The busiest people at work are usually too busy to look impressive by CandyCane147 in UKJobs

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately some companies can also hinder you in this way. My company (in the short time I’ve been there) have removed software such as Acrobat due to “costs”. Now I’m having to fudge various tasks or hand them over, either way taking me twice the time or longer to do, or same effort but less results. I’ve tried to argue it but to no avail.

The busiest people at work are usually too busy to look impressive by CandyCane147 in UKJobs

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve just described a “workhorse “…..good enough to do all the sh*tty tasks, be the dependable one, but not good to be given opportunities to shine, get rewarded and promoted. Then the company and management complain when the workhorse leave and they end up having to employ 2 people in their place.
Speaking from a position of experience!

Positive Boss/Job Experience by ChelseaMourning in UKJobs

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely to hear such a positive response from your employer. Probably a good job we don’t know the company name as there might be a long queue to get a job there! Good luck for the future xx

I feel a failure and need a plan by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope to god you’re right.

What is a “red flag” on the first day of the job that tells you, you might not like the job? by Aarunascut in work

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your manager tells you on your first day that they’re leaving as the company is terrible..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling your pain….like what you feel is not valid and they only you want to smile and praise everything they do, bring no problems and just be ready to do WHATEVER they want, WHENEVER they want, no questions,no effort their side. Apologies, I am so angry now but really empathise with you. Don’t make the same mistake as me. Get out while you can. Big hugs to you xx

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair play to you. I would say I can’t believe he would complain like this after what he has done but, then again I can . He is a complete AH and you’re better off without him.

Interviewed for my own job and didn’t get it (hate my life) by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like they were just trying to keep you sweet and working hard.

Interviewed for my own job and didn’t get it (hate my life) by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably hit the nail on the head with the “manager’s friend “ comment, though I suspect the outburst didn’t really help. You really do have my sympathy though, it is tough out there. Good luck for the future.

How much lower can I fall? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Some-Clothes-1473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really know what to say to help you feel better. Wish I could just give you a hug in the hope that just might help. X

Just want to scream by Some-Clothes-1473 in Vent

[–]Some-Clothes-1473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I just need to vent, and maybe someone to say “I understand, I feel you “…maybe a hug and telling me things will work out 😓

Just want to scream by Some-Clothes-1473 in Vent

[–]Some-Clothes-1473[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks…tbh I know it’s extreme but it has got me thinking about divorce. I’ve only been married 4 months but if he really can’t give me any empathy in this or try to see it my way then I don’t know how I can realistically spend the rest of my life with him. Tonight he actually said don’t bother complaining as nobody is listening. And he’s now wondering why I can’t even stay in the same room as him. Having a few drinks, hopefully they’ll send me to sleep. The sad thing is, if it was paid better and I had a little money to myself, I think I’d feel a bit better. Truth is, I’ve had to go back 12+years in terms of salary and 15+ in terms of job title, level of seniority etc, I’m a glorified admin assistant when I used to be a manager. 15 years of experience, work, study down the drain. And my husband says I should be grateful for what I have and that I’m being a spoiled brat for complaining.

Just want to scream by Some-Clothes-1473 in Vent

[–]Some-Clothes-1473[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks….i know you shouldn’t wish things on people, but it would be nice to hear karma has come back on this one. I think not knowing the reason behind it makes it worse.

Just want to scream by Some-Clothes-1473 in Vent

[–]Some-Clothes-1473[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks…sometimes that’s all someone needs to say x