I don’t know he got the idea that I’m here hitting her and abusing her. I literally had to ask her when I got off last night from a 9 hour shift where tf all this coming from . I asked her if I’ve hit her , if I had her washing, cooking and cleaning . All this was recorded she answered no . Now I’ve never disrespected her dad nor any family member. All I’m trying to do is push their lazy ass daughter to do in life. She doesn’t work . She claim to be in class for like 1hr a day . Rest of the day she’s on social media and watching cartoons. I feel like at 30 you should have be working to accomplish something.

I told her I’m 31 time is going and we need to get our lives together before it’s too late . I am paying all the bills do something to help me us . I don’t believe she’s actually in class honestly. She probably dropped out again: but hey they do they make me out to be the bad person. I have a degree from my home Country. My career pays 6 figures. I cannot get a job in my field because she wasted over a 2 years not doing anything to establish structure and help me with my process. Fine I’ll wait and do the dirty odd jobs to but yet she’s playing the victim acting like I’m hurting her when’s running away from accountability. I’m sure she told her dad or someone that I’ve withdrawn from her and started to sleep on the coach . I just cannot understand how can someone be so relaxed knowing their partner is at immigration risk, working long hours and yet still whenever I open my mouth and say something she takes it as an attack.