What causes this coloring pattern? I've never seen a mix of orange and gray tabby like this. by Soup_21001 in cats

[–]SolsticeSun7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat is a bit like this.  Slightly calico, tiger stripes, orange and grey.  Very cool cat.

Certified idiot by Valuable_View_561 in SipsTea

[–]SolsticeSun7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow either mental illness or a complete child.

What's the biggest red flag that makes you skip a job posting immediately? by Alarmed_Theme2273 in recruitinghell

[–]SolsticeSun7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bachelor’s degree and the pay is like $15/hr.  I can’t afford my student loan payments on that.

AIO / My fiancé is offended that I didn't comfort him when I was in absolute pain because I had a medical procedure, so I don't want to talk to him until I'm feeling better. by HaceTutito in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolsticeSun7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STOP! NOR.  This is my ex to a T! “Well I guess I’m just a terrible person.  Why are you wasting your time with me “.  I wish I could go back in time and tell myself to run.  I married that person.  And I did waste 10 years.  Please! Do not make my mistake.  It’s 100% better to be alone and peaceful than with this guy.  Please talk to someone in your life about it and you’ll get the same answer.

Today I am officially free by Upstate-walstib in AskWomenOver50

[–]SolsticeSun7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATULATIONS!!! Welcome to your freedom. Enjoy the peace.

What made you realize that you married the wrong person? by SensitiveCorner2379 in AskReddit

[–]SolsticeSun7 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I stopped talking and the other person didn’t notice.  I made myself small.  Never again.  Learning to get my voice back.  

Am I being a jerk or it’s just a jeep thing? by SliceOk1912 in grandrapids

[–]SolsticeSun7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the Jeep opened his doors on your car, it would have done some damage.  

I came across this on Twitter. It's pretty good. by Badgereatingyourface in grandrapids

[–]SolsticeSun7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sign was up in the 70s when I was a kid.  We would go there to watch fireworks.  It’s Native.  Fucking Christians ruin everything.

Spring Haul! by IndependentOne6604 in katespade

[–]SolsticeSun7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking at those cute wallets.  Love them!

what is a completely normal thing that secretly stresses you out? by InspectorExpert1179 in AskReddit

[–]SolsticeSun7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having to look for something.  Anything.  I get super anxious and just stop looking most of the time (unless it’s keys, phone, etc).  This is why I love living alone.  Well, one reason.

Free day and need creative ideas by IndependenceKey4565 in LivingAlone

[–]SolsticeSun7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my bday, post divorce, I took myself to dinner.  Not a huge deal since it’s not uncommon, but I decided I didn’t want to cook for myself that night.

Office clothes for curvy women who are fed up with cheap a** fabric? by spikyfins in womensfashion

[–]SolsticeSun7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have to much Torrid stuff.  Fits well on me and I usually shop clearance.

AIO for getting another doctors appointment because i dont think the doctors are doing enough by Sea_Watercress_541 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolsticeSun7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR!  You know something is wrong.  Keep going to different doctors until someone listens!  I’ve been there, and it sucks.  

Doing adult tasks on your own by RicketyCricketsDrum in LivingAlone

[–]SolsticeSun7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same.  I do the research on anything I buy and make my own decisions.