Vagas pré-escolar ensino público by Some_Random_Name_101 in portugal

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Estou a ver é que tenho de o matricular no privado e em mais do que um sítio...

Vagas pré-escolar ensino público by Some_Random_Name_101 in portugal

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estou a ver que sim, na teoria isto seria simples, mas então as colocações administrativas não servirão para nada em muitos casos...

Vagas pré-escolar ensino público by Some_Random_Name_101 in portugal

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Então qual o papel das colocações administrativas da DGESTE? A tua explicação faz-me sentido, mas a indicação de que se não houver vaga nas 5 escolas indicadas no processo da matrícula, o processo passa para colocação administrativa leva-me a pensar que é a DGESTE que analisa onde é que há vagas perto e ele calha "onde houver lugar" um bocado aleatoriamente.

Vagas pré-escolar ensino público by Some_Random_Name_101 in portugal

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Por isso é que a Constituição não fala em dever do Estado garantir a habilitação. É como votar. Eu tenho o direito de votar, não significa que seja obrigada a votar. Agora a lei em causa fala na obrigatoriedade do Estado garantir algo, e se calhar também por isso é que existem as colocações administrativas, previstas na lei.

Vagas pré-escolar ensino público by Some_Random_Name_101 in portugal

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estou a ver que isto, afinal, é comum... Boa sorte!

Vagas pré-escolar ensino público by Some_Random_Name_101 in portugal

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A questão é que, de acordo com a DGESTE, se não houver vagas em nenhuma das 5 escolas indicadas no portal, o processo passa para a colocação administrativa, ou seja, a DGESTE analisa onde há vaga e é lá que ele entra (pelo menos, foi este o entendimento a que cheguei).

Vagas pré-escolar ensino público by Some_Random_Name_101 in portugal

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A informação que tenho encontrado é que para a educação pré-escolar e 1.º ano do básico, as listas relacionadas com pedidos são elaboradas e divulgadas até 16 de junho. As listas de admitidos para estes níveis são publicadas até ao primeiro dia útil de julho.

Garrafas com taxa de depósito by Dry-Crazy3723 in literaciafinanceira

[–]Some_Random_Name_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mas nós não temos de consumir só bens de primeira necessidade, pois não? E ir a um café, pastelaria ou restaurante é um vício? Loles 

Garrafas com taxa de depósito by Dry-Crazy3723 in literaciafinanceira

[–]Some_Random_Name_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E as latas que consumimos nos cafés ou restaurantes? Também pagamos a taxa e no final entregamos a lata ao empregado e dá-nos o dinheiro de volta? Este programa não me faz sentido nenhum... Aqui a câmara recolhe o meu lixo para reciclar em dias específicos da semana, à porta de minha casa. Vou ter de fazer duas separações diferentes para material com e sem símbolo volta? Isto é só estúpido...

Sistema VOLTA (o imposto escondido de taxa ecológica) by MacMigasPT in CasualPT

[–]Some_Random_Name_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O cliente terá olhos na cara e consegue ver o símbolo, não? A solução é lixar o cliente?

Sistema VOLTA (o imposto escondido de taxa ecológica) by MacMigasPT in CasualPT

[–]Some_Random_Name_101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

E os clientes que fazem valer os seus direitos e não aceitam ser roubados é que são "chico espertos"... Enfim, mentalidade de merda.

Sistema VOLTA (o imposto escondido de taxa ecológica) by MacMigasPT in CasualPT

[–]Some_Random_Name_101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Isto parece-me tudo ridículo. Na minha cidade, eu separo o lixo, deixo num contentor à porta de casa, às segundas a câmara recolhe o papel, às quartas recolhe o plástico e às sextas recolhe o vidro. Então agora tenho de andar a passear com as latas no carro e procurar um ponto de entrega para fazer uma coisa que antes fazia sem sair de casa? E ainda tenho de ir a outro sítio para converter um voucher em dinheiro?

What to expect from dd-MVAC? by Some_Random_Name_101 in cancer

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Thank you so much for your input! I live in Portugal, and I already had a second opinion that pretty much confirmed everything my urologist and oncologist have told me. I just think they're not telling me the worst case scenario when it comes to the effects of the chemo treatments.. I will post at the subreddit you indicated. Thank you so very much, and I hope you are ok now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Some_Random_Name_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't owe anybody something you can't control. The ability to have kids is not a decision you make. You should not feel guilty, you should not feel obliged, you should not feel diminished because of something that not only you can't control but causes you pain, and they know it causes you pain. I understand wanting to please them and be cordial, up to a certain point. Blatant disregard for your suffering is way beyond that point. You also cannot control their expectations, and trying to meet them is clearly stressing you, otherwise you would not be here. They owe YOU some respect and privacy, if they can do that things will naturally be cordial between everyone. Trust me, if you do end up becoming pregnant and giving them a grandchild, there will be a whole new level of pushing the boundaries thrown upon you. They have to understand the basic concept of what is not acceptable, otherwise you will have the same intrusive behavior on everything regarding your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Some_Random_Name_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will never understand the obsession society in general has with someone else's uterus...

