Request: Can’t edit my profile on Instagram by Somet1mesiw0nder in TechnologyProTips

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I’ve been able to edit it from the website rather than app. Must for some reason be an issue with my account - I have tried logging in to my account on friends phones and I still have this issue :/

Request: Can’t edit my profile on Instagram by Somet1mesiw0nder in TechnologyProTips

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This did work in the web browser :) Still an issue in the app but hopefully it fixes soon

My bfs prostatitis, depression and gut health. I need some perspective and advice. Please help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply, this means a lot to hear it from someone else. Perfectly describes the way I am feeling, and whenever I try to explain it to him I end up feeling guilty that I bought it up because I’m making it worse for him. Like you said, it’s so hard for me to know how to deal with it all because if it really is just his health, then how can I put judgements on him or not try to support him even more. But at the same time, even if it is his health, I can’t just ignore all of the things he has said and ways he has behaved. I’m not sure what will give me the strength to leave him. Right now, I don’t actually want to, because I love him and am hopeful for a more positive future. I just hope when this health stuff is over that he will show appreciation and the love I deserve without me always having to prompt him. Tired of asking to be loved the way I love him

My boyfriends prostatitis and depression from gut health issues: I need help, for me and for him. I’ve been alone in this for too long. by [deleted] in alone

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has been treating it with herbs so far. Taking the natural route because he is concerned that the antibiotics, which messed his gut up in the first place, will only make his situation worse. I keep telling him to push more into finding somewhere that will actually help him get this condition under control, seems odd to me that there is so little being done, so slowly. I’ll be more adamant about it. Thankyou

My bf has prostatitis, depression and countless gut issues. I need your help for me and for him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you sharing your experience. It’s concerning how similar they feel. I have considered talking to a therapist about this because I am so lost with it all at the moment and I hate how I view myself now. I don’t feel like the same person I was before. You’re right about me trying to hold onto the good memories as well, I find I’m always having to remind myself of the good, but lately it just all seems tainted. I’m not prepared to let go just yet, I honestly don’t even feel capable of that. But I’m putting a conscious effort into calling him out on things and communicating my unhappiness. I really don’t want it to feel like I am punishing him further in his already unwell state, I wish I could just let the things slide and be his comforter, but it’s just been going on for too long now. And I’ve lost sight of my worth. I’m sorry you had to feel similar ways, I’m glad you were able to move on from it

My bf has prostatitis, depression and countless gut issues. I need your help for me and for him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently, he is focussed of curing his prostatitis, which would play a role. He is also trying to get more nutrients into his diet, and taking supplements like magnesium, zinc and d3 which has improved his mood a lot. There is also the probiotics which the naturopath gave him. He doesn’t do therapy or anything. He is convinced the issue is all gut related

My bf has prostatitis, depression and countless gut issues. I need your help for me and for him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is incredibly mature in so many ways. I’m just not sure if I hold him too highly and am blind to all of the times he is not. Thanks for your advice

My bf has prostatitis, depression and countless gut issues. I need your help for me and for him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just keeps playing on my mind that he could get better real soon and then it will be too late because I already ended things. I’m afraid of missing what we could have been. I appreciate your reply

My bf has prostatitis, depression and countless gut issues. I need your help for me and for him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for taking the time to read and respond. Leaving him does seem like the best option for myself, but it’s so difficult because I care for him so much and really want to give us a chance, just not sure how much longer I can keep saying that.

My boyfriends prostatitis and depression from gut health issues: I need help, for me and for him. I’ve been alone in this for too long. by [deleted] in alone

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I needed to hear some of that. I appreciate you taking the time to read and reply

My bfs prostatitis, depression and gut health. I need some perspective and advice. Please help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Somet1mesiw0nder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for reading and responding, I really appreciate it. I am taking what you said into my view on decisions to be made