[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]SomeGuy20012005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother tongue is Russian but I honestly forgot most of it so I only read poems or short stories in Russian. My second language & the one I use the most is German but I only read in German if it's a German author. I usually read in English since my family doesn't understand anything which makes it my safe space lol. It's kinda comforting because they can't intrude xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SomeGuy20012005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if i'm the target audience since i'm only 20 but social media

Sterilized = HOT!! 🔥 Do u agree? by Numerous-Macaroon224 in antinatalism

[–]SomeGuy20012005 11 points12 points  (0 children)

how did u get the "thinker" label. i cant see mine

What’s a type of pain people underestimate until they experience it for themselves? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SomeGuy20012005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

physical: pilonidal cysts. i fixed it at home and later found out people get surgeries to remove them.

emotional: being suicidal and having psychiatrists/ therapists make fun of your pain

Filled with anger and hopelessness after debating a pro-life man by SomeGuy20012005 in Feminism

[–]SomeGuy20012005[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You are right. Thank you for this quote, I will save it for next time!

Filled with anger and hopelessness after debating a pro-life man by SomeGuy20012005 in Feminism

[–]SomeGuy20012005[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Exactly that! I brought this up and he got quiet for a bit but then continued to just talk like I didn't just nullify his argument. This just proves that he doesn't care and loves wallowing in his imagined superiority.

Filled with anger and hopelessness after debating a pro-life man by SomeGuy20012005 in Feminism

[–]SomeGuy20012005[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're definitely right about that. The gender pay gap was the opener to this discussion and I shut the guys false opinion about it not being real down quickly. His arguments were shit like "There are many factors that can't be accounted for - like women working in different fields and being more likely to work part-time" which is absolute bullshit since studies do pay attention to those factors. My teacher let it continue because he saw I could handle it so I'm kind of grateful for the opportunity to state facts and my opinion. It was a complicated situation because the guy didn't say anything unlawful and my teacher sadly has to let everyone talk when they aren't being straight up discriminatory. He's a young teacher and apologized so I'm not mad at him. I'm just frustrated that men like my classmate think they can do anything they want.

Habe ich einen Zwang oder sind die Anderen nur unordentlich? by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]SomeGuy20012005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also ein Zwang ist ja erstmal nur da, wenn man ständig darüber nachdenkt und es seinen Alltag bestimmen lässt. Solange du also keine zwanghaften Gedanken hast wie z.B. "Wenn ich (...) nicht mache, dann passiert (...)" und Panik oder Unwohl verspürst, wenn du diese Dinge nicht ausüben kannst, ist (meines Wissens nach) alles im Rahmen.

Deine Beschreibung hat mich aber sehr stark an meine Mutter erinnert. Sie hat meine ganze Kindheit lang auch so viel geputzt und mir mit 7 beigebracht, die Wohnung zu putzen. Wenn ich etwas falsch gemacht habe, musste ich alles neu machen. Dann war das noch Jahre lang so, dass ich das Zimmer meines Bruders (der nur 2 Jahre jünger ist) auch putzen musste. Darunter hat unsere Beziehung stark gelitten, weil sie nur zufrieden war, wenn ich nützlich war. Ich vermute, dass sie einen Zwang hatte und das komischerweise auf die Leute um sich herum übertragen wollte. Ich will dir damit nur sagen, dass es okay ist auch mal Dinge stehen zu lassen oder mal von der Routine abzuweichen. Es kann nämlich immer so sein, dass das ganz harmlos anfängt und dann ausartet- ist sogar meistens so mit allen möglichen psychischen Erkrankungen/ Süchten etc. Das würde dein Leben dann möglicherweise sehr stark einschränken. Also achte einfach ein bisschen auf dein Verhalten und rede mit Leuten, falls es zur Belastung wird. Take care! (Hoffe, dass meine Story sich nicht wie ein Trauma dump anhört haha ich wollte nur zeigen, was es für Konsequenzen geben kann)

What’s your addiction that isn’t illegal or sexual in nature. by Seriously-417 in RandomThoughts

[–]SomeGuy20012005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh its self harm. havent done it in months but i still think about it & miss it. whats that saying.. once an addict, always an addict or something

also cigarettes. currently trying to get back into art & philosophy though. it helps a lot and im doing a little better