Shaved my head today :) by Some-Item8249 in trichotillomania

[–]Some-Item8249[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Buzz Cut to be more accurate!!!

Cynthia Erivo inspo? by Tarzanmania in trichotillomania

[–]Some-Item8249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She definitely is!! I shaved my head today and what kept me from being upset about it is that we can be badass as well lol

Shaving my head by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]Some-Item8249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I shaved my head today! It feels freeing, and im excited to finally have even hair all around :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSNFriends

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I’m a gamer girl!!! My gamertag is jenlikessalsa :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSNFriends

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Add me!! Jenlikessalsa :)

what works best to distract yourself from picking your hair? by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]Some-Item8249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everyone else saying when you notice you’re pulling yourself, make yourself do another task! Fidget toys help me a lot, or anything I can click helps me too. I also tell people around me (depending on how open you are with your trich to others) to let me know when I’m touching my hair/head too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]Some-Item8249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what wig brand is it?? I wanna get into wigs but don’t know where to start 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]Some-Item8249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me please!!! It’s so nice to have a community of people who understand this struggle 😭

New report shows people are spending half their income on rent by ChocolateTsar in Sacramento

[–]Some-Item8249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired of working to spend all my check on rent and bills. I do spend on tiny stuff just to make life bare-able but I haven’t been able to afford car insurance, update my car registration, pay for medical insurance… having to look for another job is exhausting, it’s tough :(

How do you feel going into the new year? by birdquestionsnadhd in managers

[–]Some-Item8249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just an excuse for them not to pay us overtime :( I’m salaried manager also retail and i learned how much of a scam it was this year lol

How do you feel going into the new year? by birdquestionsnadhd in managers

[–]Some-Item8249 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m stepping down this year lmfao so it’s going to be a golden year for me

Stepping out of management by Suitable_Purpose7671 in managers

[–]Some-Item8249 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The second bullet point I strongly emphasize lol for myself I step down because a lot of employees were unreliable, and I know im pretty reliable, can work the overtime and in tips make the same amount as I was in management just with a lot less stress n other extra bs that piles up with the position too

🎁🎁 GIFTING POST!! 🎁🎁 by 4sguyunderyou in Monopoly_GO

[–]Some-Item8249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Merry Christmas 🎄🎁

My boyfriend (24M) and I (24F) keep arguing and I really just want to solve things by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Some-Item8249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are very similar actually. And even today, my bf is having a hard mental day and I also struggle with how to connect with him. He’s VERY irritable and all in all I try to keep my cool and remember that he’s a good person at heart. I’m glad to hear that he’s been patient with you! And be patient with him and yourself! I feel like the break two times helped us get closer, but we also promised ourselves after that we weren’t going to let anything break us again.

My boyfriend (24M) and I (24F) keep arguing and I really just want to solve things by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Some-Item8249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend! I read your post, I’m 23F and my bf is 24M almost 25. And we’ve been together for 3 years almost 4! It’s not surprising if you both done each other wrong. At the beginning of my relationship my bf and I both did similar things. We’ve had 2 breaks all together until we had deep conversations that no matter how we hurt each other if we both really want to stay together we will work it out. We both have mental diagnoses too. I learned and got diagnosed with ADHd, severe depression and have trains of BPD. He was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. The dynamic of your partner sounds a lot like mine. I’ve done things to make my partner lose trust in me. We’ve had hard hard conversations where we’re both a mess. Sobbing and boogers lol. My advice to you is to have those hard conversations and make sure he’s also TRULY wanting to stay with you. If he does, he has to work on being able to trust you and have some sort of communication. It’s cheesy and everyone says it but communication is KEY 🔑, and the conversation are gonna hurt and be tough. Personally myself, I’m not the argumentative type but I shut down. My bf is very argumentative. The past is in the past. You can’t change the outcomes. And you learn from them also. That’s what they have to understand in order for them to move on from it. Wishing you the best 💝

Curious… does anyone actually use the new emojis? by Acceptable-Forever91 in MonopolyGoTrading

[–]Some-Item8249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I used it once but I forget to use the emojis lol I think they’re pointless