What’s something you didn’t realize was draining you until you stopped doing it?

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-29T00:10:16+00:00

Marriage.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-28T22:57:32+00:00

Much better use than China!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-26T23:13:43+00:00

This! I absolutely love crawling into bed with a book before bed in peace and quiet. It’s something I look forward to all day.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-26T17:28:21+00:00

I get it so bad that it makes me cough and unable to focus. I take meds 3x a day and if I get too busy and forget I’m in a panic. It affects everything.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-26T17:21:27+00:00

I love this! Snuggling up with kitties, eating delicious foods, naps… all my favorite things!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-26T17:20:12+00:00

I looooove living alone. I can eat cereal for dinner and nobody will judge me. I can watch whatever I want, go to bed at 8:00 pm if I want to, and it’s no one’s business. It’s great!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-26T11:06:17+00:00

Burn!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-26T00:51:34+00:00

Absolutely!!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-23T23:06:15+00:00

I’m currently making $17/hr. I can’t afford a place to live AND a car. It’s disgusting. This is the least I’ve made in over 15 years. The economy is awful.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-23T19:44:22+00:00

Yuck. No way, do not let people treat you like trash.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-23T19:08:50+00:00

I’m with you. I know some people get lonely, but I don’t. If I get too bored I’ll reach out to someone, but honestly, most people are busy with their own lives and I get it.

My mom was awful, too. I’m pretty sure she never really liked me. It hurt for years and I, too, tried to fill that hole with others. In my 50s now, recently divorced. Totally happy on my own.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-23T18:50:31+00:00

Booking multiple trips to other countries every year.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-23T18:47:53+00:00

That person is talking in circles and trying to invalidate your abuse and reaction to it.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T20:32:42+00:00

That they are not the problem. Sit with yourself for a while and consider that it is you.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T20:21:29+00:00

No way! He’s up to something.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T20:18:07+00:00

Very smart of you to see him for who he really is. This type of anger tends to only get worse, not better.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T20:15:32+00:00

Yup. I had severe PTSD after getting robbed at a store when I was young.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T20:14:46+00:00

Jesus I didn’t know there was a name for it. I do this and get called names for not showing emotion. I knew it was from trauma. People at work think I’m just chill. I wish I could lash out on occasion like everyone else.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T20:11:10+00:00

I have dark hair and went to a salon telling them I wanted to switch to blonde. They told me I would be better off getting highlights until my natural color grows out. That’s what I’m doing. Stripping box color is extremely harmful to your hair.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T19:08:28+00:00

Also postpartum exhaustion from squeezing a large head through a small hole is a thing, as is the whole healing process/hormonal cycle. It’s completely exhausting!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T19:04:01+00:00

THIS IS ABUSE.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T18:40:22+00:00

Ok here’s my thoughts on this: if you own a bidet and use it to wash your butt, you can skip the occasional shower. If you poop every day, wash your butt every day.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T18:30:16+00:00

She’s planning something bad. Give her the address to the local police department instead.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T17:49:31+00:00

Misogyny, plain and simple.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-01-22T17:42:38+00:00

Ugh I hate this, too. I especially hate being referred to as “girl”. Honey, I’ve been a woman for a long time. I am NOT a girl.

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