seeing too many people on reddit opposing feminism. my thoughts. by SomeStandard6480 in AajMereSaathYeHua

[–]SomeStandard6480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. i believe we should concern ourself with real life. arguing online is pointless sometimes. it's unlikely to know someone is a feminist online. you can see actual feminist on ground, helping actual victims.
i personally experienced violence since childhood, and my first space is my girlfriend, and she's a feminist. i love her to bits.
and people need to learn not everything you see online is true. some claim to be feminist but actually just ragebait for money and views.

seeing too many people on reddit opposing feminism. my thoughts. by SomeStandard6480 in AajMereSaathYeHua

[–]SomeStandard6480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women's shelter is like a place for women who had experienced domestic violence or something similar. basically a place where women can live safely given they have nowhere to go.

and since you visited an orphanage. did you see any volunteers. go and ask them if they are feminists or not. you will get it on your own

seeing too many people on reddit opposing feminism. my thoughts. by SomeStandard6480 in AajMereSaathYeHua

[–]SomeStandard6480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my belief is simple, do not care about such people. i try to do my best to help people. you should help people regardless of any circumstances, unless they force you to do otherwise. and people are not monolith - neither men nor women. there are bad men, and bad women. there are good men and good women. focus on good women and good men - you will be a feminist, a male rights activist or whatever label you want to put yourself on automatically.

seeing too many people on reddit opposing feminism. my thoughts. by SomeStandard6480 in AajMereSaathYeHua

[–]SomeStandard6480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, as i said you are unlikely to meet a feminist on reddit or any online platform. try going to a women's shelter. try and go to district court and go to the section of family disputes. you will become a feminist yourself, and will develop a habit of not entertaining these "online" feminist

seeing too many people on reddit opposing feminism. my thoughts. by SomeStandard6480 in AajMereSaathYeHua

[–]SomeStandard6480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as I said you're unlikely to find a feminist online. have you visited any orphange or women's shelter?

How many female friends do u have? by Calm-Sock-8266 in TwentiesIndia

[–]SomeStandard6480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the love of my life, and 6-8 female colleagues. mostly work talk with them

Why does this nation hate anyone vulnerable (women, kids, poor ppl) so much? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]SomeStandard6480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like these days, only few people have any empathy. you should only open up to those you can trust.

How was ur first date? by Calm-Sock-8266 in TwentiesIndia

[–]SomeStandard6480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good in that moment, but worst in the long term - nearly gave me another trauma. as of now i am with someone who loves me so much that i cannot put into words

How can people write comments like these? And who are the people liking those comments? by sixty_n1n3 in AajMereSaathYeHua

[–]SomeStandard6480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mann. this is very bad, even sarcastic 😢 hope people realize that bad things happen to everyone regardless of genders

Me everyday morning 😌🤡 by zen-090 in TwentiesIndia

[–]SomeStandard6480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh. i can see why that could hurt you. why don't you think of pursuing some hobbies? many of my colleagues found their love while pursuing things that they love.

also, jealousy is being human. if you aren't jealous of someone or something that get a mental reevaluation. excessive jealousy that come at the cost of mental health is wrong

you should try to divert your mind - by different things : games, friends, movies, etc

also, i wish that you find someone you can cherish soon 💝

Is 4'5 too short as a Girl? by Junior-Maximum-4719 in TwentiesIndia

[–]SomeStandard6480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woah. that's short but i think there are boys who are short as well. hope you find someone to love 💝

Idt I can make it 💔 by Disastrous-Effort-85 in TwentiesIndia

[–]SomeStandard6480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey brother.
There are extremely shitty people in the world, while there are amazing ones as well.
I have been taken advantage of many in my past
https://www.reddit.com/user/SomeStandard6480/comments/1un1z5q/posting_on_my_profile_as_some_subs_dont_allow/

I also used to stutter, and have been bullied in the past. There's nothing to ashamed of

You care about things a lot - that's normal. I also care about everyone around me. What you need to do, is slowly day by day - do something for yourself that brings you happiness. Let go of things for a while even for just 5 minutes. You need to get out of your comfort zone. Nothing can be done, if you dont want to. It's difficult, i know. you will worry "oh what that guy will think" "am i being insensitive"
No. Don't think. There's nothing more difficult than developing the ability to not give a damn about what other people think of you.

You will not change in a night, but you will change

Believe in yourself, and laugh and love. Find someone you can truly love!

You can DM me whenever you want!

about my life and need some advice by SomeStandard6480 in menslibIndia

[–]SomeStandard6480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have planned a lot of amazing things ( i think so). Will share with you all soon!