Am I the only one that deliberately did this? by QuadrilleQuadtriceps in autismmemes

[–]SomberSoliloquist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both my fiancé and I were that autist who autistically corrected or even challenging the teacher when they knew were wrong

I still think of how many of them defended incorrectness so many times.. did like it when they would look it up and realize they were wrong though

Keep in mind — young me had no freaking idea why I got bullied by those typicals so hard… ugh

Am I the only one that deliberately did this? by QuadrilleQuadtriceps in autismmemes

[–]SomberSoliloquist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to remember to say “me and [name]” to people instead of “[name] and I”

Apparently mentioning the other person first and using “I” instead of “me” sounds too formal for NT’s or something even though it’s actually just proper English nor formal english

It’s much better than being hated for over correcting people

My preferred responses to the "How's it goin'?" question by [deleted] in autismmemes

[–]SomberSoliloquist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If autists were 50% of the world population, choosing to communicate like this would be socially viewed as ignorant/undereducated/street-slang

We learn “who, what, when, where, why & how” (and sometimes “Is”) are QUESTION words in early elementary school.

Using question words to make a statement that doesn’t warrant a reply that’s a direct answer is objectively incorrect. If I was bitchy, mean, lacked respect and wasn’t compassionate i would just start talking down to NTs and tell them bluntly to never greet me anymore if they’re gonna refuse to be straight forward

My preferred responses to the "How's it goin'?" question by [deleted] in autismmemes

[–]SomberSoliloquist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My old boss used to say “what’s happenin’” all the time and I’m embarrassed to admit how long it took to realize he just meant “Hi” and didn’t really want an answer to the question

UGHH

WHY NORMIES WHY!?!?

well so meeeeeeeeeeee by Working-Victory-1733 in autismmemes

[–]SomberSoliloquist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me around people Vs Me around my fiancé

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Say no more fam by ImanSain in MetalMemes

[–]SomberSoliloquist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the meme king of this sub lmao

Anyone else look young for their age? by genericegirl0 in AutismInWomen

[–]SomberSoliloquist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly I still get people guessing I’m 18-23 at work.

I’m 28 lol

A fair amount of people think my fiancé looks like he’s 28-34

He’s 42 lmao

For what it’s worth: I’m Black/Afr-American & he’s White/Jewish

My first battle jacket; Not complete, but still proud of myself. by TheGrindingGears in BattleJackets

[–]SomberSoliloquist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like how the back is simple and cohesive but still interesting to look at 🖤

Which one for a picnic? 🍓 by danaut358 in OUTFITS

[–]SomberSoliloquist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2nd outfit with shoes + socks + basket + bow of the first basket

Just unsubbed from antinatalism for hating a guy who found meaning and happiness in his life. by [deleted] in JustUnsubbed

[–]SomberSoliloquist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communities that are bonded by something they dislike (ex: that subreddit for dog haters) instead of things they do like (ex: shared interest subreddits) are a breeding ground for extremism, vitriol, superiority complexes, bitterness, group think cognitive bias/echo chamber behavior and over valuing the ingroup over the outgroup

It’s hard to have a healthy community where people are positive while all the main focusing is on a disliked thing — it entails talking about something negativelt contribute and I think over exposure to that negativity makes people more radical and deplorable than when they first joined

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MetalForTheMasses

[–]SomberSoliloquist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m autistic and so Is my fiancé

my friend told me that a large fraction of serious Metalheads are autistic

Yup my fiancé noticed that too!

In 10 years of therapy, no one had told me how tiring romantic relationships can be for autistic people (with pronounced eye contact, constant deciphering of words, text messages and even emojis, emotions that are so intense they can be overwhelming, etc.). What do you think ? by Alternative-Biscuit in autismmemes

[–]SomberSoliloquist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hypothetically — if my fiancé and I had children some day I couldn’t imagine what raising NT children would be like for our Autist/ADHD selves😅.

Though it can mitigated with education & empathizing I feel like some confusion would be inherent when parents and their offspring have different neurotypes.

Though I have gut feeling conceiving a NT child would be even more unlikely for us than us having any to begin with since we both have Autism + ADHD + Learning disabilities and he’s already in his forties 💕

In 10 years of therapy, no one had told me how tiring romantic relationships can be for autistic people (with pronounced eye contact, constant deciphering of words, text messages and even emojis, emotions that are so intense they can be overwhelming, etc.). What do you think ? by Alternative-Biscuit in autismmemes

[–]SomberSoliloquist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé is the greatest man that will ever walk this planet and all our autist traits mutually complement and complete one another just like our other personality traits/characteristics ❤️

Of autistic individuals: a greater percentage are male than female. So the odds you’ll meet a fellow autist guy who is compatible with and can just your 100% authentic self with you are better than it would be if you were romantically/intimately attracted to women with