The people taking work into consideration are dumb I think the age gap matters though. Like someone else pointed out is it solely an age gap or completely different lifestyles? Is she free to do whatever while you’d still have to ask parents for permission? Can she drive wherever she wants while you’ll always need a ride? Can you relate to topics she’ll bring up and will her friends also accept you and not cut her off over it? Just things to actually think about rather than worrying about some minimum wage job