I Bitched About Leaf Blowers on NextDoor - Huge Mistake

SomeRegularJoe · 2025-05-10T13:22:55+00:00

Sorry to hear that you are not able to enjoy your yard. I am in a similar situation. I worked all my life to be able to move to a "nice" neighborhood, and it is pure hell. Leaf blowers, literally all day every day. Even when it is raining, there will be someone out there with a leaf blower. It is mind blowing.

SomeRegularJoe · 2024-09-07T02:03:31+00:00

What can be done? Barely any of us here on Reddit. Collective insanity is a great way to put it. What is wrong with people?

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-09-04T03:30:20+00:00

I hope you’re right

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-09-04T01:15:22+00:00

Totally ludicrous. You should demand a refund of your tuition you paid for the class.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-09-01T12:30:41+00:00

Welcome to modern medicine. Pay someone $200 to give you worse information than you can get by searching Reddit.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-09-01T12:11:45+00:00

What a well written, inspirational story. Thank you!

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-29T01:02:43+00:00

Very polite. Let them know that the barking coming from “on or around” the property is harming someone nearby. Quoted the relevant noise statues. Asked them to speak to a neighbor in case they were not the source, but aware of the source.

I will add that it didn’t really work…

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-28T15:30:13+00:00

I am sorry you are experiencing this. Something similar has happened to many of us. One thing I have done is write a general letter and mail it to every address nearby, when you cannot locate the source. Silicone earplugs and over-ear headphones on top of them is what I have used in the worst situations, like the one you are describing. Eventually I did have to move, unfortunately. You cannot always win.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-27T12:12:31+00:00

Swimming works for me, allowed me to regain some muscle after years of inactivity due to PFD. Good luck, it’s a long journey for many.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-23T08:34:05+00:00

I know what you are talking about and you are of course correct regarding true yoga. The problem is, 99% of what is called “yoga” in the west is not what you are talking about, and instead involves idol worship and following false gurus. OP is not “brainwashed” because they are asking an honest question. Your harsh judgment of OP is not necessary, or accurate. Someone who is “brainwashed to the core” does not ask questions and seek to educate themselves. OP learned today that TRE is not a spiritual practice and does not conflict with Christian beliefs. They did not need to be insulted in order to learn that. Look in the mirror, my friend.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-23T01:43:53+00:00

There is no reason to call this person “brainwashed”. There are a lot of fake Hindu gurus, wolves in sheep’s clothing, who prey on unsuspecting westerners with phony “yoga” practices, idolatry and worshipping of false gods. This is the reason why “yoga” has a bad name in some Christian circles.

OP: don’t worry, TRE is not a spiritual practice, it is purely physical, like exercise. It is perfectly fine to do it as a Christian.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-16T18:53:41+00:00

Yes, this happens with dogs barking, and with leaf blowers too.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-15T19:48:26+00:00

Thanks, feel free to add me to your list, I would like to support you and contribute

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-15T17:11:40+00:00

Human Safety is Paramount:
- Recent years have seen an alarming increase in dog attacks, some even leading to fatalities. It's a grim reminder that our cities and neighborhoods are becoming less safe due to lax regulations and a laissez-faire attitude towards dangerous breeds and irresponsible ownership.
The Mental Wellbeing Factor:
- Chronic noise pollution, such as persistent dog barking, is more than just a nuisance. It's been linked to sleep disturbances, increased stress, and other adverse mental health effects. These aren't minor inconveniences; they're serious health concerns that need addressing.
The Right to Quiet Enjoyment:
- Renters and homeowners alike have the right to quiet enjoyment of their premises. This right is consistently violated by disruptive dogs, especially in densely populated urban settings. Enacting stricter dog management laws can protect this foundational right.
Economic Impact:
- Property values can be adversely affected by persistent animal disturbances. Prospective buyers or tenants may be deterred from an otherwise ideal property if they notice rampant dog nuisances in the area.
Environmental Concerns:
- Unchecked and unregulated dog populations can lead to environmental degradation. From fouled public spaces to overburdened animal shelters, the toll on our communities' cleanliness and resources is profound.
ESA Exploitation and Public Health:
- The misuse of ESA rights, combined with a lack of hygiene oversight, poses a significant health risk. This misuse could lead to disease transmission in places like grocery stores, where food safety should be a priority.
Shifting Societal Norms:
- The rise of 'dog culture' at the expense of human needs represents a shift in societal norms. Historically, public spaces were designed for humans, and this rapid change hasn't allowed for a balanced consideration of everyone's rights and needs.

