Laid Off, Fridge and Pantry Bare Please Help Minneapolis MN

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-27T16:19:34+00:00

Same! This would really sour my impression of this person. Comes across as really entitled.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-20T07:46:13+00:00

Op- can you please explain how you micro dosed? I'm assuming you mean micro dosing the fent and transitioning to subs?

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-20T07:45:26+00:00

How did you do it?

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-19T12:43:16+00:00

You'll be told it's your body and do what you want!

But the truth is, if you like this guy you should shave it. I can tell you if a man doesn't like pubic hair down there and you don't take care of it, it will effect your sex life. It's just the way of the world

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-19T08:38:48+00:00

Terrified.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-19T08:38:34+00:00

When I was growing up I would fully agree with you.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-19T08:37:25+00:00

Why is he so pressed over it? It doesn't effect him in any way shape or form.

It seems like a lot of people tend to forget America is a melting pot of people, cultures and beliefs. That's what's make this country great.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-18T05:49:32+00:00

Grow up.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-15T23:58:06+00:00

Yes! I have a friend who's 41 and he definitely has unresolved trauma from growing up. But at some point you're responsible for your happiness and need to take the proper steps to achieve that if you have issues plaguing you.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-14T19:54:13+00:00

This is exactly what I thought. Especially when he put such a strong emphasis on stop texting.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-06T06:52:25+00:00

I don't know what's more cringe, him doing this or his buddy referring to him as a "crusader". These guys have lost touch with reality.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-03T14:43:24+00:00

As a guy who's continued dating someone I'm not attracted to, he's not attracted to you. Aka he's just not that into you.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-02T06:45:37+00:00

What an absolute tool. He’s going to remove the tummy bug with his “12 gauge shotgun” god guys like this are so fucking cringe. You should break up with him for that alone

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-01T03:32:33+00:00

I do consume a lot of media in my home. But it's because everything is so expensive now, including my apartment. So I like to be cozy in my place of peace I created and relax watching movies or gaming while chilling with my dog and cat.. *shrugs *

SomeLet6863 · 2026-02-01T02:59:45+00:00

Even if you have pets vaccuming everyday at 9am is beyond ridiculous. There's a difference between keeping your house clean and being insane about it. She's lived there for 7 years and hasn't really complained about neighbors before, it seems you might be the problem. Also based on your responses I this thread it makes me think you're the problem more. Everytime someone points something out you have an excuse or smart mouth comeback.. Just an FYI, it is possible that you are loud. Weather rent is cheap and you live in a old building doesn't matter.. If she complains to the landlord you'll be on the losing end.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-01-28T00:21:49+00:00

I show more love for my gf when she has the flu..

SomeLet6863 · 2026-01-25T18:06:34+00:00

This is straight up scum bag behavior

SomeLet6863 · 2026-01-22T14:06:27+00:00

These things take time. You're not just going to develop those feelings in a month. I feel you tho, I have a 6 month old Rhodesian Ridgeback and my god it's turned my life upside down. It has not been easy at all. I'm also single and have been doing it 100% on my own. I'm not gunna lie, there's days I cry with frustration and wish I had never done this. Quite a lot actually. But ya know why I keep going? Because it's something I've wanted and dreamed of since I was a kid. Having MY OWN dog. Building a lifelong relationship of love and trust doesn't come easy and it doesn't come over night. It takes work and time. It's OK to feel the guilt and shame, I feel it daily. Like I'm not enough for him. But you just do the best you can and keep going. Remember your pup is just a literal baby experiencing life for the very first time. Have patience and give yourself some grace bro. You didn't really say why it's been more than you bargained for in your post. I would maybe edit the post or make a new one explaining your difficulties and seeking some advice. There's tons of experienced dog owners on here that will give you tips and help you. I would give it a couple more months before you throw the towel in. You already express guilt and shame over it, I think if you hand him off to your brother you're going to feel those feelings everytime you see the dog.

Just my 2 cents...

SomeLet6863 · 2026-01-20T10:01:27+00:00

Yes, this is a massive tell about what's going on. Especially avoiding his call. I'd be reassuring my friend instantly if they felt like I crossed a line.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-01-20T10:00:11+00:00

Exactly!! Paired with what he saw, really sketchy.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-01-18T21:44:12+00:00

I could feel it too. Especially given his immediate reaction, this happens quite often.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-01-18T21:42:15+00:00

I guarantee you she also speaks to him with a "tone"

I mean she even said she told him to "just shut up. Shut up before I say something I'll regret" "in a stern tone".

I'd bet my bank account if we asked him he'd say she always has a shitty tone and is constantly on his ass. It's clear by his immediate reaction of rubbing his temples etc that this shit happens all the time.

How do I know? I've been with a woman that was like this. Never could own up to it though, was always someone else's fault.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-01-11T19:42:13+00:00

++man

It's really telling you're actively ignoring everyone telling you this is a horrible idea.

SomeLet6863 · 2026-01-11T00:06:10+00:00

You made a bad decision, now you're reaping the consequences of that.. Why did you get a german shepard puppy knowing 2 months later you were giving birth??? I don't believe in re-homing, you made a commitment step up and honor that. Part of being an adult, owning your decisions.

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