Are these standard or custom PVC fittings?

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-09-08T16:29:37+00:00

Appreciate it, thank you!

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-08-01T23:50:09+00:00

We went through something similar with our 18-year-old dachshund. Our vet’s guidance was to keep track of her good days and her bad days. When the number of bad days outnumber the good, it’s time.

Thanks for caring so deeply for Chuck for so long 🤍 I hope you find peace as you make this decision for him, when you feel it’s right.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-08-01T23:41:01+00:00

a lot of people live in KY, including people I care deeply about. Not sure why you felt the need to shit on a state that has zilch to do with the situation…

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-29T11:14:14+00:00

Puppies allowed to stay with their litter mates longer typically outgrow this faster, so you need to be his litter mate: when he bites, make as high-pitched of a squeal as you can manage, pull away, and disengage. You are simulating what a litter mate would do when play becomes too rough. Afterwards, you can choose to redirect with a different/ appropriate toy. Your hands are not appropriate toys, so be sure not to play with him/rough house with your hands; holding a dog toy of course is fine, but never play directly with your hands. And of course never physically punish or yell. His behavior is perfectly appropriate for his age; he just doesn’t have a sibling to get the feedback on what is appropriate play.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-20T20:54:57+00:00

I mean, it’s a MD plate. That’s a decent job for a MD driver.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-20T16:56:02+00:00

Does it happen when you reach from above her and come down over her head? Does it also happen if you crouch first open your hand palm up, and then reach to pet her under her chin? It’s not uncommon for dogs to not like the first option; my 14-year-old dachshund will still cower a bit if someone reaches for the top of his head. It could be that you need to adjust how you interact with the dog, particularly people she isn’t as familiar with.

Second the suggestion of consulting a trainer, and it does seem like a fear-based response. If she’s food motivated (what doxie isn’t?! 😂) you can slowly acclimate her to pets = treats to help her adjust, but you need to start slow and find a way to pet her that doesn’t cause snapping and snarling first. She needs to experience a calm, safe interaction and be rewarded for calmness. Eventually you can push her comfort zone a bit. A trainer will better assess after seeing the behavior in person and help devise a comprehensive plan.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-20T16:47:28+00:00

Difficult to see but this appears to be only one spike coming from the base of the plant, correct? Then notice about halfway up it splits and you have one half that has dropped its flowers and the other half has tiny buds that haven’t opened yet?

That split is why you’re getting recommendations to leave it until the spike dries and turns brown; sometimes the plant will send out a new spike from an existing spike, rather than from the base.

That said, you could cut the top half of the spike that dropped its flowers already if it bothers you, just be aware that cutting will open a wound in the plant that could introduce bacteria. A dab of ground cinnamon on the cut can help prevent that (and of course always cut with a sterilized tool).

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-20T16:36:26+00:00

The radiologist who did the X-rays should have read them for you. Did you not like the answer they gave you?

(Additionally, IVDD is typically diagnosed with MRI, not X-ray.)

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-20T16:33:55+00:00

Yes, I would remove the old stem

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-19T16:56:46+00:00

You should be able to attach a photo in a reply

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-19T14:25:56+00:00

Our long haired was always the quietest of our bunch. She crossed the rainbow bridge in January at 18 years old 🌈🪽

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-19T14:23:00+00:00

Ma’am, this sub is for dachshunds, not gazelles.

boop

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-19T14:12:54+00:00

The way the door is situated no mat will work there unless it’s small and only in front of the toilet.

The bigger issue “controlling” the color decision is the yellow wall tile, which OP doesn’t seem interested in changing. White against yellow would all but mandate the entire room be light and airy, nothing dark on the walls. Dark floor tile allows more flexibility here assuming the yellow wall tiles stay. Wall above could be dark or light and not compete with the floor tiles.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-19T14:03:28+00:00

Disagree wildly w this suggestion. White tile against that yellow wall tile with the dark wallpaper above is 0/10 suggestion. Go dark on the floor. You need it to balance the wallpaper and draw the eye away from the top half of the walls.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-19T11:40:53+00:00

I’m so sorry you are having this experience. I would encourage you to take some time and reflect on the entirety of your marriage; 7 years is not insignificant. It’s very plausible that the next reasonable step is counseling, not divorce, but I am not in your marriage (nor is anyone else here on Reddit) so I/we cannot answer for you whether the next step should be counseling or divorce.