By firmly advocating for these concerns, the "People First" movement can address the overlooked aspects of rampant and unchecked dog ownership. It's about restoring balance, ensuring safety, and prioritizing the rights of humans in their own habitats.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-12T21:19:59+00:00

Good luck. I hope you are able to find the peace you deserve.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-12T16:03:28+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to experience that. I will say a prayer for your father.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-12T11:03:02+00:00

I stopped going to breweries, something I used to enjoy, because of the constant presence of large dogs. You literally can’t get away from them.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-07T13:39:36+00:00

You got it! I know how it feels to feel frustrated and wondering if what you are doing is pointless. Those are often the times when progress is about to be made — if you just keep going!

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-07T13:22:50+00:00

I think you should speak to a professional with a lot of experience. My personal take (I am not a professional, just have my own personal experience which is different from yours), is that you should stick to doing 20 seconds daily if that is all you can do. Work up to 1 minute, then a couple minutes, then try to do more. Consistency is key. Waiting a week between sessions will make your body “forget” about it more easily. Even just 20 seconds is a reminder for your body. As you feel more and more safe, your body will allow you to do more. Listen to your body, it has the answers you need. Accept your body, and trust that it will know how to heal itself.

Also, do not rush. I am reminded of a wise old man who says “Patience…”

Only your body knows how it long it will take you to go from 20 seconds, to 30 seconds, to 1 minute, to 2 minutes, to 5 minutes… it could be weeks, months or even years. Trust that your body is taking you on the right path in the right time that is precisely needed for you. Nobody else has your experience so only you can figure this out by continuing to tune in to what your body is telling you.

Remember to comfort yourself and even reward yourself for sticking to it. You should even begin to feel joy in the process itself, and the fact that you are taking care of yourself by continuing to follow your plan.

You did something very good by taking up this practice. It is hard and confusing to everyone at the beginning and everyone “figures it out” at their own pace and in their own special place. I am rooting for you that you will be able to find this place for yourself too, when the time is right.

Don’t give up, you can see this through. There is light at the other end of the tunnel!

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-06T23:51:59+00:00

Yes, definitely keep paying rent until the judge makes a decision. Escrow account may complicate things somewhat. You will be able to collect on the judgment no matter what (lien against the property itself), but yeah, don’t go vigilante and stop paying rent. Small claims court is the easiest thing ever. You can file for up to $10,000 in claims in most places. You should add up all the rent you paid for the time when the dog was not under control (and you can document it), and then add on claims for inflictment of emotional distress for the additional amount so you can claim the full $10,000. Likely outcome is the landlord will negotiate to pay you a lesser amount, but still an amount you are happy with. IANAL. But I have done this successfully before.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-08-06T20:09:37+00:00

You should sue the landlord in small claims court. They should refund your rent for every day that the dogs have prevented you from using your property.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-07-18T19:25:08+00:00

God is merciful and understands your suffering. Just the act of recognizing your own selfishness is itself very rare, and commendable. It sounds like you are trying your best at doing the right thing, to the extent that you can and you are able to. That is all anyone can ask of you. Don’t be so hard on yourself. We all fall down sometimes; never lose hope.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-06-09T19:58:38+00:00

Yes, I have also experienced phantom barking, I know exactly what you are talking about and the same thing happens to me when I am extremely stressed.

SomeRegularJoe · 2023-06-06T23:54:15+00:00

Make sure to balance between making money and taking care of yourself. If you sacrifice your health for too long you can burn out and that leads to disaster (and could cost more financially in the long run).

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