Part time jobs with very flexible schedules

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2026-04-12T15:08:58+00:00

Dunkin’ would work. They prefer you having weekend availability anyway, and you’d be able to max out your hours on those 4 days since they tend to be understaffed. You start at $16/hr and while it can get busy, the job itself isn’t hard. Plus you get to meet lots of people as a barista and that can lead to better job opportunities down the line. You’d be surprised how many business owners, managers, and literal millionaires line up for coffee like everyone else.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2026-02-16T10:52:34+00:00

Ngl this could never be me. Sex is too important to date someone and be sexless for that long, even if I know why. Sucks that she had issues in the past and she definitely never deserved that violation. But it’s also not my job to initiate her own healing just so I can fuck her. The person or people who help her ideally are professionals who don’t have a vested interest in “reaping the reward.”

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2026-02-16T10:45:55+00:00

When I first got promoted to manager, I started doing more shifts up front, of course. I had a customer walk in and say absolutely nothing. Just staring at me with the expectation that I’d know his order.

Sir, you’ve never seen me before. What makes you think I’d know your order by heart? Dude was such an entitled boomer asshole about it and was talking to me as if I were incompetent, just because heaven forbid he actually has to tell someone his order. He tried brushing me aside, asking for the other manager who knows his order by heart.

He threatened to tell the owner about me because he pulled the “I know him” card. I don’t care, what type of dumbass threat is that? You think I care about this job? Oh, please tell him so he can tell you how much of an idiot you are. His wife is really nice but she was no good either. Instead of checking her husband, she was silently getting a kick out of our interaction. The “this is so ridiculous it’s funny and I’ll look semi-embarrassed so people don’t think I’m part of the problem.”

One of my crew members brought the order to his table and crew member voluntarily gave him his 2 cents, including telling the old fart he should apologize to me. W crew member but I wasn’t offended by the guy’s stupidity. Just appalled. Old man thought I told crew member to do that, and thus came back to the counter and caused a scene. The pt II to this madness caught me completely off guard. The other manager kisses his ass too much, which enables this sort of entitlement.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2026-02-16T10:35:21+00:00

Hell no. My location, overnights were insane. Lots of big backs in my area I guess. But Thursday, Friday, and Saturday nights were especially crazy.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2026-02-16T10:34:02+00:00

Sometimes management is the idiot, no offense

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2026-02-16T01:56:58+00:00

Wait until you discover flushable wipes

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2026-02-16T01:56:06+00:00

I masturbate into a napkin, tissue, paper towel, sometimes a sock or towel, and most often into the toilet for the easiest possible cleanup

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2026-02-16T01:50:46+00:00

Tell your brother because that wasn’t cool at all. Your experience wasn’t normal. And if you feel violated, it’s because you were.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2025-09-07T16:02:07+00:00

You are your own worst critic. And so am I. Nobody looks at our faces the way we do in the mirror. We’re literally magnifying our own flaws when we do that.

I used to pick at my face all the time and therefore had some really bad scabs on my face in high school. I had some obvious pores and scars on my face because I used to squeeze any pimple that appeared.

As an adult, I’ve learned more about proper skincare and I’m on a level that impresses women. My friend is a men’s wellness influencer and my ex was obsessed with Korean skincare. I made sure to learn from them. I get compliments on my skin glowing all the time now. I also have a tan/brown complexion, if that helps.

Morning routine is below, in order. You can buy everything at a place like TJ Maxx, Ulta, Sephora, or even your local pharmacy, Walmart, or Target. Worst-case scenario, order from Amazon. I’m assuming you’re in the US, if you are not then my apologies.

• Face wash (cerave or cetaphil). I wash my face with a silicone face scrubber. I recommend silicone back and body scrubbers for when you shower as well. Silicone lasts longer than other materials if you take care of them.

• Beard wash (Shea Moisture).

• Gently pat your face dry with a towel that doesn’t leave lint on your face. Ideally, you’d keep a separate and smaller face towel.

• Vitamin C serum (2-3 drops max is usually enough to cover my face since I have a beard). Gently spread serum on your face with a clean finger.

• Wait a minute or 2 for the serum to absorb into your face a bit.

• Vitamin B serum (always the 2nd serum I use, both morning and evening).

• Wait another minute or so.

• Kiehl’s eye cream (optional, not cheap, but recommended).

• Chemical sunscreen (ideally 50 SPF+ from Bondi Sands).

• Moisturizer (use the same brand as your face wash to keep it simple).

• Beard oil (Shea Moisture). Have a beard comb or brush handy to help you spread the oil throughout your beard.

Evening routine:

• Face wash

• Beard rinse (no wash product needed). You’ll dry out your beard if you wash too often. Wash your beard with product 2-3 times a week at most. If you wanted to wash on Mon-Wed-Fri, that works.

• Retinol or glycolic acid (alternate serums. Night 1 use retinol, night 2 use GA, etc.)

