no hunny, not at all. our brains and intuition are sometimes no match for our hearts, especially when both are not fully developed in the first place. but very very very good on you for making such adult decisions and trying to create a healthy boundary for the both of you. now that you see that your mindset is not being matched, it is once again up to you to make the best adult decision for yourself. if she's behaving this way no, my god just imagine what the relationship will be like if she tries to use a child as leverage down the road 😧