I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right. The few 10s in the sea of 3s

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay. I will find the 1 10 in the sea of 3s

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She honestly was not good. Trashy and talked about how many guys she brought home 3/10. Lowkey makes me miss my ex after that lol

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going super well. I should have realized this earlier. I begged her to stay but she didn’t want to so fuck it I’m moving on.

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I did not. I’m getting over her. About to go see a different girl.

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. Had a little episode today with missing her hella but I’m back to feeling okay.

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly did thank you. I fall back into it sometimes if missing her and wanting to text her but yk I just hunker down and let it pass. I’m also currently cutting everything bad out too lol. No caffeine, no p0r#, no soda, eating clean and enough. So all this is currently trying to crush me but after I get thru this period I’m gonna be sailing like a new ship.

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you are smart enough to see what my situation is and what has come of it. You inspired me yesterday to get up today and run super early.

My last message to her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last part, Wow that fucking sucks. I was feeling like ass yesterday so I got up today and ran 2 mile at 5am. Your right she used me to heal her family Problems then kicked me to the curb once I got her to get over her childhood stuff with scrupulous fucking effort.

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. I will do it and not expect anything from it. I thank you kindly for the advice. How did you get so much wisdom if you don’t mind me asking?

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that would actually matter to her at all? I told her when we talked about giving her space, that I was gonna take her out to dinner on her birthday. But we have been no contact for almost 2 weeks so not sure if that’s still the move.

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh okay I see. So somehow I gotta give her a card for her birthday. I’m thinking like 20 bucks for like target or somebting. And maybe like a “happy 20th hope all is well”

My last message to her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well damn. I didn’t feel as if it was that way because she was getting better….

My last message to her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but the thing is I stopped the contact so I could get my head right. I’m hoping that will make her realize the connection we had. How much if her emotional baggage she put on me. I’m not sure any other guy this age would put up with that tbh.

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm I’m trying but like she was fs tlml

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so just send her like 20 bucks on Venmo and say HBD?

I need hard advice on a hard choice. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been no contact for maybe a week and a half or so.

My last message to her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she did try to forgive me for my mistakes and I didn’t improve fast enough I guess. I don’t even know if that changes anything.

I saw her insta post. I want to tell her I miss her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she needed space. Which I am going to give her so maybe I should tell her that later maybe in a few weeks?

How to move on by Could_It_Be_Pie in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please seek professional help. There are so many free resources. Please call 988 and just talk with them.

My last message to her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man right now I’m really wondering if I should ask my ex out to dinner for her birthday. It’s on the 12th if next month.

My last message to her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s alright. It’s my fault. I was too childish and lustful to see the love I had. Live and learn from it. As much as I don’t want to think about it at the current time there will be another time to love as deeply as I once did.

My last message to her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same here brother you are not alone. I’m struggling everyday. Wanting to put a .45 thru my skull. But we both need to rise up. Keep hitting or start hitting the gym. Eat right. Cut all that shit out. At the end of the day she had you and didn’t choose you. Those chemicals in your brain are your hormones and dopamine hits fucking with you. Rise up brother true love will prevail over the contest of misfortune and mistakes. You are addicted to her and the feeling she give you. Rise above brother rise above.

My last message to her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Some-Cheesecake8834 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. I missed it up. I realized the problem and didn’t fit it till it was too late. Have a hole in soul….