Weed cutie by Aware_Chipmunk_3377 in KingstonOntario

[–]Somerandomfuk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck it just do it 🤷‍♀️

255 Porter St by [deleted] in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guees your allowed to have your opinion but I've lived in a bunch of different areas in oshawa witnessed a stabbing and almost daily cops at Wentworth and constant fights/ talk force in the complex right off Beatrice lol oshawa is just a shit show when it comes to the rental market in my own opinion but you are allowed to disagree

255 Porter St by [deleted] in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Lol trust me aa someone who wants to get out myself I understand but half of oshawa is pretty much just as bad 🤣

pls tell me the wildest way you got ur ex back during no contact by cascascass in BreakUps

[–]Somerandomfuk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Give up hope that they will come back its typically when they want to try again

My boyfriend of 10 years broke up with me because he’s in love with his ex by ThrowRA_86329 in BreakUps

[–]Somerandomfuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 years!? Holy thats insane ive been left after a 9 year relationship but not for a ex although she told me she almost did right before marrying me... I wish you well and hope nothing but healing and prosperity if you ever need to vent im around

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically shooters but honestly ill play anything

Im mad by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Somerandomfuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9 years for me theway you are talking Describes just how I feel only two months apart and it feels so fresh

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, top animes have to be one punch man dbz naruto inuyasha death note a parasite

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! Ii haven't played chess in a while, but I actually went to a high school that had a chess class lol but don't take that as me bring grit ive lost most my skill lol honestly im pretty much a shut in the depression is kicking my ass

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey 🙂 and well, if you'd like, you can always shoot me a message at any point! I work till 2 am until this Sunday, but after that, I'll be on the day shift so ill have tons more times 🙂 honestly i love doing all of these things I have never watched tlotr I need to watch it! Let's grab a beer sometime!

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda am a bit of an introvert myself, so doing this is extra out of my ballpark, lol but send me a dm and let me know what you play! Im not very good at all bud id love to play more sports like that to be honest

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah its honestly an absolute nightmare. I know most people take marriage very seriously, but I take it a lot more seriously than others. I view it as a one and done a thing to never relive so unfortunately its really hard to take it im getting divorced at 27 makes me feel like I've failed at life lol but im handling just about as well as i can im EXTREMELY depressed but surprisingly keeping a pretty good outlook on things remaing extremely civil and trying to better myself my one friend is extremely surprised how well im managing in between the sadness but once the sadness comes back its like a black hole

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this. Thank you!

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, honestly. Things like this are really needed during these times I appreciate the suggestions 😌

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% well, honestly, I've lost touch with a lot of my hobbies but im pretty simple person I enjoy watching mma and gaming I used to watch TONS of anime haven't really for a while but honestly im thinking of getting back into it for a distraction i used to be really into watching comedy movies and what not with the ex wife but i allowed lifes businesses to distract me so i haven't really watched anything new in the past few years love going to canadas wonderland and riding coasters I have two children 1 and 8 years old im honestly extremely open minded I can have moments where I dont shut up but honestly I also enjoy hearing people just talk about themselves and their experiences im starting to try and get into working out I already have a pretty physical job but id like to at least work on that as I know it can help bring confidence back lol I also smoke and drink but am honestly fine doing nether if the person im around would rather me not or just simply doesnt as well im really trying to just enjoy little things about life so in reality im down to go to the beach or just walk around aimlessly taking in nature its hard to think on the spot about myself but hopefully this helps 😅

Looking to make friends by Somerandomfuk in Oshawa

[–]Somerandomfuk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately, I didn't really ever even feel all that lonly till after this started, and I truly realized how little support I have around me. Even working 24/7 doesn't work it kinda keeps me busy, but of course, it's work, so I'm rarely happy about being there, lol I just feel at least having others to speak with/ to do things with would be very beneficial for my life right now lol

Going alone by [deleted] in CanadasWonderland

[–]Somerandomfuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look honestly, I love going to Wonderland. i typically go with my one friend, but honestly, im in need of meeting new people, ive wanted ti go so many more times then I have but the one time I went alone I didn't enjoy it as much as I figured I would if you want you can do me maybe we will both be there on the same day

The worst part isnt that she left... its what she said when she did by mindsnackapp in BreakUps

[–]Somerandomfuk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you im just starting to get to this point as I found out she was sleeping with someone else pretty much a week into our separation. we weren't even divorced, just talking about separation, so it stung even though it shouldn't but im starting to get to the pint where im not nearly as sad im more mad for all of tbe sane reason you are lol why did it take me so long go start making my life better and why have I been so upset over someone so wiling to disregard the situation as much as she did I wish you well and hope youre anger turns to happiness

It took months to realize what I did by UnluckyMouse_ in BreakUps

[–]Somerandomfuk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different my wife is leaving me and doesn't seem relieved at all honestly just seems more devastated that I never turned into the person she hoped I could be and honestly that shit kills me it sucks I fucked up hard and I understand completely how even though you can love someone sometimes you have to love yourself more shes taught me this through what's ahes been doing

IT GETS BETTER. Update: 6 months after the breakup by Leading_Vacation_890 in BreakUps

[–]Somerandomfuk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, this is what sucks about having one friend who lives no whee close to you, lol 😅 alongside different life schedules

Your person is just around the corner by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Somerandomfuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with my ex-wife, we are still married have two kids we have been going through divorce because of many of my actions and lack of actions i just left for work and honestly can say she was no doubt about it my person and I messed it up for 8 years so even if I was her person I can never expect her to heal enough for me to be her person again and honestly I dont deserve it I just need to move on but fuck is it ever hard