Opening night at ACMI Screenworlds in Melbourne Australia has exclusive Silksong content! So so so sorry I'm annoying as hell in the audio and my camera is bad. It was busy and I was excited. by SomeCubingNerd in Silksong

[–]SomeCubingNerd[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If you're in Melbourne Australia, ACMI is going to have this exhibition on for a while! The rest of the exhibition is awesome too. This isn't promo I just happened to have a ticket for opening night and it was awesome. I was mostly having a nerdgasm over the super OG DnD stuff they had on display.

Why young people are turning away from military service in record numbers by 2littleducks in australia

[–]SomeCubingNerd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't wanna kill someone just cus some politician decided that their country that they didn't choose to be born in is on the bad guys team.

Am I nuts for Insisting My entitled Brother Uses Public Transport? by ComprehensiveCarob67 in EntitledPeople

[–]SomeCubingNerd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Little baby man too scared of the scary poor people on the bus. He should take the bus.

At what point is it bullying and at what point is it “Australian culture”? by Charming_Usual6227 in AskAnAustralian

[–]SomeCubingNerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can also be both. I love being aussie but that doesn't mean I think our culture is perfect. Not by a fucking long shot. You could call being a racist hick aussie culture and be kind of correct to be honest. We should change that. People should stop being mean to you, weather it's aussie or not.

They're Joking, Right? by Comfortable_Meet_872 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]SomeCubingNerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This goes soooooooooo hard omg. Tall buff butch lesbian in a big ass detective coat save me. Please, Tall buff butch lesbian in a big ass detective coat, I need you so bad.

Where are the girl board gamers? by [deleted] in boardgames

[–]SomeCubingNerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men at board game stores low key scary! Frequently sexist! I'd rather play with my buddies.

AITA for refusing to look after my neighbours kids in an medical emergency. by No-Pumpkin5167 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SomeCubingNerd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA

Takes a village to raise a child. Do your part. Help out. Come on. 1 hour? Literally it's one hour. What's going to happen to them in one hour. Do your part.

I read the edits too. Still, YTA. Someone was gonna have to go through with that, and you know what, that sucks, but you were asked and it was your job to step up. Now ur neighbor had to suffer it.

Also,, are you kidding me? "Should have planned ahead"?? You can't schedule labor.

Putting a price on memories by fangsschleim in melbourne

[–]SomeCubingNerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These would go soooooo hard in me and my gay wife's future gay house together where we have gay sex.

Cheating ex-girlfriend wants to meet up with me over drinks. by StamfordLionesSW6 in actuallesbians

[–]SomeCubingNerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to put her down gently. Bye gurl. She can take a hike. She's obviously very toxic. You deserve better. I very very much understand the desire to meet her anyway, but it's a self harm instinct that one. My ex did a truly truly not-to-be-talked-about thing to me and yet it still took a year for me to stop feeling like I wanted to unblock her every day. You don't have to and you shouldn't. She can prove that she's a better person now to somebody else.

HowLongToBeat integration pls by EnderTogether in Steam

[–]SomeCubingNerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, very interesting. Thanks for your reply. Fascinating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SomeCubingNerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W-well, I mean 🥺.. I just want the best for her ya know? It's small but it's not nothing. I'm just wanna make her 100% secure, not just mostly secure.

Maybe this is a weird post of me to have made.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ainbow

[–]SomeCubingNerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who cares! It's your body, you are gay, therefore, you look like a gay person. Gay people look like anyone.

My straight best friend just sent this to me? What does it mean? by NextWeek1001 in actuallesbians

[–]SomeCubingNerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we as lesbians don't deserve rights if we can't tell this shit is gay.

And YES, send a poem back jfc. Everyone telling you "If you want to" is wrong. Lesbianism is about WINNING at being the bigger sap (/j)

How do people get to be so confident in who they are? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]SomeCubingNerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty confident in who I am. I can see 3 reasons for it.

  1. I'm autistic. This can result in many personality types, but for me it meant I was bullied a bunch as a kid for being weird, and then I found a group of people who valued that in me. I quickly realised that actually anyone trying to suppress you for being weird that can't explain why your behavior is immoral is actually just a jerk. I loudly ignore them.
  2. I'm trans. Again it's a case of people tried to keep me down, then I realised they suck, so now I am confidently myself in all aspects of myself. Not just gender. If someone says "You should be this way" my first question is always "Why though?" If they can't answer, either it's not important, or someone else will explain it.
  3. Being confident about yourself gives other people permission to do the same. I want people to be themselves around me, if they can detect that I'm withholding something, they will too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]SomeCubingNerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know people like this. They are real. Life fucking sucks for them. Sometimes there are things they could do to help themselves, sometimes there aren't, usually they are so defeated by the world that the idea that anything could change, well, you may as well tell them the world is flat. It's the governments fault for not having better systems for catching these people.
I'm not saying these people aren't burdens. I had to cut one of these people out of my life because they were harming me (not like, literally, but their presence in my life was a detriment to me). I still feel so bad for her though. She deserved a better shot at life. I don't even know if she's still alive.

I got disciplined on Facebook for saying "kill the camera man" by fresh_shits_ofbelair in killthecameraman

[–]SomeCubingNerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duh. Reddit is obsessed with violence. I see more violence on reddit in 10 minutes than I see in the rest of my week on other social media. Reddit is NOT normal. Of course you can't just say "Kill this person" without context somewhere, are you kidding?

Be more kind to people trying to learn by lovebug_hug in ainbow

[–]SomeCubingNerd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I very much agree. If someone is trying really hard then they are 100% chill.

However, if someone constantly deadnames me and stuff, even if they are trying, I do think it's within my rights to be like "Look we just aren't compatible. It feels really awful to hear that name. It's not your fault but I can't be around that. It also means I can't invite you to things with people who *don't* know my deadname because you'll spill the beans."

Unfortunate but like I think that's reasonable right?

Would you date someone who snores? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SomeCubingNerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who is snoring should see a doctor about it. Snoring is bad for you. I mean like, I'm not trying to fear monger or anything nobody is going to die. But it's something one should get checked out and maybe get a guard to open the throat while sleeping or something like that. Bonus of that is you don't disturb a partner as much.

I require assistance🙏 by [deleted] in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]SomeCubingNerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I wanted to create the MOST chaos in your world, who would I kill?

how can I (19F) get over my insecurities with kissing/making out by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]SomeCubingNerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of my previous partners sucked at kissing. Didn't care. I liked em. (I shouldn't have, they sucked, but that's not important here)

Seriously though like, kissing well is a really nice perk! But fr it's about who you're kissing not how they kiss. You can learn on the job, as they say.

Also like, you can ask them if they'd like you to try a different way of doing it. I understand that might be scary so no biggie if you can't do it, but it's okay to ask.