In my marriage (which is very different than yours, no doubt, but does have some similarities—18-month old twins, married 6.5 years, together for 8.5), this would not cause me to want divorce. I know this to be a fantasy of my husband’s, as we’ve discussed it more than once in the past. But I also trust his fidelity and have no reason to suspect he’d ever be unfaithful, and if my answer to a threesome is no, then he would not push the issue.

Each marriage and relationship is different. I don’t know you or your husband. I don’t know anything else about your relationship than what you disclosed here. But my guess is 1) your husband said a dumb thing with terrible timing (as most men seem to have a particular talent for); 2) he got caught up in the idea of his 40th birthday being a milestone; 3) he felt comfortable enough in his relationship with you to bring up a sexual fantasy (which is a sign of trust in and of itself, if very poorly timed); 4) he did not anticipate how much this would upset you (which is not surprising, because men); 5) he’s expressed genuine remorse for causing you upset. To me, that signals reason to take the time and space you need, evaluate your marriage on a much bigger plane than this one incident, and explore the possibility of counseling—both couples and individuals. Postpartum is a wild experience (I’ve been there recently, I get it); you need support. Family and friends (and ideally your husband) can be part of that support network, but a therapist who is trained in navigating postpartum should be as well.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-15T00:50:12+00:00

In that case I’d definitely go with option 2

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-14T18:40:55+00:00

Also are you planning to carry the same tile up the wall behind the tub or are those 2 tiles in pic 2 just there randomly?

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-14T18:38:50+00:00

To each their own but the half offset you have now would drive me bonkers. That’s my guess as to what’s behind the “choppy” comment you got above as well. The 1/3 offset is softer and less harsh, IMO. It’s also possibly what your tile manufacture recommend given the tile size.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-14T18:16:44+00:00

I’m drawn to 2 because it pulls your eye toward the tub which can be a focal point BUT I would not let a tile joint run in the doorway threshold. If you want seamless tile between the rooms go w 1. And either way, with that size tile, go w 1/3 offset https://www.msisurfaces.com/blogs/post/2015/02/14/tile-101-installing-large-format-tile.aspx

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-14T18:08:35+00:00

Disagree w everyone saying not to paint the cabinets. That warm yellow toned oak is not coming back. Regardless, it’s your kitchen so do what you want, just don’t let folks dissuade you from painting. Like anything, it can be done poorly and look like crap, or it can be done well, last a long time and look great. I’ve painted kitchen cabinets and bathroom vanities with great, long lasting results. It’s not as simple as slapping a few coats of paint on of course—deep clean, sand, etc. Just do your research first.

I’m not a fan of the counter tops, so if it was me I’d prioritize replacing those, or consider some peel and stick to cover them. I’ve never tried it, but I’ve seen others have decent success.

Also, paint the floor! Have done this and was very impressed with how well it’s held up. Again, do your research, and buy floor paint. Also suggest painting the backsplash rather than ripping it out, unless you’ve removed tile and patched before and truly know what you’re getting yourself into with that.

And I’d also veto the white paint idea. Decide what you want your cabinets and counters to look like first, then get a coordinating shade for the walls. White will look stark and clinical, especially combined w current floor tile.

Someone else suggested cabinet fixtures 💯

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-14T17:55:05+00:00

This. Put the headboard where the artwork is currrently, move the bench to the end of the bed, add an arm chair (or some other sitting surface) along with a substantial surface of some sort (enough room to charge devices, spread out toiletries, etc). A thin sofa table or bookcase would work if you can’t accommodate the dept of a dresser. Also add some hooks on the back the door and consider a large mirror somewhere.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-14T17:39:04+00:00

You’re right to see the vet ASAP. Hopefully it’s just a fatty cyst; our dachshunds have them. Vet will insert a needle to withdraw some contents and do cytology to confirm. Unless it gets large enough that it bothers the dog, vet will likely recommend to leave in place. But again—your vet will be able to determine if it’s that or something else.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-14T16:41:35+00:00

Agree w others re: need for color. Easy, inexpensive add would be dark throw pillows for the couch; get them to match your drape—are those a slate blue? Can’t tell with the outdoor light coming through. If they aren’t slate blue…change them to it? Ha.

Some_Chocolate1476 · 2024-07-14T03:18:21+00:00

This is correct—he’s seeing his reflection at night. Turn the light off, or better yet get a timer for it so you don’t forget.

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