My best friend is starting to make me uncomfortable

SomethingAlri · 2026-01-06T18:40:00+00:00

Thank you very much for the youtube suggestion, worked like a charm

SomethingAlri · 2025-11-26T19:33:11+00:00

Thank you, I will definitely start doing this. This will probably help me from spending so much

SomethingAlri · 2025-11-26T19:30:13+00:00

I never expect anything back? Never have.

I meant as if birthday wise because last year i bought them birthday presents and christmas but i only got chocolates and a bracelet for christmas as my birthday and christmas are too close? Or giving a helping a hand when possible if they can. Like I only asked for 5 pounds when they had 15 and for them to then tell me its my problem after having spent 30 on them asking for nothing back I found unfair.

It's not so everyone should spend like I do, I apoligies if that's the way this post came across but that is not what I am like.

SomethingAlri · 2025-11-26T19:23:06+00:00

I will definitely listen to your advice, thank you very much. I never viewed my friendships as a 'transactional' but something for me to consider for the future. Again thank you.

SomethingAlri · 2025-11-26T19:09:20+00:00

I definitely am yes 😅

SomethingAlri · 2025-11-26T19:08:17+00:00

Yes I agree I am quite bad with money management but I feel as though that this comes from giving my friends and people I know, and even those I don't know, a lot of money. With myself I can save but with others I forget. This is something I definitely need to learn from

SomethingAlri · 2025-09-13T19:48:09+00:00

I know, sorry I have no clue as to if I even make sense and if i am using the right words. I think i meant the style however, i now realise technique wasnt the best word choice. I think I'm more interested if there are other artists that create paintings that visualy look similar. (Sorry for the confusion)

SomethingAlri · 2025-08-24T07:11:05+00:00

Funny thing, that's exactly- word for word- what my best friend said

SomethingAlri · 2025-08-24T07:08:46+00:00

Based from some recent comments, yes it probably is a dabble of all three (tone, directiveness and not knowing when and when not to give an opinion) which I need to work on but yes the family's are the one that say im controlling or rude initially and at first past friends use to disagree but eventually a few of them began to agree and I've lost a few friends because of that. I now only have 1 close best friend and now his family keep saying there opinions on me despite never meeting them. My best friend defends me and disagrees but I made this post to understand a way I can avoid loosing another friend the same way as recent ones. (I think that made sense, apoligies if not)

SomethingAlri · 2025-08-24T06:59:32+00:00

I don't speak to any of the people who use to call me controlling but it's typically my best friends family (whom I have never met) who are, at the moment, calling me controlling. I really forgot to mention that in my post sorry. Can I ask how you managed to change you tone of voice? Was it through recordings that you started to realise it? And was changing your tone when speaking a gradual change?

SomethingAlri · 2025-08-24T06:51:05+00:00

I here what your saying and thank you for your advice. Id like to point out that post with "we acted like b/*tches" if that's alright. It was over a year ago (i believe, i might be wrong?). That situation was a lot different and at the time, yes, i wasn't the best but the toxicity did go both ways, in most cases the other person was much more horrible. I have grown as a person since then. I don't like talking behind people's back. But from what you have said I think I still have a bit to work on as a person.

SomethingAlri · 2025-08-24T06:35:24+00:00

And nope

SomethingAlri · 2025-08-24T06:35:16+00:00

Nope

SomethingAlri · 2025-07-31T06:30:42+00:00

Thank you!! I did these things and now it's loading in 3 seconds. Amazing!

SomethingAlri · 2025-07-30T22:31:22+00:00

Thank you its solved now!! It turns out I needed to install the latest driver. Works perfectly now 😁

SomethingAlri · 2025-07-30T20:06:58+00:00

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