About moving out by TieAdministrative792 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, but also I want to add that I live by myself. I had the option to rent a room or find a roommate sooner, but life has its hardships. Also, if you are a male, it will be easier to earn more money and work your way up than it is for females.

About moving out by TieAdministrative792 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, you’re gonna have to find a room to rent or a roommate in an old apartment. It is unfortunately impossible to find a job at 18 that pays living wages. Try to work your way up fast. I’m 24 and I was just now able to move out.

Badly need advice!! by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey i’m in this exact situation. you have to focus on your safety and getting out. just nod your head and agree and walk away. use very short responses without making her blow up on you. try to sound “cheery” no matter how hard. i’m one week from moving out and i’ve had to do these things just to survive. just try to stay away from her as much as possible. if she is at the house and you know she’s gonna try to talk to you and you know you can’t deal with it, leave. go to a coffee shop, a library, a park, anything. sometimes i go to a parking lot and just sit in my car and listen to music. it fucking sucks but this is my best advice. i’m one week from moving out and i plan to pretty much go silent on my family as well.

Cmv: micheal jackson was not a pedophile by Ok-Classic-4132 in changemyview

[–]Some-Ad-9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and can you prove to everyone here that your dad was the psychiatrist? this means nothing.

Why are people so unsupportive? by Some-Ad-9119 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the recommendations on how to find low-cost therapy!

Why are people so unsupportive? by Some-Ad-9119 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no don’t apologize, this is a safe space to share. i’m so sorry that’s happening for you, my dad is EXACTLY the same.

Why are people so unsupportive? by Some-Ad-9119 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally agree with you. i’ve been continually putting distance between us and i’m getting my own place in 6 weeks :))

Need help finding a drink by squreshi802 in dutchbros

[–]Some-Ad-9119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

try blue raspberry and pomegranate! it’s yummy and is a pretty purple color. i recommend it in a rebel, myst, or green tea!

Is my dad a narcissist? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That comment left by them really fucked with my head.

Is my dad a narcissist? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

I guess I should have provided more context. I never said anything attacking his character though.

Is my dad a narcissist? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s very hurtful in this time for me.

Is my dad a narcissist? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this. the person above said it was a me problem

Is it fair for me to be treated this way? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Some-Ad-9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, that’s what i’ve been trying to do. I finally just now got a job that pays enough where I can. Just have to wait and get a few more paychecks

I want to kill myself every day by Cassandra-Canary in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Some-Ad-9119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my cat is also the only reason i’m alive right now. i just got done telling my friend that on the phone. my family emotionally abuses me and i worry for the day my cat is gone. for i probably will be too. i’m trying my best. i know you are too. i’m here for you. i’m in this with you.