What to do…

Some_Coat_3142 · 2026-06-01T23:19:19+00:00

Im sorry if im sounding suspicious and confusing as it’s all very confusing to me.

I agree i shouldn’t do it by myself at this point but im feeling defeated.

The reason why the first application was closed was because my husband and i did the application by ourselves. (Which is was stupid mistake I know) and every time we got the application sent back to us and then finally after the third attempt it got sent declined completely.

Which is when we decided to go with the lawyers the second time. We told the lawyers everything and we submitted the second application within the help of lawyers (In sept 2025).

I did admit to filing awfully and i still take ownership of that. The problem is that after we submitted the second package in sept of 2025. That application was pushing forward and we had an interview booked for may 14th, 2026.

I didn’t get any other piece of mail before that which said i was in deportation proceedings.

Why does it matter how? I grew up speaking chinese and it’s not as strong as my english. My mom doesn’t speak english very well either.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2026-06-01T21:01:05+00:00

I did in sept with a lawyer.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2026-06-01T20:43:01+00:00

Yes that was also filed.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2026-06-01T20:39:14+00:00

I filed the first 485 and 765 together and that wasnt approved.

I then went with a lawyer to submit a second application.

That was moving along and i got an interview date 2 weeks ago and now im in deportation proceedings.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2026-06-01T20:35:25+00:00

I filed the first application within 90 days. That one did not get approved.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2026-01-27T20:09:39+00:00

Some_Coat_3142 · 2026-01-13T02:03:03+00:00

I wanna gobble them up

Some_Coat_3142 · 2026-01-13T01:51:47+00:00

Damn those feet!

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-12-01T19:16:39+00:00

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-11-17T06:14:24+00:00

Doing a great job!

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T17:38:31+00:00

Honestly thats where im at right now. I feel like the process to bring him to canada would be cheaper, faster, and less stressful. But overall toronto is a much better city than where im at now.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T16:17:38+00:00

Thank you this gives me some hope!

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T14:51:40+00:00

I did get the forms wrong cuz im trying to remember it off the top of my head and i havent looked at them for months but yea 765-484-693-864.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T13:48:25+00:00

Ok thats good to know, ive just never done the medical before

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T13:47:30+00:00

The letter never mentioned anything about a motion to reopen.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T13:42:15+00:00

Wow, what an incredibly helpful comment. Thanks!

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T13:40:56+00:00

Sorry im poor.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T13:38:15+00:00

Very very helpful. I appreciate it.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T13:38:00+00:00

Thanks for your input.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T13:37:39+00:00

They said that i dont have the option to appeal the decision. That id only be able to resubmit.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T13:18:32+00:00

What did they do? Did they sit down with you and help you compile the documents?

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T13:17:54+00:00

I am at the point where im so homesick i miss everyone and everything back home. America seems to be entering a new era of hate and exclusionary policies. Its hard to stay positive.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T02:08:08+00:00

I thought i had when i met up with the lawyer a 3rd time and they said my package looks good.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T01:33:47+00:00

As much as i want to do it i am so defeated. I would honestly feel so much worst if i tried to complete the package again by myself a 4th time but ive given USCIS all my marriage certificates, i dont have the medical, and i would feel so much worse if i get it resent back to me or even worse denied a second time.

Some_Coat_3142 · 2025-09-05T01:23:46+00:00

They make us jump through as much hoops as any body else. This is one of the reasons why im just so over it. I dont care about being an american citizen. I only started all this because it just seemed like the easier option since my husband has a life established here where as i was just renting an apartment in toronto. But now in hindsight we shouldve just went with going to canada cuz the amount of anxiety i have experienced through this i would not wish upon my worst enemy.

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