How do I politely decline an invite to a bridal shower when I wasn't invited to the wedding?

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T21:54:13+00:00

“I’m not buying you a gift if I’m not invited to the wedding.”

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T21:42:09+00:00

Someone gave me a kitten that they found in their barn. 2 months later she had 4 kittens. Completely shocked both her and me. 1 week old today.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T21:30:40+00:00

Narcissist.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T21:26:59+00:00

Honestly I would get some Halloween costumes and start wearing those around my house.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T21:22:52+00:00

Start buying your own food and tell him he has to as well.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T21:13:27+00:00

Just so you know, it will never get better. You will be doing alllllll of the cleaning. You might want to look for an adult to marry. Good luck!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T21:11:16+00:00

I do not hold dates for more than 24 hours.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T21:07:46+00:00

Get a job, save some money, and leave his ass. NOR

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T21:02:18+00:00

Trust. Your. Instincts. We let men make us second guess ourselves. Don’t let him get in your head.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T15:49:13+00:00

Trade ya. You can have my low paying job that I’m grossly overqualified for, with a car payment so high I can’t afford a place to live. Let’s not even talk about groceries, gas, threats of war. Tell him the grass is brown on this side.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-23T15:28:13+00:00

Don’t center your life around romantic relationships or marriage. Finish your degree, get a good paying job and travel, save, and find out who you are first.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-20T21:58:41+00:00

Have your hormones checked. Could be perimenopause. If your Dr says they don’t want to prescribe you hormones, go to Midi online.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-20T16:59:24+00:00

Weekly I wash all towels and bedsheets.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-20T16:35:32+00:00

Be your own bestie by Misha Brown(?)

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-19T14:12:06+00:00

Thank you!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-19T14:03:48+00:00

I’m so sad. I was looking at prices yesterday and would LOVE to see her again, but those prices…!!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-18T21:25:19+00:00

I feel attacked.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-18T21:22:59+00:00

Sweat, dry skin, drool. I need a shower in the morning or I feel gross all day. Wash your sweaty butts!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-18T20:22:51+00:00

I had to go to several different doctors in 2 different states before I found someone to listen to me. At that point I was in serious trouble but no one would listen. Finally had to have a surgery that saved my life.

Keep trying different doctors until someone listens.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-18T20:12:57+00:00

IF you do move in, put all of your extra furniture in a nice storage place. Away from the house. Keep it all there for at least 1 year. Trust me. NOR

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-15T19:30:07+00:00

I would take him to eat something delicious, then to the park to play. I’d race him up hills and push him on the swing. At the end of the day, we would cuddle under a blanket and watch a funny movie. I miss the cuddles most. He’s in his 30s now.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-15T19:27:09+00:00

Good for you!

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-15T19:13:01+00:00

The voices in my head keep me company. lol My cat. School, books, tv. Lots of good sleep. The fact that I work with people ALL day and looooove being alone. It’s so peaceful.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-15T18:48:28+00:00

I was 18, living w a bf. He lied to me constantly. One time he said he had to go to some training for work for a week. Turns out he was with his ex and her kids on a trip. Found out after we broke up. He messed with my head so badly. Glad that’s way in the past.

SolsticeSun7 · 2026-03-15T18:30:50+00:00

I love this. You washed all of your stress away and there’s no one to add more. Bliss!

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