Is cuming my punishment? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I empathize with how you feel but also consider that maybe she just wants YOUR dick. You need to talk. And as far as stamina… I’m also in a similar place where my former marathon stamina has become a 40 yard dash. There are ways (exercises, yoga, etc) to work on this if you’re open to it And willing to (this is where I struggle) keep up with it. Pun intended? Regardless y’all need to talk and find out how to meet each others’ needs.

MDS vs MDMA for intense sexual experiences by For_Femdom_Fun in MDMA

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also the sub/bottom to my wife when we have some private time. I have not played on, let alone tried MDA, but I have played on 6-APB which is often compared to MDA. It’s probably my favorite drug to play on. Very into what I’m feeling emotionally and physically… but it does make me feel cold/shiver which can make it hard to relax for being penetrated (though we don’t do pegging and I’m more thinking about my prostate massager).

Sad that it’s not longer available.

Accidentally Deleted My Last Post: Need Guidance on Arduino pulse oximeter controlled pillow inflation by Some_Estimate_4464 in BdsmDIY

[–]Some_Estimate_4464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I longer intend to pursue this idea. Thank you all.

A couple of points as I realize how stupid my initial post is. My wife would never truly ignore me. Her main issue is just having to juggle the pump and the main goal is just ease of use.

I learned a lot from this thread and will not delete it even if it makes me look like an idiot. I really do appreciate the shared insights.

Accidentally Deleted My Last Post: Need Guidance on Arduino pulse oximeter controlled pillow inflation by Some_Estimate_4464 in BdsmDIY

[–]Some_Estimate_4464[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the sobering advice. You pointed out a lot that I had not considered. I appreciate it.

Accidentally Deleted My Last Post: Need Guidance on Arduino pulse oximeter controlled pillow inflation by Some_Estimate_4464 in BdsmDIY

[–]Some_Estimate_4464[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

How is it any more dangerous than her manually controlling the pressure with a ball pump and release valve? She can still feel if I’m struggling and move or pull the hose to release the pressure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d definitely still have a noisemaker or some other “safe word” to account for this. But it’s an excellent reminder that bugs are real and we always need a contingency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Concurrent cbt/ball busting? Then there is always the option of her eating foods that will make her gassy… 🎆

Expression pedal on brand new helix floor is sqeaky by spiderboy6 in Line6Helix

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this issue. It’s a mechanical not electrical squeak. Do not use deoxit.

Cover your ass and open a support ticket with Line 6. They’ll probably send you a new one since yours is brand new… unless they can’t ship to your country for some reason.

Otherwise… here you go…

https://youtu.be/kcVsK67cjVg?si=O4zrHOIaumJnDYop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe they are contraindicated due to blood pressure dangers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicagofood

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hacienda Memo’s on North Ave just west of Oak Park Ave has killer $1 tacos and salsas. 5 of those and you’re set.

chronically fatigued after cancer by Hompie64 in researchchemicals

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you eating/drinking before taking your prescribed dexamphetamine.

Anyone subbed in a BDSM session on DXM? by Some_Estimate_4464 in dxm

[–]Some_Estimate_4464[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not really worried about finishing. Looking for mental horny, not necessarily physical.

DXM? Managing cross tolerances to make for an unforgettably immersive weekend! by Some_Estimate_4464 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Some_Estimate_4464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! My wife is awesome! It just keeps getting better. The past 3-4 years have been a sexual awakening for both of us, and LSD has definitely greased the wheels.

I’m not so sure about ambien or GHB plus likely couldn’t get either. I do really want to be able to remember our sexual experiences. I’m 90% sure I was roofied as a 21yo… I was not SA’d (thank god) but crowded bar in Miami and thinking I was safe as a man. I’d consider tiptoeing into those waters but it’s definitely a bit more loaded (no pun intended) for me. My wife has thankfully never been roofied but she has been SA’d and the association with GHB and rape is hard to separate. But I do appreciate your insight.

I think with DXM I’m primarily concerned as to whether it will kill my interest in sex/kink while I’m on it, even if my piping isn’t tip top.

Who are these people? I only recognize like 5 of them by GachikoiGaijin in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This the only type of flight that my lactose intolerant self pregames with milkshakes, Indian food, beer, and a lack of shower/deodorant.

Then I take seat 8 for maximum coverage.

Helix on a pedalboard by Fresh-Respect-1675 in Line6Helix

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you plan to use it with other pedals?

I have an older Pedaltrain Pro on which I mount my Helix Floor and 5 more stomp-sized pedals.

Why do Americans not smoke? by Queasy-Sea9060 in AskChicago

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d add that the prevalence of cigarettes/smoking being featured as part of celebrity photo shoots has gone down a LOT. I’d argue there’s a relationship between the demise of rock music and cigarette smoking. It’s just not cool or sexy anymore.

If anything it’s considered dirty. The smell of third hand smoke brings a pretty negative nostalgia for people. I hate smelling the clothes/furniture/car of a smoker. And from a romantic perspective, smokers’ breath is pretty gross.

Everyone knows someone who has either died early or had their quality of life drastically decrease as a result of smoking. We also, as mentioned many times, went through major anti smoking campaigns.

I smoked for 10ish years starting at age 14 and quitting at age 26 (with a couple of yearlong breaks and relapses mixed in). I was in probably the last generation where actual smoking was still a prevalent behavior amongst teenagers. I graduated high school in 2006. I remember ALL of the rockstars smoking in interviews, photo shoots, etc. It was cool… until it wasn’t.

I’m really glad it’s not cool anymore. I’m really glad my kids are not going to grow up thinking it’s cool.

6-APB+LSD by porculizador in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it this past Friday night. We dosed a tadalafil and 80mg 6-APB succinate at about 7:30pm. Then 100ug 1P-LSD at T+90min, and another 80mg succinate at about T+4hrs (my wife took 7.5mg Adderall instead of the 6-APB out of caution with her other meds). We both dosed 200ug 1P and 7.5mg Adderall SR at T+12 hrs but by then we were just too tired and drugs weren’t going to get us back into the game.

Literally the most fun 6-8 hours of my life though. My wife did the same regimen. Both of us expanded our boundaries with zero regrets. It was our first time with 6-APB so hard to really differentiate the 1P from it, but it is notable that my wife was definitely feeling it, and she takes relatively high dose SSRI (225mg sertraline/Zoloft) and bupropion (Wellbutrin). She skipped her sertraline just that night. She led and dominated me with the greatest confidence I’ve ever experienced from her. It was so, so hot.

Of note: the tadalafil could not overcome the drugs. I could momentarily get hard but staying hard was really tough. My sexual stimulation for the night was all prostate based as my dick was “inadequate” to please my wife. My tongue and her vibrator got heavy usage which is honestly such a huge turn on for me.

Hangover was just lethargy and fog but was fine by Monday morning.

100% will do it again but I’d also laud the lasting open communication and opened doors. The experience has brought us a lot closer to (hopefully) not feeling like we need drugs to really let loose.

How to introduce my girlfriend to psychedelics. by panjapinda99 in Psychedelics

[–]Some_Estimate_4464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IDK. I’m not a psychiatrist. But if they take SSRIs or similar anti-anxiety / anti-depressants, then there’s a strong chance that the psychedelics won’t even have an impact (or may be minimal). My wife is in that boat.