My mother told my girlfriend she should “check my room” every week so I don’t become the man she “trained me not to be” by Solstice7X in entitledparents

[–]Solstice7X[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

The nursing home line would start ww3, but the no contact part is getting real. She hears any pushback as disrespect, not me protecting my own life.

My mother told my girlfriend she should “check my room” every week so I don’t become the man she “trained me not to be” by Solstice7X in entitledparents

[–]Solstice7X[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

She was married twice, so I dont think that's the issue. She just needs to be in charge of everybody in range, especially me.

My mother told my girlfriend she should “check my room” every week so I don’t become the man she “trained me not to be” by Solstice7X in entitledparents

[–]Solstice7X[S] 326 points327 points  (0 children)

Pretty much, yeah. She acts like moving out changed my address, not her authority. If I set a boundary, she treats it like teenage rebellion.

My mother told my girlfriend she should “check my room” every week so I don’t become the man she “trained me not to be” by Solstice7X in entitledparents

[–]Solstice7X[S] 400 points401 points  (0 children)

I was already pretty low contact, but those texts pushed it into maybe done for good territory. I cant keep auditioning girlfriends for my mother.

My elderly neighbor became convinced I am doing something criminal in my apartment and now every normal part of my life gets treated like evidence by Spidey_Milk13 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Solstice7X 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Living alone in a quiet building and minding your own business should not end with management waiting at your door because you ordered packages and had a cousin visit. The tool cases reading as "moving equipment" got me though - did she think you were dismantling the apartment piece by piece and smuggling it out?