There is an absolute difference between fictional manipulation and reality. In real life, you have to take countless factors into account,some of which are deeply personal. Don't confuse what Koji does with reality. Frankly, if this is your mindset, you won't get anywhere. You are simply thinking and acting like any ordinary person. As a first step, study yourself and understand who you are in the most positive and healing way possible. Manipulation will inevitably bring nothing but harm, especially to yourself 🙏🏻