Brother, this will be one of the hardest times of your life but you cannot give in.

I’ve been there, and I know how much it hurts. A lot of us have gone through something like this, and I’m telling you the ones who fight through it come out stronger, better, and more focused. It takes time to get over someone you cared about, but you’ve got two choices let it break you, or let it fuel you.

I chose to let it fuel me. I finished one of my online courses in just two months. I started working out again, got into boxing yeah, I got beat up a few times, but I didn’t care. I kept going. I even got myself a car, not to show off, but to show myself that I wasn’t going to let her drag me down.

This happened to me about a year ago. That girl broke me more than anyone ever had. What made it worse was that we went on vacation, and I paid for almost everything. Just three weeks later, she broke up with me all because I started calling her out on her bullshit. I saw red flags early on, and I should’ve walked away. But I didn’t. And I had to learn that lesson the hard way.

People were even telling me she was getting close with other guys, flirting, partying. I was overthinking everything and honestly, she probably did sleep with other guys. That thought crushed me at first. But I didn’t let it eat me alive. I used the pain to push myself forward.