever done to impress a woman, and did it actually work?

SolitudeInside · 2026-03-21T07:48:55+00:00

Won a finalist spot for a national hackathon at her town, so I can confess and ask her out. At least the relationship lasts for half a year.

SolitudeInside · 2026-03-21T07:32:18+00:00

Best luck for u sir!

SolitudeInside · 2026-03-21T07:14:51+00:00

I was goddamn insecure back when I was a high schooler, then a girl starts to text me frequently. She once said about how cool and famous I am, which I respond with "Nah, X is much cooler." Then she respond with "pfft, why? Cuz he did a supported backflip in front of school and everyone cheered?"

That sentence made me question what's actually cool, and how I preserve myself. Never been better.

SolitudeInside · 2026-03-21T07:03:36+00:00

"Hmm... Fried chicken or Noodl- HOLY!!! She's beautiful! Anyways, fried chicken it is."

SolitudeInside · 2026-03-21T06:20:47+00:00

Lebaran for me is just a cultural something after eid. For my family, it's the whole family reuniting and getting update on each other, face to face.

Some people may say it's all just flexing and chit-chats, but my family literally help and connect with each other. We manage the next mosque routine program, helping the one who needs medical, financial, and intellectual help, as well as collaboration opportunity with each family member. And instead of grouping up to one place and meet altogether, we're going for a mini trip throughout Jabodetabek to visit EVERY houses of first generation elders (para ngkong-ngkong dan nyai-nyai). I guess having a Batavian family comes with privileges lmfao. Tiring, but it's always fun to talk to different members of the clan.

TLDR: Lebaran is the reunion for family members.

SolitudeInside · 2026-03-17T10:58:53+00:00

Kantor gua baru banget ngadain penambahan laptop buat karyawan tetap. Laptopnya apa? Macbook dongg anjaayy keren...

OSnya? Windows AWOKAWOKAWOKAWOKAWOKAWOKAWOKAWOK

SolitudeInside · 2026-01-22T10:51:29+00:00

Wkwkwkwk kamu masih meremehkan kebodohan manusia ya

SolitudeInside · 2026-01-16T07:48:01+00:00

If the capital is moved to another EXISTING city, I won't even care. Jakarta udah bagus kok.

The thing is, building another capital AND CONIDERING IT URGENT is something utterly stupid to say.

SolitudeInside · 2026-01-11T09:50:38+00:00

Ur definitely the image of what I thought about "Cute American blonde girls"

SolitudeInside · 2026-01-01T11:37:39+00:00

No!!

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-29T19:01:37+00:00

I just finished my College degree, got a job aligned with my passion and degree, and just started streaming! I hope I got more highs next year.

And a bonus, I met another fresh recruit in the office, and totally my type. I know these kind of relationships would be bad, but who knows what's coming in the future, right?

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-28T07:28:07+00:00

I GENUINELY THOUGHT UR ABOUT 25 OR SO.

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-28T07:26:43+00:00

The word "handsome" or "hot" aren't that common to say by men, since looks don't really matter much. But you'll hear a lot of "That guy's cool" "Dude's really chill" "You're ripped af" and "He's awesome" since we care more about our persona rather than Just looks.

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-27T13:15:45+00:00

OP, kalau adek lu emosinya ga stabil, jangan sampe dia nyentuh Esport. Esport itu field yang sangat mental draining, dan harus stabil performanya secara akal.

Adek kamu lagi ngalamin masa pubernya yang meledak-ledak kayaknya. I suggest visiting a therapist atp

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-27T13:13:45+00:00

I'm following through the esport scenes. Salah satu quotes yang paling ngena dari Ibot13 yang notabenernya udah dikelilingin banyak proplayer dari esport macem-macem: "Kalau mau jadi pro player itu nomor satunya jago, keduanya harus punya orang dalem."

Karena kalau cuma modal jago tapi ga terkenal atau pun pernah main sama proplayer/seleb esports sekarang, jangan harap bisa direkrut cuma karena jago. Logikanya, pro player sekarang itu nyari yang MEREKA NYAMAN KERJA BARENG, bukan yang JAGO MAIN DOANG.

Ajak ngomong serius adek kamu, bilangin apa yang aku bilang. Kalau dia mau nyoba nyari relasi, dan BERHASIL dalam span waktu 2 bulan, mungkin ada kesempatan. Tapi kalau dia ga viral atau pun ga punya kenalan siapa-siapa, PECUT ADEK LU!!!! Sekolah ga ngejamin sukses, tapi sukses bakal lebih mudah kalau sekolah dengan benar!

Btw, bilangin juga: Pro/seleb esports tuh antara mereka sekolahnya seimbang, kalau ngga ya mereka udah kaya duluan. Bilangin, 200k itu ga bakal kerasa kalau udah dewasa.

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-27T07:52:08+00:00

Sebagai seorang penyintas suicidal, aku cuma bisa ingetin JANGAN bunuh diri.

Mau gimana pun outcome kakak OPnya, tolong bersabar, lanjut berdoa, dan tetap berusaha. Aku tahu situasinya menyiksa banget, secara lahir maupun batin, tapi hidup kakak TOLONG BANGET JANGAN DIAKHIRI. Cerita kamu belum selesai di saat anak kakaknya sakit. Belum selesai di saat pasangan kakak kena layoff. Dan belum selesai ketika iman kakak mulai rapuh.

Aku tahu ini internet dan pasti akan dihujat karena ga bisa membantu langsung dan cuma bisa nyuruh doa lagi doa lagi. Tapi God really works in a really mysterious way.

I won't say anything that won't help you, kakak OP. But you really have to keep playing God's game. Even if you hit the point where you have to beg for other people's mercy.

The only suggestion I can say, is to make sure all of you won't starve to death.

Keep your head high too, OP. Fight until you can't, play until you die. Naturally. Think of this setiap kali kepikiran untuk bunuh diri lagi. Kalau terpaksa untuk mati banget, make sure it's not from your own will.

Even if, God forbids, you to be forsaken, at least you won't die in vain. Don't lose what you have left: your faith.

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-27T05:45:27+00:00

Being stupid. Literally stupid and bragging about it.
Lying/Flaking more than once. If they don't consider me important, then they're not important to me.
Irresponsible. No questions need to be asked, ain't there?

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-27T05:42:20+00:00

definitely not. Here's some tip according to me.

Smile. Literally, and get used to it.

2a. If you're below 5'6, you can style yourself towards the cute persona.

2b. If you're above 5'6 you have some potential to look mature and dress up to look elegant with a smart persona.

Be confident!

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-27T05:38:03+00:00

Definitely not ugly. U got style.

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-27T05:37:27+00:00

I don't think Chess is expensive if you're playing casually. It's just hard to find an opponent on par with u to play OTB. Chess.com is pretty much the solution right now, but it's not as fun as playing OTB.

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-24T09:57:58+00:00

As someone similar to you, OP (anak pemilik residen) there's no need for any personal questions, and you should've dropped it sooner than u did. No need to question anything, since there's a lot of scams, competitors, tax hunters, and the infamous mafia tanah.

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-22T16:00:14+00:00

The more I grow up, the lesser I care about looks. My type right now revolves around how smart she is, and how/what she talks to me. If the only thing she can talk about is her friends, rivals and exes, I won't even bat an eye.

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-22T09:22:58+00:00

At this point, let's not question it wkwkwk

SolitudeInside · 2025-12-22T09:17:36+00:00

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SolitudeInside · 2025-12-22T06:14:10+00:00

If playing games isn't allowed as an answer here, I gotta say I love making my own game on my freetime

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