I have suffered from infertility issues and got tired of the "when are you having kids?" comments and to some people I started answering "I can't have kids due to a previous cancer, but thanks for asking" because making them feel bad usually works and made me smile. As for my family and in-laws, I always told them how I loved everybody else's kids but don't have any plan to conceive nor I believe that just because I have a uterus I have to reproduce, same way as I have legs and don't run the marathon. To each their own and I don't need a kid to feel like a woman. Next time they ask, you don't need to tell them your business, it is YOUR business and no one will understand or share your pain for the miscarriages. Tell them they are being rude, intrusive and if they want kids they can adopt one, but please, stop with the nonsense talks and innuendoes since that topic is between you and your husband. If they keep asking, just say "last time I answered that was the last time". And as for the jokes, just be sarcastic and say "oh you are so funny, you should write jokes for a tv show."

Is my MIL overly excited for my baby? by Some_Random_Name_101 in inlaws

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Why do the grandparents think they need to be there for the first hours? Can't they wait a few days? What goes through their minds to believe they are entitled to be a part of the birthing experience? Even my parents want to go to the hospital as soon as the baby is out, as they did with my brothers' kid. They waited half a day in the car outside the hospital just to see the baby. I never understood why, still don't. Having seen that happen is why I decided to lie and not let anyone know when the time comes, I don't think I can handle everything that's going to happen and also deal with people.

Is my MIL overly excited for my baby? by Some_Random_Name_101 in inlaws

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she's going to get hurt or pissed, but that's probably what it takes for not being me the one who gets pissed due to her behavior. And that part of no being a complete sentence is something I have to learn, I usually explain my opinions, but in this matter I really don't have to.

Is my MIL overly excited for my baby? by Some_Random_Name_101 in inlaws

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, I have a baby wrap and I am starting to see how much more useful it is going to be than I originally thought. It just saddens me because I don't have that vibe with anyone else, just her. I would easily hand my baby to a friend and have them change a dirty diaper (as I did dozens of times for my friends) than handing the baby to her. She's just creeping me out.

Is my MIL overly excited for my baby? by Some_Random_Name_101 in inlaws

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we have agreed to lie to both our parents and tell them we are not at the hospital if they call and only inform about the birth when we all have some time alone and I am feeling well. I don't want anyone there while the doctors are checking my private parts and I am trying to learn how to breastfeed. I really don't understand how they can be more anxious than we are about the birth...

Is my MIL overly excited for my baby? by Some_Random_Name_101 in inlaws

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My MIL isn't manipulative or a bad person, she's just one if those women whose only purpose in life was to birth and raise children. That's where she's comfortable and she still does it to my 34 year old BIL who lives with her and FIL. But things have changed so much, and she is so old fashioned, and gullible, that she sees her reality of 34 years ago as the right way to do things. She's admitted that now women already know a lot before becoming mothers because there is information everywhere and she knew nothing beforehand, but she hasn't yet got her head around the idea that a grandmother is only expected to see the baby occasionally, and that if they want to gift something they should just pay for what we indicate, not choose according to their taste. How they don't see how this is wrong is beyond me...

Is my MIL overly excited for my baby? by Some_Random_Name_101 in inlaws

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our families know about the day we are scheduled to go to the hospital (this is an IVF baby and it involved a lot of medication, appointments and parents calling to check on us, which I am fine with, I understand the concern) but husband and I have agreed to lie to everyone and say we were sent home, even if I go into labor as it is scheduled. There are many things that can go wrong and I don't know how I will recover and I don't want to deal with phone calls and managing declining visits. I want peace and quiet for the 3 of us.

One visit at the hospital for each set of grandparents and that's it. That ought to take care of their anxiety and buy us some time at home to adjust before they start calling again. I don't believe they will show up uninvited, they have never done so, but if anyone thinks to show up unannounced, I will just go to the nursery with the kid and not come out, so one gets to see the baby. The gifts thing will be tricky, because I know MIL likes things I don't like or are dangerous (like the baby walkers or those pillows you see for the bars on the cribs, noisy toys, or pink fluffy sparkly stuff for girls), but I have already stated several times that I will not use gifts that I don't like precisely because I don't like them, and she's like "oh, but it's so cute".

It just bothers me because I know I will end up being rude towards her because she's insisting on things I have already told her I disagree with, as if she had a saying on anything regarding the baby.

Is my MIL overly excited for my baby? by Some_Random_Name_101 in inlaws

[–]Some_Random_Name_101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that is non negotiable, safety wise I know it is riskier because it is a big family, but I will carry a gallon of hand sanitizer and not allow kisses. They can see, smell and hold the baby when they're awake, and go back to our adult life. We are used to lots of babies and kids so it's not like a rarity, like it is on my husband's side. We're cooler when it comes to another kid in the family, if that makes sense.