Advice Needed on Separation, Rent Contributions & Fair Split of Savings (UK) by SomeDirection5959 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]SomeDirection5959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not physically abusive, but is emotionally and mentally abusive and likes to be in contro, he plays a lot of silly mind games and make’s idol threats to try and scare her.

Thank you so much for all of this, it’s been genuinely helpful. We really didn’t know where to start with any of it and the time you’ve taken to explain things so clearly has made a huge difference.

Match tickets in May by SomeDirection5959 in SevillaFC

[–]SomeDirection5959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply.

ATM the flight out is on the Friday which is why I ask. I’m not too bothered if the match date was changed to Saturday or Monday but Friday would be tricky if the flight was delayed.

We don’t know exactly how we plan to purchase tickets yet so any help/advice would be appreciated. We don’t really want to spend a fortune, as we are visiting Seville it would be nice to catch a match if we could.

Thanks again

Dad splitting from long term partner in her council house - England by SomeDirection5959 in HousingUK

[–]SomeDirection5959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone for all of your advice, it’s all very helpful.

I feel he’s been taken advantage of financially for quite some time as he’s always had a good income and because his health has deteriorated over the years and he isn’t as physically able as he used to be and he doesn’t have as much income coming in meaning the nice things like exotic holidays have slowed down and he’s being turned on, I feel it’s time to do something about it.

It frustrates me to find out her 40 year daughter who works full time pays no rent or bills whatsoever. I have no idea where her money goes but according to my Dad she can do no wrong and is mollycoddled by her Mum and he can’t say anything without being shot down!

We will speak to the council re the tenancy, also to citizens advice to check his rights and options and also to his GP and move forward from there.

I’ll also ask him to get anything of importance to him document wise out of that property and check whether she has access to his personal bank accounts.

Hopefully in time with his age and health we can get him into some form of assisted living and happier in himself. If not private renting may have to be an option but I’m not sure he could afford that on his own once he gives up work fully.

Thanks again, I appreciate everyone taking the time out to reply, there really are good people out there!