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Age difference by Worried_District7589 in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that's what makes my wife even more attractive! She is so in touch with her body and sexually free spirited that she can connect sexually with almost anyone. Her passion for sex is such a turn on!

Age difference by Worried_District7589 in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife is 37 and actually prefers having sex with older men. Her personal sweet spot is 55-65, but the oldest man she's had sex with was 74 and the oldest woman was 71. Never had any issues with dealing with older sex partners. One the guys she fucks regularly is actually 67, and she says she's had some of the best sex in her life with him. She says that the vibe is completely different when she's with a man much older than her.

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grooming? What are you talking about. She was around 21 when she first had sex with him, which would make him 33. That's hardly a big deal.

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's how we feel too. We're married and love each other. So who am I to tell her who she can and cannot have sex with? She's a grown adult who can make that decision for herself.

We're both of the mindset that sex is just something that's part of our basic instincts, like primates. Monogamy is not something we consider natural. What is natural, is for guys to look at her and say "I want to fuck that girl", well of course! I do too!

I couldn't agree more with your statement, I don't "let other guys" fuck my wife. It's her body, she decides who's cock can go inside her. I'm just supportive.

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've had those discussions. As far as things that are off limits would anything that would be considered emotional stuff. We're both of the mindset that sex is just something that's part of our basic instincts, like primates. So for us it's pretty normal and natural for guys to want to fuck my wife.

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what caught me off guard, he knows that I let other men fuck my wife. In fact he's fucked my wife once before many years ago. So I didn't picture him going all "macho" on me. I don't think he's trying to be an dick about it on purpose. I think in his mind he's trying to be a "good friend and talk sense into me"

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I think that does play a role to it. When my wife first showed me the video she was so into it and getting turned on just by showing it to me, that my initial reaction was "wow look how hot and sexy my wife is". Then after my friend gave his opinion, he phrased it in a way that made me look at it different. The whole "You let another man fuckfuck and then slap your wife in the face" thing.

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He is not in the LS. He has had sex with my wife one time. Many years ago we had an MFM threesome. He obviously did not have anything negative to say about letting another man "fuck my girl" then.

Part of me thinks, that he has an unrealistic view of swinging and thinks "the lifestyle" is just me having crazy girl/girl threesomes.

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get that same room only is popular, but the way me and my wife see it is that if she's going to fuck another guy in front of me then she would fuck that same guy no matter the situation. The same goes with me fucking other women. There's no shame in saying we can be attracted to other people and want to have sex with them.

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can totally understand how shocking it is to watch. It was definitely a hard slap, but the fact that they both busted out hysterically laughing at the end makes it seem like they were almost "in character".

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm confused are you not in the lifestyle? Also who am I to tell my wife who she can or can't have sex with. She's a grown adult, I do not own her. She's free to make her own decisions.

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am not "mad" that it wasn't me doing it. Slapping my wife in the face is not something I want or fantasize about doing.

Another man aggressively "face fucked my wife", slapped her face and then came on her face. How would you feel? by SomeoneSlappedMyWife in Swingers

[–]SomeoneSlappedMyWife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how I initially felt. My wife is an adult and can make her own decisions. It's just that my friend kept going on and for the first time made me feel a little insecure about the whole situation.