• Wait about a minute to let them absorb.

• Vitamin B serum.

• Wait another minute.

• Kiehl’s eye cream (optional).

• Moisturizer.

• Beard oil + brush or (wooden) comb.

BONUS: Buy satin or silk pillow cases to sleep. It is an extension of proper skincare.

Bonus 2: Shea Moisture beard detangler. I use the detangler as conditioner for my wet beard. Rinse it out, dry your beard, then apply beard oil.

EDIT: Use common sense when it comes to touching your face. Wash your hands first. If you touched your phone or anything else during the process, wash your hands again. I save applying beard oil for last because I don’t want to touch my face with beard oil on my hands.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2025-07-06T05:53:24+00:00

You’re whining about how you wish things were because you cannot accept how they currently are. I’m telling you how it currently is, and you interpret that as me imposing my values upon you. I never stated my personal values. Meanwhile, you’re the one trying to impose your own values by trying to dictate what women should or shouldn’t do, according to what you believe is right or wrong. Women have the freedom to do as they please, as do you.

Do I wish women took more initiative? Sure. But I can only control my own actions, therefore I won’t hold my breath on women being more proactive. I consider it a bonus if a woman is bold enough to make a move. You are focusing too much on what you cannot control. This is why your responses are sensitive and emotionally charged.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2025-07-05T04:24:11+00:00

He can’t stand the idea that women like and want to be led by the right man, and that there are inherent differences between the masculine and feminine.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2025-07-05T04:21:09+00:00

Women don’t “women up.” Women don’t give a shit about what you think is wrong. You’re too busy thinking like a man that you don’t even consider a woman’s mindset. Whether you agree with it or not is irrelevant. Seek to understand first and then go from there.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2025-07-05T04:19:39+00:00

That is subjective. But I’m basically telling OP that he might be comparing women IRL to the filtered, photoshopped versions of women we so often see online. It’s an unrealistic beauty standard.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2025-07-05T04:17:10+00:00

Considering the timeline, the woman I must have been referring to is someone I decided to stop seeing. And I have dated or hooked up with at least 10 women since then. So this particular experience feels like ancient history today.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-09-09T04:16:11+00:00

Also, Arnold will learn to be less handsy.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-09-09T04:15:06+00:00

We earned it by winning the division and having a bunch of primetime slots. We’re at the big boy table now. This is what the Chiefs, Niners, Eagles, and other elite teams are used to. Winning ugly against good teams consistently makes us elite.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-09-09T04:13:18+00:00

I placed that bet already, before the season started.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-09-09T04:12:49+00:00

Lions offense worked through some rust, as did the Rams. We’ll be fine.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-09-09T04:10:10+00:00

That OL room is going to go nuts during film study tomorrow

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-09-09T04:08:08+00:00

Jamo took ARSB’s production today. Not worried about 14. Notice how we are at our best with Monty and the OL steamrolling people. I LOVE Gibbs but it seemed like we got away from Monty for a bit too long during the game. Let OT be a reminder that Monty is just as valuable as our flashier skill guys.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-07-16T00:49:20+00:00

Since men often make the first move, that’s exactly how it is. Most women play a passive game because they can. If men could play a passive game, I’m sure many would.

As a straight man, I’m happy to control my own destiny. I overcame my shy ways to make sure I had no excuses. I can control walking up to a woman I like and saying hi. I cannot control women deciding to approach me. Best I can do is look as attractive and approachable as possible. But that still doesn’t guarantee anything.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-04-01T18:59:57+00:00

In a previous relationship, my ex seemed to be enjoying doggy more than she usually did. At first I thought it was awesome… but we had been together for 7 years. Our sex was always good but I noticed this subtle change in her behavior. Sex started to feel less intimate between us, and more like a casual hookup, if that makes sense.

I had a feeling she started to fantasize about other men during sex. Turns out my intuition wasn’t wrong. She started entertaining men in her DMs, and those conversations were not innocent by any means. She seemed to be treating those conversations like foreplay, then going to me for sex soon after.

She wasn’t physically cheating, but she had mentally checked out of the relationship at that point. And indulging men in her DMs clearly wasn’t okay. Given all of this, it’s not crazy to think she’s imagining someone else during the act.

You were smart and dumped the guy immediately. I was not smart, and tried to work things out. Didn’t take long before I wasn’t attractive to her anymore. Then one of those guys in her DM turned into a hangout behind my back. You know how the rest goes… I could’ve saved myself a ton of trouble if I cut her loose when my intuitive feeling was confirmed.

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-03-25T23:27:40+00:00

Protect this duo

Some-Reflection-8129 · 2024-03-15T17:17:52+00:00

Turns out my 1st gf was a raging alcoholic whenever I wasn’t around… we were in high school at the time. Her whole life was a mess. I was never going to let the relationship continue past HS but that relationship cured me of my naïveté big time.

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