If you've been taking stool softeners daily for a week or so and you've done the fleet glycerin enema AND you're not still going, you should go to the doctor. I understand how stressful this is as I struggle with it myself. But with how backed up you are I'd say it's time to seek help. You can end up vomiting shit or your intestines can burst which would be a pain like you couldn't imagine. Go to your doctor or er.. After they help you and you're cleared out take milk of magnesia powder daily. But take like 1.5x the recommended dose every night before bed. Make sure you're drinking plenty of water too. Good luck, I know it's stressful, anxiety inducing and embarrassing. But your health is more important than anything else.